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Kayla Kibbe

Associate Sex & Relationships Editor

Kayla Kibbe (she/her) is the Associate Sex and Relationships Editor at Cosmopolitan US, where she covers all things sex, love, dating and relationships. She lives in Astoria, Queens and probably won’t stop talking about how great it is if you bring it up. Follow her on Twitter and Instagram. 

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What Does It Really Mean to Decenter Men From Your Life?

And can you still date them while you do it?

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What Does It Really Mean to Date Intentionally?

It may be time to retire this trend—if only because we seem to have lost the plot re: what it actually means in the first place.

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Please, for the Love of God, Just Break Up With Me Over Text

I am literally begging you to dump me on iMessage.

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What Every Heart Emoji Actually Means

Because sending a 💛 instead of a ❤️ can absolutely change the vibe.

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Your Fully Developed Frontal Lobe Is Coming For Your Relationship

It’s all fun and games ’till somebody’s brain finishes developing.

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Can “Friendfluence” Save Dating?

Why Gen Z daters are merging their love lives with their social circles this year.

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The Best Sex Toy Storage Ideas for Every Collection (and Every Budget)

Your nightstand drawer deserves an upgrade.

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170 Questions to Ask a Guy to Actually Get to Know Him

Funny, flirty, deep, and surprisingly revealing—these Qs can turn small talk into actual connection.

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Everyone Wants Their Man to Propose With an Engagement Boner

If he pops the question without popping wood, does he even like you?

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The 5 Best Dating Apps for Trans Daters

Expert-recommended platforms that offer everything from customizable gender options to features that put you in control of what you share.

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Let the “Strangers” Divorce Memoir Discourse Be Your Reminder That Everyone Needs a GTFO Fund

If you’re married or in a long-term relationship, you should have a financial plan for getting out of that marriage or LTR.

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