215 Dirty Truth or Dare Questions That'll Make You Sweat

It’s hard to forget the rush of a high-stakes game of truth or dare, but if your only experience with the popular party game was at a high school get together or with friends on a night out, then good news: There is a whole world of sexy possibilities to unlock, and it all starts with spicy truth or dare questions. Dirty truth or dare is just like regular truth or dare, but make it hot. You can play it in-person or a modified version over FaceTime, which is clutch for long-distance relationships, and most of these questions and dares can work with a partner, situationship, friend with benefits, or even on a first date if it’s going in a spicy direction. It’s the perfect form of foreplay, the best way to turn a regular convo into sexting, and honestly? An easy way to get to know someone and what turns them on. Win/win.

Before you actually start playing, just remember that a stranger or a dating app match might not be into a sexy first chat, and those boundaries should be respected. If you’re talking to someone new, opt for a PG-version of the game. The same is true for your own boundaries—don’t hold back on making them super clear, especially if it’s a riskier dare or something you’re not comfortable with. You’re never, ever obligated to do anything you don’t want to do. You can say no with confidence, and just keep the convo moving.

If you’re new to truth or dare, the rules are simple and pretty self-explanatory. You take turns alternating between answering questions truthfully, or completing a dare. When it’s your turn, the opposite player will ask you, “truth or dare?” If you pick “truth”, they get to ask you anything they want, and in theory, you “have” to answer honestly. (Unless you don’t want to, which, again, is also fine!) If you pick “dare,” they get to dare you to do anything they want. The same concept applies—nothing is mandatory.

If you're playing from a distance, don't be afraid to get creative. You might not be able to do all of the dares, but you can totally tweak them to work for you.

The below list of dirty truth or dares is designed to make the brainstorming process easier if you're struggling to come up with your own sexy questions or dares. You can literally copy and paste if you’re texting, pull up the list IRL, or just use it as a jumping off point for your own original idea. Either way, there’s something for you here.

1. Do you know your love language? If so, what is it?
2. Do you know your desire style?
3. What's one thing you struggle with in relationships?
4. What's the best thing you think you bring to relationships?
5. What was your first impression of me?
6. What first made you attracted to me?
7. What usually turns you on?
8. Do you know what usually turns me on?
9. What's a seemingly nonsexual thing that turns you on?
10. Have you ever turned down a sexual opportunity and regretted it?
11. Have you ever hooked up with someone you regret?
12. When did you learn what sex was? What’s the story?
13. Have you ever sent a sext to the wrong person?
14. What's the sexiest song you've ever heard? What about it turns you on?
15. What's the sexiest movie or TV scene you've ever watched?
16. Do you remember your sexual awakening? Tell me about it.
17. Have you ever hooked up with a stranger or had a one-night stand?
18. Have any you ever hooked up with an ex?
19. What's something I do that isn't sexual but turns you on?
20. Have you ever accidentally walked in on anyone getting it on?
21. What’s a sex act most people like that you think is overrated?
22. What sexual activity (or activities) do you think is underrated?
23. If you could have sex every day, would you?
24. Do you know the last name of everyone you’ve had sex with? What about first?
25. Kiss on the first date: Yay or nay?
26. Sex on the first date: Yay or nay?
27. What's your favorite body part to be kissed?
28. Do you like being nibbled on or lightly bitten? Where?
29. What item of clothing do you think I look sexiest in?
30. What do you remember about our first kiss?
31. Where do you think our most romantic kiss took place? Tell me everything you remember about it.
32. What do you think the sexiest part of my body is?
33. What do you think the sexiest part of your body is?
34. Have you ever fallen asleep during sex?

