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- Oh my goodness, oh! When will we as a society be free from penis size discourse? Oh, this is so depressing. Maybe I am more of a prude than I think? Hey y'all, I'm Haylin and today I'm gonna be reacting to famous sex scenes. Make sure you check out my other sex ed show on Cosmo, "How To Sex Toy". Let's dive in. I actually have not seen a lot of these sex scenes. - I love you Samantha. - I love you too. (couple kissing and moaning) Oh honey, I can't wait any longer. Just unzip and get over here. Okay, I'm ready. Put it in. - It is in. - [Narrator] Samantha said a little prayer that he was kidding. He wasn't. - That was so disappointing on so many levels, and not for the reasons that Samantha thought. When will we as a society be free from penis size discourse? Probably never. Assuming that penis size correlates exactly to how pleasurable sex is going to be, it's just categorically wrong. If someone isn't really getting a lot of foreplay or they're not very aroused, they might need a penetrating object to be really large to get the amount of sensation that they need. They basically went straight from kissing to clothes on penetration. It's actually not very surprising that Samantha wasn't able to feel anything. It probably felt pretty similar to putting in a tampon. I'm gonna be rating these sex scenes based on real life standards, not Hollywood standards. How consensual the encounter is, how realistic the communication is, and whether or not it seems like the kind of sexual experience that both partners are enjoying. It's a zero, that's a zero for me. There was nothing redeeming about that sex scene. The kissing looked wack, the sex looked wack. The communication, wack. It was all wack. "Titanic". That hand print, I thought that's what sex was for so long. My mom would not let me watch this scene, but obviously I would just sneak out and watch it. He doesn't do it for me anymore, but I will say, this particular combination of this Leo and this Kate, it's iconic for a reason. (horn blaring) - Where to, miss? - To the stars. - Good Lord. - Nervous? - No. - She said no. (kissing) Ooh, very sensual. - Put your hands on me, Jack. (Haylin gasps) - Wow, I forgot how forward she is in this scene. (kissing) Ugh, the hand print! The hand print! Incredible. Iconic! It seems very damp in that car though. - Are you trembling? - Don't worry, I'll be all right. - Aww, that's actually very sweet. I remember the hand print and not the good stuff. What makes the scene super memorable as a character moment is the interactions they have immediately before and immediately after the hand print. Seeing Kate Winslet's character really assertively express desire, that really sweet intimate moment at the end, that was actually really nice. And not surprising that that was an effective scene. I'm gonna go ahead and give this scene a seven. I do think it is a little over the top and cheesy. It's selling you a fantasy and it's doing so very well. I don't know that the amount of steam in the car made a lot of sense. Then again, I don't know how much these people sweat or how humid their breath is, who's to say? We do get to see them negotiate at least a little bit of consent, and we do get to see them express intimacy and aftercare as well. Actually, you know what? Now that I'm talking through it, I'm gonna bump it up. I'm actually gonna give it an eight and a half, 8.5. - What do you think? - [Producer] This is a pegging scene, by the way. - Oh, that's where this is going? - I think you look beautiful. How do you feel? - Powerful. - This is so earnest. I love it. - I don't wanna hurt you. - You wouldn't. I trust you Kat. - This clip was from a TV show called "The Bold Type". Kat was pegging her partner for the first time, although it didn't seem like his first time. Seeing something like that in a mainstream TV show is actually pretty incredible. Most of the depictions of pegging that I've seen in TV or in movies are as a joke. It's really uncommon to see a depiction of pegging that is actually in line with how most people in the real world experience it. I'm glad to see romantic, loving pegging. The progress that we've made. I would have to go ahead and give "The Bold Type" a 10. There was a lot of really explicit communication, a lot of checking in around boundaries and comfort levels, and it seemed like a really sweet encounter. - It's so funny that it's still light out but it's getting dark a lot earlier these days. - Is this some of your poetry? - Oh this is tragic. It's tragically realistic. - Do you know that part on your resume where they ask you to list all of your special skills? - I haven't applied for a job in a long time. - Okay, well it's the thing where they ask you to list yoga, Spanish, skiing, Photoshop. I feel like I (kisses) don't have any special skills. - Just a heads up, if your partner is talking about this much stuff that's not sex, probably not trying to have sex. - Grab your legs. - This person clearly watches too much pornography. - Will you get a condom? - [Man] I'll consider it. - Ew, gross! Oh, this is so depressing. I know this is so many people's real sex lives. - Is that okay? - Yeah. - I was about to say I'm surprised she doesn't have more questions. "Is that okay" is not the question that I had thought she might want to ask. - Do that, please don't do that. That feels awful, thank you. Okay, thank you. That's the right