Between sex-positive podcasts, an endless array of sex toys at our fingertips, and dating apps designed for hook-ups, we’re arguably living in the most sexually liberated era, like, ever. Yet, some sexual experiences never get spoken about — perhaps through fear of judgment, double standards, or because it’s a story too scandalous to ever share with another soul.
Whatever the reason for their secrecy, these sexual encounters actually serve as a celebration of women’s desire, impulse, and fantasy. Or, at the very least, they make great erotic reading.
Scroll on for 21 of the best secret sex stories.
The best secret sex stories
‘He was almost twice my age’
“I had secret sex with a 65-year-old man. We met in a bar, and he’s probably the person I’ve had the most instant sexual connection with, like, ‘I am going to have sex with that man’. I just knew it to my core. We began a friendship where we’d go for walks, and then one day we just pounced on one another. It was very erotic and he was so worshipping of my body.
I couldn’t tell anyone, I was like 35 at the time, so he was almost twice my age. He got his free pensioner bus pass recently, and I was like, ‘Wow I had sex with a pensioner!’ But if you saw him, you’d understand, he’s like a rock god, with all these tattoos, long hair, amazing style. We’re now good friends, and everyone just sees him as my ‘old pal Tommy*’ and has no idea.” — Laura*, 37
‘I was dating two guys at the same time’
“I was in a situation where I was dating two guys at the same time, even though I hadn’t had the ‘exclusive’ conversation with either. One night, I was hooking up with one of them, and I noticed that while we were having sex in missionary, I got a text from the other guy. I texted the other guy back while the first one was deep in me with his head buried in the pillow, and said I’d be over in less than an hour. The first guy came in me, and I told him I was going home for the night. I headed straight to the other guy’s house and let him hike my skirt up and fuck me against the wall in his backyard until he came in me, too. Then he took me into the shower for another round, and we spent the rest of the night together. I never told either of them, and it’s one of my dirtiest secrets.” — via Reddit
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‘My friend watched as my husband exploded down my throat’
“Last year, an old friend got in contact with me. It was fun at first, but soon became very flirtatious. I am married with children and have talked about being more adventurous. So as the conversation flowed, so did the innuendos. Then one thing led to another, and soon enough, he was telling me what to do to my husband in great detail. I called him on FaceTime, and he watched as I followed every instruction. I took my husband deep in my mouth, and my friend watched as he exploded down my throat. I could see him touching himself, telling me how much he wanted to enter me at the same time. It was a night to remember.” — Saskia*, 38
‘I visited a swingers club’
“I never told my now-ex-husband that just before I met him, I’d spent a year visiting a swingers club as a single girl. I played with men, women, and couples. Explored a lot. I never told him at the beginning of the relationship, and it got harder as the years went by. We were together 15 years, and I never told him.” — via Reddit
‘He came into the hotel room and we went at it’
“I had sex with a married TV presenter. I slid into his DMs after my friend told me she had heard that he was amazing in bed. We got to flirting and arranged to meet in a hotel, it was the hottest knock on the door I’ve ever heard, and he just came in and we went at it. And my friend had heard right.” — Estelle, 34
‘Before I knew it, he was fingering my pussy’
“I’ve had a crush on my best friend’s brother for years, and could tell he was into me as we’ve always flirted. One night after a few too many drinks, we ended up in his bed. At first, I was hesitant. I didn’t want to ruin our friendship or hurt my best friend. But the way he looked at me, and the way his hands roamed my body, I couldn’t resist. We started kissing, and before I knew it, he was fingering my pussy, and I let him get inside me. The sex was crazy, and it was intense, like nothing I’ve ever experienced before. His cock was thick and hard, and he fucked me so hard. I moaned and screamed his name, feeling his cum spill inside me. It was the best orgasm I’ve ever had.