1. Have you ever had sex with more than one person in a day?
2. What's the biggest age difference you've ever had with a partner?
3. What's the most embarrassing thing that’s happened to you during sex?
4. Have you ever cheated? (Bonus question for the brave: Did it turn you on?)
5. Have you ever faked an orgasm?
6. Have you ever admitted to faking an orgasm?
7. Has anyone ever admitted to faking an orgasm with you?
8. How do you feel about shower sex? Love it, hate it, or super neutral?
9. What about pool/beach sex?
10. When are you the most horny?
11. What's the most amount of times you've orgasmed in a day?
12. What's the most amount of times you've orgasmed in an hour?
13. If we opened up our relationship, who would be the first person you’d want to have sex with?
14. Who would be in your dream orgy?
15. Who would you invite if you were hosting a sex party? Celebrities and famous people included.
16. What do you remember most about the first time you ever had sex?
17. Who was the first person you ever had sex with?
18. Who is the weirdest person you’ve had a sex dream about?
19. Have you ever had a sex dream about me?
20. If you could have sex with one person from your past again, who would it be?
21. What do you think about sex toys?
22. If you're open to them, what’s one sex toy you want me to try on you?
23. If you're familiar with sex toys, what type is your favorite?
24. What’s a fantasy you’ve never told me about?
25. What memory from our sex life turns you on the most?
26. What would be your dream role-play scenario?
27. What do you think I’m best at in bed?
28. Have you ever gotten turned on at work (or while WFH)? What did you do about it?
29. Do you prefer using your tongue or fingers on me? Which do you like me to use on you?
30. Fuck, Marry, Kill: Missionary, doggy, and oral sex.
31. Describe my in-bed personality in three words.
32. What kind of foreplay would you like to try the next time we are in bed?
33. What is your least favorite sex position and why?
34. Have you ever tried BDSM?
35. If not, would you? Explain why yes or no.

1. Would you ever want to watch me have sex with someone else?
2. How do you feel about swinging or partner swapping? Does the idea turn you on?
3. Would you ever want to go to a sex club or sex party with me?
4. Where is the most random place you’ve ever masturbated?
5. How do you feel about mutual masturbation?
6. Have you ever had sex on a plane?
7. What’s #1 on your sexual bucket list right now?
8. Have you ever been caught having sex?
9. Have you ever had sex in public?
10. Do you ever watch porn? Tell me what type you usually gravitate toward.
11. What’s the kinkiest thought you’ve ever had about me?
12. Have you ever fantasized about a teacher or authority figure? Who was it and why?
13. What is your favorite body part for me to suck on?
14. Would you prefer to dominate me in bed or do you want me to dominate you in bed?
15. How do you feel about nipple play?
16. How do you feel about butt stuff?
17. What's your favorite sex toy to use on me?
18. What's your favorite sex toy to use together?
19. What's the kinkiest thing you've ever done?
20. What's the kinkiest thing you'd like to do?
21. What’s the hottest sex dream you’ve ever had?
22. Tell me one thing I could do that would make you immediately orgasm.
23. Which is your favorite kind of sex: soft, slow, and sweet or aggressive, fast, and feisty?
24. If I gave you a free pass to hook up with one celebrity, who would it be and why?
25. If I were handcuffed to the bed, what would you do to me?
26. Would you ever want to be blindfolded?
27. If you were to create an original sex move, what would you call it?
28. What's something dirty you've always been too shy to say to me in bed?
29. What kind of dirty talk, if any, do you want to hear in bed?
30. If we could only have sex in one position for a month, what position would you pick?
31. Is there something you've seen in a steamy movie that you'd like to try?
32. What sex move of mine is your favorite? Give me all the dirty details about why you like it.
33. When I am on top of you, what's your favorite part of me to watch?
    
34. When I'm on all fours, what's your favorite part of me to watch?
35. How often do you masturbate? How often is it about me?
36. If you could go back and change anything about the first time we had sex, what would it be and why?
37. What’s your favorite text I’ve sent you when we’ve been sexting?
38. How do you feel about threesomes? Have you ever had one, and if not, would you ever have one?
39. Have you ever fantasized about anything sexual with someone of your same sex?
40. What’s the wildest place you’ve ever had sex?
41. What were you thinking when you first saw me naked?
42. Tell me what I taste like.
43. Describe what the inside of me feels like in three words.

