If your sex life has started feeling a little...predictable, first of all: Totally normal. When you know exactly what gets you (or your partner) off every single time, it's easy to stick with what works. But every now and then, it's fun to throw a little novelty into the mix—and no, that doesn't have to mean renting out a sex dungeon or spending $3K on a custom leather harness. Sometimes it's as simple as trying a new sex position, sharing a fantasy you've never said out loud, or finally buying the sex toy that's been sitting in your cart for six months.
That's all a sex bucket list really is: a collection of fantasies, experiences, and sexy things you've always wanted to try, whether you're with a long-term partner, dating around, or happily flying solo. "A couple's sex bucket list is an agreed-upon list of sexual activities and experiences they want to try together," says LELO sexpert, licensed psychologist, and certified sex therapist Laurie Mintz. "At its core, it helps partners communicate openly about sex, break free from sexual ruts, and intentionally spice things up."
But creating one isn't just about checking things off a list. "Desire doesn't necessarily thrive in extreme familiarity," says certified sexologist and Loveline co-host Tara Suwinyattichaiporn, PhD. "It thrives in novelty, excitement, adoration, and devotion."
Whether you're looking to shake up date night, explore a fantasy, or simply remind yourself that your vibrator has more than one setting, consider this your sign to get a little adventurous. Ahead, the ultimate sex bucket list to inspire your next "well...that was hot" moment.
1. Put on a show.
"Research shows novelty increases dopamine and oxytocin," says Dr. Tara. "And for people who love adventure and excitement, this can be correlated to sexual satisfaction." Whether you're performing for an audience of one or stepping outside your comfort zone, this can be a seriously fun way to shake things up.
2. Try the Yab-Yum position.
Think of Yab-Yum as foreplay for your soul. Inspired by tantric practices, it's all about syncing your breath, gaze, and touch with your partner. "It's a beautiful cocktail of arousal and emotional closeness," says Dr. Tara. Whether you're having sex or just sitting there face-to-face, heart-to-heart, the goal is to be fully seen, grounded, and, yeah, probably a little turned on. Hot tip: Try it without sex the first time and see if you don’t end up making out anyway.
3. Start (or join!) a sexy book club.
Whether you do this with your partner or your best friends, Dr. Tara says there’s nothing better than reading a super raunchy book and comparing notes afterward. Not only will you probably find some inspo to add to your actual sex bucket list (like, idk, having sex in a barn or something), but it also works great as mental material the next time you need a little stimulation. Plus? There’s so much erotica out there—everything from classic romance with plenty of spice to outer-space tentacle sex. You know, for research.
4. Experiment with different kinks.
A kink is anything outside of what's considered "conventional" that adds to your arousal—and there's no shortage of options. Maybe you're curious about spanking, sensory play, latex, role play, or something you've only ever read about. You won't know what does (or doesn't) do it for you until you explore a little.
5. Wear a strap-on.
Whether you're having sex with someone with a vagina or trying pegging (which fully deserves another spot on this list), wearing a strap-on can be an empowering experience. Everyone deserves to feel what it's like to have a dick.
6. Switch it up.
A switch is someone who enjoys both dominant and submissive roles. While most people identify somewhere along the spectrum, and it can change depending on your partner, it can be illuminating to at least try a role reversal. So, if you're usually submissive, ask your partner or next hookup if they're down to let you top for a night, or vice versa.
7. Try massage as role play.
Sure, a massage feels good on its own—but adding a little role play can make it even hotter. Pretend your partner is your massage therapist, build a little anticipation, and, if everyone's enthusiastically on board, let the "appointment" naturally turn into something more.
8. Sleep with two people in one day.
Single? Non-monogamous? Looking for an adrenaline rush? While practicing safe sex, of course, and if the opportunity presents itself, consider embracing the rush that comes with sleeping with two different people in one day.
9. Wear an animal tail butt plug.
If you're already a fan of butt plugs, why not try one with a tail? You can role-play being someone's pet, but like, a super cute unicorn pet.
10. No kissing.
It sounds counterintuitive, but taking kissing off the table can make the rest of your hookup feel even more intense. When one form of intimacy is off-limits, you naturally pay more attention to everything else—touch, eye contact, dirty talk, and anticipation. Sometimes the hottest thing you can do is hold back.
