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Behind the lavish gifts and declarations of "love" lies a dangerous form of emotional abuse.

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Because (repeat after us) gender is a spectrum, and everyone deserves to be seen for who they are.

Hello and welcome to your guide to two of the most popular dating apps in the game.

Your ticket off the dating app carousel has arrived.

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Figuring out if you should really call it quits can be tricky! We’re here to help.

Welcome to our official breakdown of these two dating app mainstays.

Allow the experts to explain

Looking for love—but, like, actually though? You can find it online, we swear.

Short answer: Yes. But, as is always true when it comes to putting something new down there, there’s much to consider!

Yep, it’s totally possible. Allow the experts to show you how it’s done.

Allow the experts to help you navigate this one.

Time to slow things waaay down in the bedroom.

An app for every sextual situation.

Yes, it’s an identity, but it also conveys a sense of community.

Although, obvs, you can use these on folks of any gender!

The rainbow banner is a classic, of course, but there’s sooo much more to know.

Experts weigh in on the often-misunderstood sexuality labels, and what the difference between them *actually* looks like.

Endorsed by our favorite bicons. (That’s “bi icons,” ICYWW.)

Short answer: It’s complicated.

More than just labels, the D/s power exchange is basically the heart of it all.

Time to curl up with some popcorn (and your vibrator) and explore the very best erotic cinema has to offer.

Have you reached Tayvis status?

And no, we’re not just talking about physical intimacy.

If you like making your partner’s bed or cooking dinner for them, this one’s for you.

Trying to get off, like, immediately if not sooner? Allow us to help.

When you know, you know. But in case you need some unbiased confirmation, here’s how to know know, y’know?

Not that you owe anyone an explanation—but you know damn well someone’s gonna ask anyway.