1. Pretend we’re strangers at a bar and you just spotted me. Try to pick me up.
2. Write me a love note.
3. Send me a picture of you that you love.
4. Kiss me like it's the first time.
5. Draw me (like one of your French girls).
6. Roleplay that you’re a professor and I’m your student. Seduce me.
7. Describe what type of lingerie really turns you on while making eye contact with me. If you laugh, you have to buy some for me.
8. Take out your wallet and pretend to be a patron at a strip club while I dance for you. (Tips are more than encouraged.)
9. Go to the kitchen and make me the sexiest snack you can think of, Master Chef style. The catch? You only have three minutes, and you’re the plate.
   
10. I’ll pick a song and you have to give me a lap dance. Blindfolded.
11. You can’t say my name for the rest of the game, but instead, have to call me any nickname I choose. Every time you mess up, I get to spank you.
12. Act out your sexiest fantasy without using your words. Props, however, are highly encouraged.
13. Go skinny dipping with me. (If you don’t have a private pool, get creative! The bathtub, shower, or a water fight in the kitchen all count.)
14. Trade clothes with me for the rest of the game. Once you put mine on, blast your fave hype song and show off your new look like a runway model.
15. Try to literally lick yourself from your head to your toes. You only get three “help” spots where I can jump in, so use wisely.
16. Kiss a part of my body you want to cum on.
17. Kiss a part of my body you don't usually kiss.
18. Kiss a part of my body you love.
19. Take a shower with me and get creative with the shower head.
20. Take my hand and put it on a part of your body you’d like me to pay more attention to. Guide my hand and show me how you want to be touched.
21. Take a washable marker and draw circles around your favorite parts of my body.
22. You have one minute to turn me on using only your feet.
23. Show me a video of something you’d like us to try together.
24. Imitate what I sound like when I orgasm.
25. Blindfold me and write something sexy on my body in lipstick.
26. Go in the other room and sext me the dirtiest thing you can think of.
27. Put on "Pony" by Ginuwine, and vacuum seductively for the length of the song.
28. Eat a strawberry in the most sensual way possible.
29. Drag me to the closet for an adult round of Seven Minutes in Heaven. You must keep the making out above the belt.
30. Make out with me like we used to before we started having sex.

1. Show me the last porn video you watched.
   
2. Watch me touch myself for five minutes. You’re not allowed to touch me or yourself while I do.
3. Put on a song you find really sexy and go down on me for the length of it.
4. Go down on me in a position we’ve never tried before.
5. Show me how you touch yourself when I’m not around.
6. Take off your pants and give me your best ass-shake. Now try it upside down on the wall.
7. Host a sexy, five-minute yoga class for me with lots of sensual stretching and downward dogging.
8. Call me from the other room. When it goes to voicemail, leave me an explicit message outlining exactly what you want to do to me.
9. Demonstrate your best oral sex move on the nearest appropriate object.
10. Turn out the lights and try to turn me on *only* using sounds. You have two minutes and if you fail, you owe me a sexual favor.
11. Give me a sensual foot massage. The hotter, the better.
12. Let's pick out a butt plug to try together.
13. Let's pick out a whip or fuzzy handcuffs to try together.
14. Kiss your three favorite body parts of my body.
15. Put on a timer and act out as many sexual positions as you can with your clothes on.
16. Pick out three sex toys online you’d want to try with me. I get to pick my favorite one and you have to order it right now.
17. Take a selfie of your most outrageous “O” face. Now put that as your lock screen, and keep it that way for the next 48 hours. If you change it before time’s up, you owe me dinner.
18. Give me a detailed, charismatic cooking demonstration of “How to Make Cereal.” The catch: You gotta do it nude.
19. Set the mood and reenact the most romantic movie kiss you can think of with me. If you need some inspo, try Titanic, The Notebook, or even Spider-Man. Who knows, things might get so heated you find yourself reenacting some Bridgerton scenes next *wink wink.*
20. Go find your old Halloween costume and put it on for me. Then, let's decide what to role-play.
21. Place whipped cream on your favorite parts of my body. Now, lick it off.
22. Engage in foreplay with me for five minutes with one rule: You're allowed to kiss me anywhere but my mouth.
23. Give me a lube-y clitoral massage—the wetter, the better.
24. Read me a chapter from your favorite book while I go down on you.
25. Give me a massage anywhere on my body for 10 minutes.
26. Do something to me right now that you've been fantasizing about.
27. Text me the raunchiest thought you've ever had about me.
28. Find something sweet to swipe across your lips and give me a passionate kiss.
29. Play with my hair. Hold it harder as you kiss me.
30. Close your eyes and envision the last time we had sex. Tell me what you loved the most and the one thing you'd change, if any.
31. Stimulate two parts of my body at once. Use your hands on one part and lips on another.
32. Using your mouth, make your way from my wrist to my ear. Take your time!
33. In your most sultry voice, tell me what you loved about the last time we had sex.
34. Hop in the shower with me and wash my body, making sure not to miss any hard spots.
35. If you have a sex playlist, show it to me.
36. If you don't, lets make one together.
37. Pole dance with an imaginary pole for the length of an entire song of my choice.

