130 Cute Nicknames to Call Your Boyfriend

Pet names are one of those relationship things that feel deeply cringe until you’re in love and suddenly calling someone “bunny” with a completely straight face. One minute you’re using their full government name, and the next you’ve developed a nickname that makes perfect sense to the two of you and absolutely no one else. That’s kind of the magic.

Whether you’re looking for pet names for your boyfriend (or partner of any gender, obviously), trying to retire “babe” after heavy rotation, or just curious why couples end up calling each other increasingly ridiculous things, nicknames can be a surprisingly meaningful form of connection. “Using pet names can absolutely increase intimacy and create a sense of emotional closeness,” says Jaime Bronstein, LCSW, relationship therapist and resident therapist at Dating.com. They can also create a more playful dynamic, helping couples feel connected in small, everyday moments—whether that’s through romantic texts, inside jokes, or even handwritten love letters.

Of course, pet names aren’t mandatory, and not using them doesn’t mean anything is wrong with your relationship. As Bronstein notes, healthy relationships aren’t defined by specific behaviors, but by whether both people feel secure, understood, and cared for. Different couples express affection in different ways, whether through nicknames, quality time, acts of service, or understanding each other’s love languages. And if you’re thinking about introducing a new nickname, timing matters. In other words, maybe don’t test-drive “snuggle muffin” on the third date?

Ahead, the best pet names to call your boyfriend, from classic and cute to funny, flirty, and slightly unhinged. Use ’em, tweak ’em, and don’t be afraid to get a little weird with ‘em until you find the perfect one.