Zachary Zane
Zachary Zane is the author of Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto and co-author of Men’s Health: Best. Sex. Ever. He is currently Grindr’s sex and relationship expert, and his work has been featured in the New York Times, Rolling Stone, Washington Post, Cosmo, GQ, Playboy, and more.
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Latest from Zachary Zane
What I Learned From Giving a Secret Hand Job at the Frat Bro Christmas Party
I thought I hated fraternities…until a sneaky holiday hookup opened my queer little eyes.
Bisexual Visibility Is Good, but Bi Community Is Better
This Bisexual Awareness Week, I want us to be more than just visible.
Cohabitating When You’re Polyamorous Doesn’t Work for Every Dynamic
But when it does, it can be seriously validating and full of joy. Here's how five ethically non-monogamous people do it.
19 Polyamory Books and Resources to Help Inform Your ENM Journey
Reliable, expert-backed information on ethical non-monogamy is more accessible than ever—here’s what’s worth your time.
Ever Wonder What Goes Down at a Swingers Resort?
All the (very sexy) details you need to know, from someone who’s been going for half a decade.
After a Decade of Being Poly, I'm Temporarily Goingan open relationship Monogamous—But My GF Isn't
She didn't think it seemed fair. Let me explain why it actually makes (a lot) of sense.
I Sucked the Biggest Dick in the Dick-Sucking Train at Hedonism’s Bi Week Takeover
Call me the little c*ck-sucker who could.
Swinger Stereotypes Made Me Think I Could Never Actually *Be* One
Now, hotel room orgies with other bisexuals double my age make me feel like I belong.
Watching My Girlfriend Have Sex With Other People Made Me Rethink Everything I Knew About Jealousy
The idea that poly folks can’t or shouldn’t get jealous about their partner having other partners is, quite frankly, unrealistic.
Let This Couple Prove that Polyamory Actually Can Last Long-Term
Ed and Diana have been together—and poly—since long before the rise of ethical non-monogamy in the cultural zeitgeist. Here’s how they’ve made it work.
Polyamory Doesn't Have to Be This Complicated
With increased poly visibility comes a deluge of misunderstanding on what polyamory should actually feel like. Allow me to course correct.