11. Hook up with someone who shares your gender.
You don't have to label yourself to explore your sexuality. If you've ever been curious about kissing, flirting with, or hooking up with someone who shares your gender identity, there's nothing wrong with following that curiosity, as long as everyone's enthusiastically on board. Who knows? You might discover a side of yourself you hadn't explored before.
12. Have a threesome.
You knew this one was coming, and honestly, it's a classic fantasy for a reason. Whether you're the unicorn, you and your partner invite a third, or you and a friend are looking for someone new, communication and enthusiasm from everyone involved are what make the experience hot.
13. Have an FFM threesome.
Okay, so yes, an FFM threesome is basically the classic of classics. Two women and one man, a whole lot of sensuality. If you identify as a woman and you're bisexual or bicurious, consider adding this one to the top of your list. The key? Make sure everyone involved is genuinely excited about it (not just doing it to fulfill a fantasy), set clear boundaries, and talk through expectations before clothes come off.
14. Try an MMF threesome.
When people picture a threesome, they often default to two women and one man. But an MMF threesome deserves just as much attention. If this dynamic appeals to you, talk through boundaries and expectations beforehand so everyone feels comfortable and excited going in.
15. Explore double penetration.
If you have a vagina and are turned on by double penetration, remember that that doesn't mean you need two people. Thanks to the genius invention that is dildos, you can experience anal and vaginal penetration at the same time by adding a dildo during partnered sex, or skip bio penises altogether and use two dildos (with plenty of lube) on yourself.
16. Make Yes/No/Maybe lists.
Also known as red, yellow, and green lists, Mintz says these handy little lists help you identify, write down, and share your hard and soft boundaries. In the "red" or "no" column, write down things you have no interest in ever trying. The "yellow" or "maybe" column is for things you're curious about but aren't sure you want to experience, and the "green" or "yes" list is for sexual fantasies you absolutely want to try.
17. Give a foot job.
It's like a hand job, but with your feet. Pro tip: Wash those piggies before bestowing your partner with a foot job.
18. Get a foot job.
If giving one isn't your thing, maybe receiving one is. Feet aren't everyone's kink. But for the people who are into them, incorporating both hands and feet into sexy time can be incredibly erotic.
19. Enjoy a round of sensual foot massages.
Okay, if foot jobs sound too extreme, how about a sensual foot massage instead? The feet have tons of nerve endings, and some people even orgasm from foot rubs alone. Even if that doesn't happen for you, slowing down with a sensual foot massage can be surprisingly intimate.
20. Film yourself having sex.
Thinking about making a sex tape? Before you hit record, make sure everyone involved enthusiastically consents, disable any automatic cloud uploads or sharing features, and decide ahead of time what happens to the video afterward. Then, get ready for your close-up.
21. Film yourself masturbating.
If you don't have a partner or just aren't into filming partnered sex, how about a solo video instead? Watching yourself masturbate can be seriously hot, and you might even pick up a tip or two about what really gets you off. Consider it a little self-directed research.
22. Have sex on a pool table.
It's one of those classic sex bucket list fantasies. Sure, it'll probably be less comfortable than it looks in the movies, but that's part of the experience. Try it once, then decide whether it's worth the hype.
23. Have sex on a boat.
Whether it's a cruise, a yacht, a sailboat, or a canoe, hook up on a boat because, well, the motion of the ocean jokes practically write themselves. Just be careful if you're prone to seasickness.
24. Go to a virtual sex party.
Virtual sex parties can be a low-pressure way to dip your toes into exhibitionism, voyeurism, or the idea of group play. Best of all, you can log off whenever you want, all without leaving your couch.
25. Masturbate using only TV or movies.
If porn isn't your thing, challenge yourself to rely on steamy TV shows or movies instead. You might be surprised how effective a particularly spicy scene can be when you let your imagination do the rest.
26. Reenact your favorite TV sex scene.
After watching a particularly steamy scene, try recreating it yourself. Whether you're inspired by Bridgerton, Nobody Wants This, or another favorite, borrowing a little fictional inspiration can be surprisingly fun.
27. Incorporate food in the bedroom.
Whipped cream, chocolate sauce, strawberries...there are plenty of foods that can make foreplay a little sweeter. Just remember that not every food belongs on every body part, so stick to options that are body-safe and easy to clean up.
28. Find your favorite aphrodisiacs.
Oysters get all the attention, but they're far from the only food associated with arousal. Plan a sexy dinner, experiment with different aphrodisiacs, and see if any become part of your regular date-night rotation.