1. You have ten seconds to excite me just by kissing. Hint: You're not limited to my lips.
2. Imitate my most flexible sex move.
3. Play me a song you’d like to have sex to.
4. Using your fingers, find a way to give me goosebumps right now.
5. Demonstrate a move on me that you saw and liked while watching porn.
6. Give me a sensual massage. Start at my feet and work your way up.
7. For the next 60 seconds, touch yourself like you’d like to touch me.
8. Lets play a round of Never Have I Ever. First person to put down all five fingers owes the other a sexual favor of their choice.
9. Spell out a short, sultry message on my body…with your tongue.
10. Initiate a role-play scenario and make me guess what your character is.
11. Lets listen to the same audio porn on opposite sides of the room. We're not allowed to touch until it's over.
12. I’m going to go into the other room and dab perfume or cologne somewhere on my body. You have to sniff everywhere until you figure out where I put it on.
13. Pop an ice cube in your mouth and go down on me for 15 seconds.
14. Hold an ice cube in your teeth and trail it down my body.
15. Make a trail of chocolate syrup from my nipples to my knees. Lick it off.
16. Put my cell on vibrate, then place it somewhere on my body. Now, call me.
17. Pour a trail of sugar from the small of my back to my neck. Now, lick it up.
18. Take off my underwear…with your mouth.
19. Take off my bra...with your eyes closed.
20. Dip your fingertips in mouthwash and then rub my nipples so I’ll get an erotic, tingly sensation the moment you touch me.
21. Pick a spot on my body that isn’t usually considered sexual—elbows, knees, ankles—and lavish it with kisses until I’m turned on.
22. Fuck me like it’s the first time.
23. Lets go to a brick-and-mortar sex shop together and pick out some fun toys.
24. Whisper what you love about me in my ear...in your most seductive tone.
25. Write me a list of your favorite physical features of mine.
26. Suck on my earlobe for 15 seconds.
27. Trace across my collarbone and run your finger down between my breasts and back up again.
28. Read me an erotic story.
29. Read me our last sexting convo.
30. Lets look up beginner Shibari techniques and try them together. (Even better if we sign up for a professional class.)
31. Let's go for a walk...while I wear vibrating panties. You have control of the remote.
32. Make me dinner. Lets eat it naked.
33. Tie my wrists together above my head. Touch me slowly. No kissing allowed.
34. Let's draw two cards from a sexy card game. We *must* do what they say.
35. Let's re-create the carriage scene from Season 3 of Bridgerton in the car.
36. Let's re-create your favorite sex scene of all time, costumes and props included.