
Syeda Khaula Saad
Syeda is a sex & relationships writer who shares way too much about her sex life in the name of journalism. Her work can be seen in Playboy, Glamour, and The Cut. She also founded Brown Lotus, a sex & relationships magazine for South Asian women.
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Latest from Syeda Khaula Saad

The Kinks Therapists Say Couples Are Most Curious About Right Now
And expert tips for exploring them safely with your partner.

How to Get Out of a Situationship Without Losing Your Mind
Step one: Stop rereading their texts like they’re ancient scrolls.

“Benching” Is Yet Another Toxic Dating Trend
Gives a whole new meaning to all the “roster” talk happening out there too.

40 Best Long-Distance Relationship Quotes to Fully Express Your Love
For when you can't quite find the words to express how much your long-distance love means to you—and how much you miss them—these can help.


Let’s Talk About the Hypersexuality That Can Happen After Being Sexually Assaulted
Surviving sexual assault often reshapes your entire approach to sex—and not always in the way that you may think.



60 Cute New Year's Eve Pickup Lines to Start 2024 Off Strong
"I heard your resolution was to meet your soul mate. Well, I’m right here."

15 Actually-Helpful Ways to Stop Thinking About Someone
We asked relationship therapists for their most healing advice.