29. Have sex on the washing machine.
It's a classic movie and TV trope for a reason. Whether you're with a partner or flying solo, the vibrations can add a little something extra. Just make sure the machine is sturdy before things get too enthusiastic.
30. Experiment with BDSM.
Try bondage, suggests sexpert Gabi Levi. "There's nothing like being tied up," she says. Of course, talk it over with your partner first, establish boundaries, and make sure you're both enthusiastically on board before exploring together.
31. See if CBD products amp up your sex life.
Curious whether CBD belongs in your bedroom routine? Levi says some people find it helps them relax and quiet racing thoughts, which can be especially helpful if you tend to get stuck in your head during sex.
32. Play strip-poker.
Levi says everyone wins at strip poker. Don't know how to play? Swap poker for your favorite card or board game. It's really the "strip" part that's doing the heavy lifting here.
33. Try to have a nipple-only orgasm.
They exist, says Levi. If you're curious, check out our guide to nipple orgasms and see whether you can make it happen.
34. Experiment with temperature play.
If you’ve got metal and glass toys, you can run them under cold water for added sensation. If you don’t, you can always play with ice, Levi suggests. Run an ice cube over your partner’s erogenous zones and then have them do the same to you. Following up with your breath can make the sensation even more intense.
35. Get into wax play.
Pick up candles specifically designed for wax play (yes, that distinction is important), then slowly drip the warm wax onto your partner's skin and take turns exploring what feels good. It should feel warm, not painful, says Levi.
36. Try to ejaculate on your partner’s face.
If you’re someone who experiences vaginal ejaculation, this can be a fun way to explore a different power dynamic. And if you just can’t bring yourself to ejaculate (not everyone does or can), getting to orgasm is still a win.
37. Allow your partner to ejaculate on your face.
If this fantasy appeals to you, add it to your bucket list. As with anything else on here, enthusiastic consent and clear communication come first.
38. Try to go a week without sex, but do tease each other constantly the whole time.
Challenge yourselves to skip sex for a week while teasing each other every chance you get. The anticipation alone can make finally giving in feel even hotter.
39. Lick every part of their body.
Take your time exploring every inch of your partner's body. Don't rush straight to the obvious erogenous zones. Half the fun is building anticipation.
40. Try edging.
Edging is the practice of bringing yourself (or your partner) close to orgasm, then backing off before climax. According to Sarrah Rose, CEO of Elixir, it can make orgasms feel even more intense and help you better understand what your body enjoys.
41. Try to teach yourself how to pompoir.
Pompoir is the practice of squeezing your vaginal muscles during sex for added stimulation. There are lots of ways to strengthen those muscles. Rose recommends using a jade egg, though you can also practice with pelvic floor exercises and no toys at all.
42. Get a set of nipple clamps.
They might sound like a lot, but many nipple clamps are adjustable, so you can start with just a gentle tug instead of intense pressure. Rose says that sensation can increase arousal and make nipple stimulation even more pleasurable.
43. Try orgasm denial.
Sounds counterintuitive, but orgasm denial can be incredibly hot. Try bringing yourself or your partner right to the edge of orgasm, then backing off before climax. Whether you make it a few minutes or a few days is up to you.
44. Try a tingling arousal gel on your clit.
Some people call it a "liquid vibrator," and while that might sound too good to be true, a tingling arousal gel can add an extra layer of sensation during solo or partnered play. Just remember that a little usually goes a long way.
45. Order a sex toy you’ve never tried.
Yes, you can go to your local sex shop and pick up a new toy. But if you're nervous or self-conscious about it, Mintz suggests ordering online. Plus, you can read up and comparison shop so you know you're getting exactly what you want.
Comparison shopping aside, browsing for sex toys can also be a fun activity to do with your partner. You never know what might catch your eye—or become your new favorite.
46. Buy a sex game.
Looking for a low-pressure way to shake things up? A sex game can take the guesswork out of trying something new. Whether it's conversation prompts, dares, or challenges, letting the game call the shots can be surprisingly exciting.
47. Write your own erotic fanfic of you and your partner.
They say to write what you know, and what better way to do that than by incorporating what you know about you and your partner’s current sex life and injecting a healthy amount of fantasy into the mix? You can read it aloud or have them read it to themselves so you can watch their every reaction. Don’t worry about seeming silly; odds are they’ll be flattered and curious.
