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Not all sex positions were invented with a woman or vagina-having person in mind, unfortunately. But here are the best sex positions that stimulate every and all parts of the vulva - from clitoris-rubbing positions, to deep penetration that puts pressure on the G-spot. These positions work if you are sleeping with someone with a penis, or a partner of any gender identity wearing a strap-on.
Figure Eight
This position will get you double the orgasmic pleasure: Your partner's penis should move in circular motions to stimulate the inside of your vagina. At the same time, their pubic bone can lightly rub against your clitoris. This is a slow-building, easy-orgasm position that allows you to lie back and let your partner please you with long, sensual strokes.
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Tight Squeeze
Prepare to take total control. With your legs clenched and your ankles crossed, you can feel the entire length of your partner's penis or strap-on, and grip it tight, creating loads of feel-good friction as they thrust deep. While you're rocking away, have them reach under you and play with your breasts and nipples. Though this move offers really luxury sensations, there isn't a lot of motion, so it's a prime pose for people with penises hoping to hold off on climaxing.
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The Dragon
Get ready for an electrifying experience...The circular stimulation of your partner's penis or strap-on will slowly stimulate your entire vagina, which, if you're able to orgasm through penetrations, will bring on a super strong orgasm. There isn't a lot of motion with this position, so it's a good one to try if you have a penis-owning partner who's prone to coming quickly. Ask them to explore the more neglected parts of your body like your back and the base of your neck with their lips, tongue, and teeth. This position is all about YOU.
On the Edge
This is one position that is sure to feel incredible because you control both the depth of penetration and the intensity of clitoral stimulation. Your partner will love it because it gives them a chance to reach around and let their hands wander. Have them use the pads of their fingers to lightly stroke your butt, back, and thighs. Plus, they're in prime position to stroke and kiss your breasts, face, and neck.
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The G-force
This move means you have to hand over the reins to your partner, but it's worth it. For those who know the power of the G-spot, the deep, intense penetration will send you spinning. The G-Force is also the perfect position for your partner to be inside you while using their hand to stimulate your clitoris. If you can surrender your on-top status, this is one position where the Force will be with you.
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Up, Up and Away
If you want goose-bump-inducing friction try this: keep your legs high and close together creating a super-tight fit. And since your partner is entering you at a slight (about thirty-degree) angle, you both get a down-there sensation that's very distinct from what you're used to in the missionary or doggy position. You can stroke your own clitoris and labia while your partner pumps away. Or just lie back and luxuriate in how oh-so-fabulous your body feels.
Side Wind-Her
In this position, your partner will gyrate their hips to ensure every thrust hits a new pleasure zone inside you, keeping you on the edge of orgasm (if penetration does it for you). Since they're enjoying being the power behind this position, let them do the work while you lie back, relax, and get your moan going.
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8. Standing tiger/ crouching dragon
This one's all about focusing on your own climax. In this position you can easily reach your clitoris with one hand, and with your partner's penis or strap-on angled to hit the front wall of your tightened vagina, you're in perfect position for generous G-spot stimulation. And with their hands on your hips, they get pleasure from controlling the angle and pace of thrusting.
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Frisky Floor Show
Unique and ultimately satisfying, this position elevates your buttocks, allowing your partner to enter you from behind and thrust downward at a unique angle. The internal pressure created by the force of their thrusting will stimulate your clitoris from the inside. Plus, the southern direction of the plunge will increase their chances of hitting your ultra sensitive G-spot.
Face-to-Face Fandango
Unlike other deep-access positions, this one allows for optimum eye contact, kissing, and touching. Your partner enters you from on top, while your hands are raised above your head and out behind you. They can play with your breasts with their hands or tongue, and it's up to them them to maximise the pleasure you feel.
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