What to wear to a sex party — and where to shop our fave picks

Ideal for those dipping their toe into the BDSM world for the first time, these cuffs won’t break the bank.

Made with strong faux leather, these beginner-friendly cuffs have silver-toned fixtures with centre clips and rivets, as well as buckles to make the fit tighter or looser depending on the mood.

“Material is soft and feels comfortable when worn… very sturdy, look sexy… perfect for your first set of cuffs!” one reviewer said as they gave these cuffs a five-star rating.

Want to streamline your sex party experience and avoid any faff with stockings? This bodysuit (see: bodystocking) is the one for you.

Made from an all-over stretch fishnet lace, this bodystocking goes from your nips to your toes and features a solid waistband with a cut out bottom and attached stockings.

If you’re headed to a bondage party, you might want to add a little extra spice to your outfit with a mask — like this bunny option from Ann Summers that also comes with a collar.

The set is made from faux leather and features gold-toned studding detail to give a luxury finish. Both the mask and collar can be adjusted using the buckle at the back.

They say the devil is in the details — which is why we’re obsessed with these studded nipple covers.

The faux leather base (which looks so luxe despite the low price point) is adorned with gold-toned studs plus a piercing-style O-ring so you can attach any manner of sexy chains.

Yep, no accessory is too small when it comes to sex parties.

Nothing says ‘sex party’ like a latex bodysuit — and this one has easy access from the front and behind. Yep, with just a quick slip of the zip, you’ll be ready to play.

What’s more, the natural latex curves and cradles around your body, creating a silhouette that’ll have you feeling — and looking — sexy AF.

Fancy spicing up your sex party experience even more? These latex briefs come with an inner dildo, so you can enjoy the pleasure of penetration — and no one else has to know... unless you want them to, of course.

Measuring 4.7 inches in length and 4 inches in circumference, the inner dildo — which can be removed if you fancy wearing the latex briefs without — boasts a realistic feel with artificial vein detailing. For the most enjoyable experience, be sure to use this with plenty of water-based lube.

Stockings are one of those garments that have the power to divide opinion. Some people think they’re the sexiest thing you can wear and for others, it’s a a strong ‘no thanks’.

But why not switch it up and swap your classic gossamer hold ups for show-stopping high-shine latex? Agent Provocateur describe them as “commandingly kinky” and they’re not wrong.

Pro tip: you’ll need to shine them up with baby oil or special latex shine spray.

Leg harnesses can help elevate your sex party outfit by adding an extra little kinky detail. If you don’t want to go for leather or pleather, a stretchy one like this is a great substitute.

The elastic hugs your figure while adding a little interest to a simple set. Plus, the neon pink is a great way to elevate a black or white outfit and is great for themed parties and sexy club nights.

In our opinion, you can never have too many pairs of nipple pasties — especially when they’re as sexy as these.

Made from PVC, these cross-shaped pasties have silver-toned studs and feature piercing-style O-rings, which are ideal for connecting to your kinky accessories. Think: leashes and chains...

Intrigued by gimp masks but not quite at that stage of your sex party journey? Let us introduce you to this fishnet bondage hood.

Offering a beginners route towards heavier bondage like gimp masks and suits, this hood combines fishnet with wet-look detailing. The mouth hole provides the perfect opportunity for play access, while the lace-up fastening keeps your bondage hood secure during hardcore sessions.

Body chains are in — and not just for sex parties, as we’ve seen a fair share at festivals etc as well — so obviously, if you love a kinky aesthetic, you’re going to want to rock one.

Bluebella’s black and gold chain harness is pretty and delicate while still looking raunchy. “This beautiful design connects a collar and a soft underband with cascading gold-tone chains that effortlessly follow the movements of your body,” says the maker.

For an even more dramatic effect, wear it without anything underneath.

If you want to try out corsetting but aren’t quite ready for waist cinching, a soft-boned corset like this can be a sexy (and comfy) alternative.

The padded cups create a dramatic silhouette, and the front-clasps make it easier to take off than corsets and bustiers that lace up at the back. The detailing is also super sexy and delicate.

This underbust corset can be worn over an outfit to add an extra kinky detail, or it can be worn on its own; putting all the spotlight on you — nipple pasties, optional.

The faux leather is stretchy and adjustable for a comfortable fit on most bodies. “Adjust and tighten with the faux leather straps and sturdy buckles to give your figure the perfect, custom shape,” says Bondara.

While this piece is one size, the stretch is very giving so try it over a bodysuit or team it with faux leather panties for the full shebang.

If you’re into nipple play, these nipple clamps ought to be your sex party plus one.

Complete with a sparkling crystal chain, this luxury offering is gold plated and engraved with the Agent Provocateur logo. Talk about high-end erogenous zones.

Practical and pretty, this bra and garters restraint set is both lingerie *and* cuff restraints — ideal for the BDSM inclined. It can be worn over other pieces or on its own for a show-stopping effect and the stretchy elastic means the one size goes a long way.

“Metal, wide ring hardware adds a boldness, allows a secure fit, and is excellent for attaching the matching clip wrist restraints for all-levels bondage play,” says Lovehoney. “Garters built into the panties can be adjusted to fit your thighs and are screaming to have thigh-highs fastened to them.”

Hold-ups or stockings are a sex party staple; elevating any lingerie set and adding a little more coverage should you want it. If you’re not wearing suspender straps, these adhesive hold-ups are the perfect choice.

Getting *wet* has never looked so chic, thanks to this mac from luxury lingerie brand, Agent Provocateur.

Ideal for wearing over your sex party outfit as you travel there, this high-shine mac has pink detailing with a belt to emphasise the waist. Oh, and did we mention it’s Paris Hilton approved?

Available in gunmetal or gold, these handcuffs are the ultimate luxury playtime accessory.

As elegant as they are sexy (and with real gold plating) these cuffs are engraved with the motto: “My pleasure is your weakness, my desire is your power”.

Best of all? Avoid any awkward mishaps — these cuffs unfasten with an easy release button, so you never have to worry about lost keys! No one does cuffing season like Agent Provocateur.