48. Try a sex toy by yourself and report back to your partner about it.
Tell your partner exactly what you liked so they can recreate the experience—or, if you're both into it, show them firsthand. If the toy becomes a new favorite, bring it into partnered sex too.
49. Have your partner try a sex toy by themselves, then report back to you.
Bonus: Have them try it out the second time in front of you. If you need inspiration, consider a personal massager, butt plug, vibrating dildo, or cock ring. There are plenty of options to explore together.
50. Use sex toys together.
Once you've figured out what you each like on your own, try incorporating those toys into partnered sex. A little creativity, plenty of lube, and the right toy can completely change the experience. Or invest in a toy designed specifically for couples.
51. Try vibrating panties with your partner in public.
Vibrating panties are one of those fantasies that's surprisingly easy to turn into reality. Wear them on date night, while grabbing drinks, or during a night out and let your partner control the settings. Just make sure you're somewhere you'll both actually enjoy the distraction.
52. Have a boudoir shoot for yourself.
Whether you keep the photos private or share them with a partner, a boudoir shoot can be a seriously empowering experience. If you can, spring for professional hair, makeup, and lighting, and make a whole day out of it.
53. Role-play with your partner.
Break out of your usual routine by pretending to be someone else for the night. Mintz says role-play is a great way to introduce novelty into your sex life, and you might be surprised how much of a difference a wig and accent can make. Strangers meeting at a bar, coworkers, fictional characters… The possibilities are pretty endless.
54. Have your partner try being dominant to you.
If you're usually the one taking charge, try handing over the reins for a night. Hair pulling, spanking, or light restraint can all be fun ways to explore power dynamics. Just talk through boundaries and agree on a safe word beforehand.
55. Try being dominant over your partner.
Or maybe you're the one who wants to take charge. Whether that means giving directions, incorporating light impact play, or simply calling the shots for the night, experimenting with dominance can help you discover a whole new side of your dynamic.
56. Have super slow, tantric sex.
Think of tantric sex as a blend of sex and meditation. The focus is on slowing down, staying present, and building emotional and physical intimacy. Bonus: Many people find it deeply relaxing, and the slower pace can make orgasms feel even more intense.
57. Have a quickie.
Squeeze one in before dinner reservations, guests arrive, or you have to head out the door. Sometimes knowing you only have a few minutes is exactly what makes it so hot.
58. Try a finger up the butt.
Before jumping into anal play, try starting with a finger. Whether it's yours or your partner's, plenty of lube and a slow approach can make exploring anal stimulation much more comfortable.
59. Try a toy up the butt.
If the finger thing from number 58 did something for you, take the next step by trying an anal toy. This is called anal training and can help you work up to penetrative anal sex if that's something you're interested in exploring.
60. Try rimming.
Rimming (also called analingus) is mouth-to-anus oral sex. Whether you're giving or receiving, the experience is often very different from what people expect. If everyone's interested, try both roles and see what you enjoy.
61. Try penetrative anal sex.
You've been working up to this, and anal sex isn't something you want to rush. It can be extremely pleasurable for people with both penises and vaginas (yes, anal orgasms are a thing!), so if it's on your bucket list, take it slow, use plenty of lube, and read up on anal sex tips before diving in.
62. Peg your partner.
If you don't have a penis, try using a strap-on for a completely different kind of play. Wearing a harness can feel incredibly empowering, and being on the giving side can be just as erotic as receiving.
63. Have silent sex.
Challenge yourselves to stay completely silent from foreplay to finish. It sounds easy until you're trying not to laugh, moan, or whisper. The extra restraint can make every touch feel even more intense.
64. Have super loud, moan-heavy sex.
If you're usually quiet during sex, try letting yourselves be a little louder than usual. Sometimes leaning into moans, dirty talk, and verbal encouragement can make the whole experience feel more uninhibited.
65. Try dirty talk.
Not sure where to start? Begin by describing what feels good, what you want your partner to do next, or what you're fantasizing about. Sometimes the simplest dirty talk is the hottest.
66. Sext what you’re going to do to your partner while they’re at work.
With their consent, send your partner a flirty message teasing what you'd like to do later. Building anticipation throughout the day can make finally seeing each other that much hotter.
67. Ask your partner for nudes.
Feel free to give them a little direction if they aren't sure what you're looking for. And once they trust you with those photos, keep them private.
68. Send your partner nudes.
With their consent, surprise your partner with a sexy photo when you know they'll appreciate it. As always, avoid including your face or identifiable details if privacy is a concern, and only send intimate photos to someone you trust.