Afterwards, we lay there exhausted from the intensity. He held me close, and I could feel his heart beating against mine. Eventually, I had to go. I snuck out of his room, trying not to wake his brother. Now every time I see him, I can’t help but think about that night. I want him again. I want to feel his cock inside me and to hear him moan my name. But I know I can’t. We can’t be together, but I’ll always have the memory of that secret night, and even that is enough to make me cum.” — via Reddit
‘We masturbate and watch porn’
“Me and my best friend masturbate together, talking about boys and watching porn.” — via Reddit
‘He pulled me to the floor and railed me’
“I love being with married men. There is something so hot about it. I had a threesome once, the wife fell asleep, and the husband woke me up, fingering me (I was sleeping in the middle), then he pulled me to the floor and railed me on the floor by the bed, covering my mouth. He was super rough, actually, for someone who was trying to be quiet. When he came, it was like this amazing, desperate relief.” — via Reddit
‘I had sex in venues across the UK’
“I used to tour around the country, and I have had sex in multiple music/theatre venues across the UK. Unprofessional AF, so of course I haven’t told anyone!” — V*, 31
‘My pussy throbs’
“My pussy throbs every time I meet a stranger I find attractive and I almost always end up fucking them.” — via Reddit
‘After my husband passed, we crossed the line’
“My late husband’s friend and I always flirted and sent each other rude texts, and he would often say he would love to do certain things to me if I weren’t with his best friend. After my husband passed, we crossed the line and we had sex, it was hot, intense, and after over four years of no sex with my husband, it felt so good. It’s never happened again as I’m now in a relationship. If anyone found out what we did (his family and other friends), we’d be crucified.” — via Reddit
‘I’ve been masturbating with a married coworker’
“I’ve never told anyone this… I’m married, and I love my husband so much, but I have been masturbating with a married coworker in his car almost every day on our lunch break for months now. I have become addicted to this and how it makes me feel. We have never had sex, and we won’t ever have sex, but sometimes I let him kiss my nipples or neck when he’s close to cumming. Watching another man jerking off and cumming has ignited such an animalistic response in my body, harder than any orgasm I’ve had with my husband.” — via Reddit
‘I cheated in our marital bed’
“My husband works long hours, and I am often lonely. When he is home, he doesn’t have much of a sex drive. I don’t know if that is because of fatigue or lack of interest. When we do have sex, I enjoy it; however, I am often left feeling unsatisfied, even if I’ve had orgasms. I want more. I have secretly joined multiple matchmaking sites to find male and female partners to have casual sex with. Yesterday, I cheated in our marital bed. I had never done that before; it was always somewhere else. Not only did I cheat, but I had a threesome with two men. I did change the sheets, but I did not wash the cum out of me.” — via Reddit
‘No one would suspect I do that’
“I sext with random guys on the internet. I’m such a good girl in real life, no one would suspect I do that sort of thing.” — via Reddit
‘I’d be mortified if my family found out’
“My new boyfriend is into hotwifing, so we’ve done a few MFM threesomes, and met a guy for sex and filmed it for him. I’d be mortified if my family found out. I think they think I’m a bit of a prude, but that couldn’t be further from the truth!” — via Reddit
‘We kept very quiet, and he finished inside me’
“My boyfriend and I had a shared room with his parents during our trip to Disney. We had our own separate queen-size beds. While we were in bed, he slid into me after I lowered my underwear underneath the sheets. We kept very quiet, and he finished inside me without them knowing.” — via Reddit
‘He is married and also a close friend of my dad’
“I’ve been having an affair with my best friend’s dad. He is a married man and also a close friend of my dad. The first time we skinny-dipped in the pool and had sex. Another time, he picked me up and we had sex in a drive-thru. He asked me if I wanted to keep going with this, and I told him yes. Not long after that, he and my parents had a barbecue and we disappeared for a few minutes, while he fucked me. We’ve even fucked in the changing rooms at Victoria’s Secret.” — via Reddit
‘The flirting just sort of kept escalating’
“A few years ago, I was on a work trip staying in another city. I ended up running into my very hot (and very tattooed) client at the club after an event we had just put on. We got to talking while we were quite drunk, and I guess the flirting just sort of kept escalating. We got an Uber back to his hotel, and I insisted we just get a drink in the lobby, but I guess we couldn’t hold it back much longer. Suddenly, I blinked and there we were in his room, him sitting on the end of his bed while I slowly undressed in front of him. We fucked for literally three hours in every position there is — he even ate my ass, and it felt fucking incredible. I came like four times and he three.
The next day, we were both in shock at what happened and had to continue to work together at our event, suddenly with a very hot secret (literally hours ago, I had his cum leaking out of me). Fast forward a few years, and he recently reached out to me and said he thinks about that night just about every night still (even after he had married). He said it was the best sex of his life (honestly might have been mine, too) and would do it again in a heartbeat if he ever got the chance.” — via Reddit
‘It was the hottest, most intense, passionate sex’
“I had sex with my older brother’s best friend pretty spontaneously a few months ago, and I can’t stop thinking about him. My brother and I actually live together, so it was very quiet and very secret... but it was the hottest, most intense, passionate sex that I’ve ever had. And I’ve got a decent amount of experience (relationships, etc.), I’ve never felt chemistry during sex like this before. I can hardly stand to keep it a secret; it drives me crazy. Afterwards, I made him promise that he wouldn’t tell a soul. I feel kind of bad for making him swear not to tell anyone, but I can’t have it getting back to my brother. Since then, we’ve hooked up, in secret, two more times. Both equally as (if not more) intense and hot, and I’m positive it’s going to continue.” — via Reddit
‘We met up in a quiet forest and quickly got down to business’
“I connected with a guy on a hook-up app and we decided to meet up within a couple of minutes. I lived with my parents at the time, so I just said I was going for a walk. We met up in a quiet forest and quickly got down to business. He pulled his big cock out, and I started sucking. He seemed to enjoy himself quite a lot. After a while, he said he wanted to grind against my ass, and I let him. He started hotdogging me nice and hard while rubbing me. I came quite hard first, then he came too, all over my ass and panties, a nice big load. Then I had to make my way back home with a bunch of cum on my ass. When I finally returned, I quietly slipped into the bathroom to get rid of all that cum still on me before my parents noticed.” — via Reddit
‘All three of us came at the same time’
“I got pregnant after a threesome with my husband and his friend, they DVP’d [double vaginal penetration] me, and all three of us came while they were inside of me, at the same time.” — via Reddit