69. Watch ethical porn with your partner.
Explore different styles together until you find something you both enjoy. Ethical porn prioritizes consent, fair pay, and respectful working conditions, making it a great option if that's important to you.
70. Take turns reading each other erotica.
Whether you're into romance, queer stories, ethical non-monogamy, fantasy, or something more niche, there's erotica for just about every taste. Take turns reading passages aloud and see where the story leads.
71. Make a sex playlist.
Music has a way of making just about everything better, and sex is no exception. Chances are you already have a song or two that gets you in the mood (it's Marvin Gaye for me). Build a playlist, hit shuffle, and see what happens when you let the music set the pace.
72. Have sex in another state.
There are probably plenty of places within driving distance for a spontaneous weekend getaway. Plan a spontaneous weekend getaway, book a cozy B&B, and don't be surprised if you spend more time in the room than exploring the town.
73. Have sex in another country.
If international travel is already on your bucket list, why not make this part of the adventure? Whether it's with your partner or someone you meet while traveling, a vacation hookup can make for one very memorable passport stamp.
74. Have sex on another continent.
If you're already traveling abroad, consider checking this one off too. Best-case scenario, you have unforgettable vacation sex. Worst case? You still got an incredible trip out of it.
75. Have sex in a car.
Don't think it's just for teenagers. Car sex can still be incredibly hot. Just make sure you're parked somewhere private and that the emergency brake is on.
76. Use lube.
If you've never used lube before, consider this your sign. It can make just about every kind of sex more comfortable, more pleasurable, and, yes, more slippery. Once you find one you like, you'll probably wonder why you waited so long.
77. Upgrade your lube.
Once you've discovered the basics, branch out. Different lubes are designed for different types of play, sensations, and toys, so experiment until you find your favorites. If you're not sure where to start, we've got plenty of recommendations.
78. Have sex that’s focused just on oral.
Penetration isn't the only kind of sex. Build an entire hookup around oral and see what happens when neither of you is rushing toward intercourse. You might discover it's your favorite part all along.
79. Go to a sex party.
You don't have to participate to enjoy the experience. Even just attending a sex party can open your eyes to new fantasies, conversations, and ways of thinking about sex.
80. Take a sex workshop class together.
There are more online sex workshops than ever, so learning something new doesn't even require leaving the house. Best-case scenario? You both pick up a few new skills and have a lot of fun practicing.
81. Take a fetish quiz together.
Ever wondered if you're both secretly curious about the same fantasy? A fetish quiz can help you discover new interests, compare answers, and spark conversations you might not have had otherwise. Whether you take one online or through an app, you may be surprised by what you both say yes to.
82. Have sex in a (private) pool.
Whether it's an inflatable pool in your backyard or a private infinity pool on vacation, pool sex can be a fun change of scenery. Just remember that water washes away the vagina's natural lubrication, so keep a silicone-based lube nearby if penetration is involved.
83. Have sex in the shower.
Shower sex gets a bad rap for being awkward, but with the right positions (and a non-slip mat), it can absolutely live up to the fantasy.
84. Have sex in the bathtub.
Unlike shower sex, the bathtub gives you a little more stability—and a much more romantic setting. Add warm water, bubbles, and a few candles, and you've got a pretty memorable date night.
85. Have sex while you’re blindfolded.
Taking away one sense can make every touch feel more intense. If you don't have a blindfold, a sleep mask, scarf, or tie can work just as well—as long as everyone is comfortable with the setup.
86. Have sex while your partner is blindfolded.
Then switch roles. When your partner can't see what's coming next, even familiar touches can feel brand new.
87. Try a remote-controlled long-distance sex toy.
Long-distance doesn't have to mean putting your sex life on pause. App-controlled toys let one partner take the controls from anywhere, making virtual intimacy feel a whole lot more interactive.
88. Have phone sex.
It might feel awkward at first, but once you get talking, phone sex can be surprisingly hot. Describe what you're doing, ask what they're doing, and don't be afraid to share exactly what you'd do if you were together.
89. Have sex somewhere other than a bed.
Break out of the bedroom and see how a change of scenery changes the mood. Whether it's the couch, the kitchen counter, or a cozy blanket in front of the fireplace, sometimes a new setting is all it takes to make things feel fresh.
90. Try a flavored lube.
Flavored lube can make oral sex a little more fun, especially if one or both of you don't love the taste of bodily fluids. There are dozens of flavors out there, so pick one that actually sounds appealing and see if it earns a permanent spot in your nightstand.
91. Try to orgasm at the same time as your partner.
Simultaneous orgasms can be incredibly intimate, but they're also notoriously difficult to time. If it happens naturally, great. If not, treat it as a fun challenge—not a measure of great sex.
92. Have your partner try to give you multiple orgasms.
Challenge your partner to see how many orgasms they can help you have. Whether that's through oral sex, a vibrator, or a combination of both, don't be afraid to slow down between rounds if you need to.
93. Try to give your partner multiple orgasms.
Yes, you can and should return the favor. It might take some practice to make it happen, but half the fun is exploring what feels good together, not hitting a certain number.
94. Try 69-ing with your partner.
Few positions are as iconic—or as divisive—as 69. Some people love the simultaneous pleasure, while others find it impossible to focus. There's only one way to figure out which camp you're in.
95. Try to give yourself multiple orgasms.
If your body is capable of multiple orgasms, solo play is a great time to explore what that feels like. Take your time, experiment with pacing, and don't be surprised if your favorite vibrator earns a workout.
96. Have sex standing up.
Standing sex looks more intimidating than it actually is. Lean against a wall, use furniture for support, or have one partner lift a leg for extra stability.
97. Have sex on a couch.
Your couch might not seem exciting, but changing rooms can be enough to make familiar sex feel new again. Plus, the cushions offer a lot more support than you might expect.
98. Have sex on a chair.
Chairs naturally create different angles than a bed or couch, making them surprisingly versatile. A sturdy chair with a back tends to work best, but experiment with what you have and see what feels comfortable.
99. Have sex on a sex swing.
If you've ever been curious about a sex swing, consider this your sign. They can make certain positions easier to hold, open up new angles, and add a playful element that's hard to recreate any other way.
100. Have sex on the floor.
Sometimes all it takes is moving a few feet away from the bed. Throw down a blanket or rug if you want a little extra cushioning, and enjoy the change of scenery.
101. Make sex last all day.
Stretch your usual routine into an all-day affair. That could mean making out over morning coffee, flirting by text all afternoon, edging before dinner, and finally finishing things off before bed. Think of it as foreplay with a very generous timeline.
102. Recreate your favorite movie (or TV) sex scene.
Bridgerton. Babygirl. The Idea of You. There are tons of hot movie sex scenes out there to reenact. And if you don't have a boat or a rainy forecast, get creative—half the fun is figuring out how to make a cinema-worthy sex scene work at home.
103. Have emotional sex.
Sometimes the hottest sex isn't the wildest—it's the kind where you feel completely seen. Slow things down, make eye contact, stay present, and don't be surprised if the emotional connection makes the physical connection even more intense. And yes, if tears happen, that's more common than you might think.
104. Have breakup/goodbye sex.
Breakup sex has earned its reputation for a reason: heightened emotions can make everything feel more intense. That said, it's not always the healthiest choice, so check in with yourself before deciding whether this chapter really needs one last encore.
105. Have make-up sex.
There's nothing wrong with make-up sex—as long as you've actually made up first. Resolve the conflict, reconnect emotionally, then enjoy the physical chemistry that comes with finally being back on the same team.
106. Leave your partner a sexy surprise.
Hide a flirty note in their suitcase before a trip, leave a pair of underwear under their pillow, or stash a small gift in their work bag for them to discover later. Building anticipation outside the bedroom can be just as hot as what happens once you get there.
107. Have sex in your partner’s childhood home.
There's something undeniably surreal about revisiting the room where your partner grew up. Just be respectful of whoever else is in the house—and lock the door.
108. Have sex in your childhood home.
Revisiting your old bedroom can be unexpectedly nostalgic (and surprisingly hot). Just be mindful of who's home before deciding to relive your teenage years over Thanksgiving.
109. Try a sex challenge for the weekend.
Pick one challenge and commit to it together. Maybe it's trying a new position every day for a week, prioritizing daily intimacy, or exploring a different fantasy each night. The goal isn't perfection—it's keeping things playful.
110. Have your partner eat sushi off your naked body.
If you're feeling theatrical, turn dinner into foreplay by serving sushi off your body. Just keep raw fish away from sensitive areas (and save the wasabi for the plate unless you're looking for a very different kind of sensation).