spot. - Yeah. - Ugh! I hated all three minutes and 16 seconds and one millisecond of that. So the scene that we just watched is a master class on how to not have sexual communication. The Adam Driver character tries to "Oops, wrong hole", although that's not even the most egregious consent violation that happens. I felt like I was watching someone who maybe hadn't even internalized the idea that sex was a mutual pleasure thing. I guess I would say it's a two? Those two points are just because it's a realistic scene. Nothing else about that had any merit or value. I've not actually watched a lot of this show. Oh my goodness, oh! (couple moaning and speaking through heavy breathing) Oh my goodness, they show this on TV? - [Woman] This position is also presenting some issues for me. (Haylin laughs) - [Man] Girl, you're like a Rubik's Cube. You're like a challenge. (couple moaning and talking through heavy breathing) Oh my God. - Hey, that missionary really be hitting though. - That seems like a really nice little situation she's got going. It was a scene where sex started out maybe not great and then became really pleasurable through the process of communication, which is what I would say is most sexual encounters, or most good sexual encounters, but not something that I think I see on TV very often. I would go ahead and give that scene an eight out of 10. I don't know why I'm shaving those two points off, I guess. Maybe I'm just a little bit of a prude. I'm just so shocked by what I've seen. - You know what? - What? - Let me, I got this. - Oh. I get why people like this show. I'm starting to see it now. - Don't make me come. (man moans) - [Woman] What the? Did you really just do that in my face? - Wait, you were into it. I mean, I was just having a good job. - Why the, why, what, are you for, are you, what? Are you serious? - Calm down, calm down - Don't touch me. - What's the problem? I mean, I thought we were having fun. You seemed like you were down for whatever. - Really? I didn't ask for this. - I didn't ask you to (beep). - Damn, that's crazy. As a sex educator, that scene was unfortunately familiar to me. The woman was expressing sexual desire. The desire for sex then becomes like an equals sign to anything goes. She wanted to do something, and her wanting to do something was the justification for the thing that she didn't want. I guess I would give this a three. Those points are primarily for how realistic it is. I think it gets one extra point for the first 40 seconds of it. There was a lot of great communication, but things can change real fast. "Mulholland Drive", I'm so excited. One of the most iconic lesbian sex scenes, directed by a man. Sorry, it actually is, it's iconic. (orchestral music) - Oh, this music. I mean, if you've seen the movie in its full context, this is a less tender scene, but out of context, on its own, it's very loving. (orchestral music) We love to see it. And given what we know about the statistics of lesbian sex, both of these people just had between 20 and 50 orgasms. It is a scene of two women having sex for the first time. We don't see their bodies and we don't hear what they're saying, but they are very clearly having a great time. So the phrase "male gaze" gets thrown around a lot, but it's specifically a term that comes from film criticism to talk about the way that our filming language assumes that whoever is watching is a heterosexual man who would like to see women's bodies. It is a scene of sex between two women that doesn't really feel male gaze-y. It feels like the eroticism comes from the connection between these two people, as opposed to some objectification. It's probably close to a nine or a 10. I can't speak to how realistic it is, because we don't hear them talking, but that's a clip that I would probably use in a pleasure based sex ed class to show what non-verbal consent looks like. This is really making me realize how little TV I watch with explicit sex scenes. Maybe I am more of a prude than I think? - There is a bin in the one across the hallway, sorry. - What? - A bin for the condom. There's a... - Oh. - Where'd you put the condom? - I, I took it off. I thought you... - I... - Yeah, it got uncomfortable, so. - You're joking. - No, no, no, here it is. - Um... - I thought you knew. Couldn't you feel it? - [Woman] No, I couldn't feel it. - I'm sorry, I didn't wanna stop 'cause it was, I don't know, maybe that's normal for you. - Yeah no, but Zane, I have to get the pill. - I'm so sorry. (woman sighs) - Is it really? - Yes it, you are paying for it. - The scene that I just watched depicts an act of stealthing. Stealthing is a form of sexual assault. It's a violation of somebody's consent, it's a violation of their bodily autonomy. Because we've established the precedent for realism, I am going to give this scene one single solitary point for depicting a thing that actually does happen. I mean, it is unfortunately realistic to hear grown men say things like, "I thought you knew." Oh, even just seeing their faces is taking me back to a time and a place that I haven't been in a long time. (couple kissing) - Cohen? - Yeah? - Do you happen to... To have, you know? - Oh. Yeah I do, in my wallet. - Don't keep condoms in your wallet. - It's for good luck only, but that's... - You're about to get lucky. (couple kissing) ♪ Hello sunshine ♪ Oh you're joking, oh my God. - Yes. - And that is what we call male gaze, kids. (Haylin gasps) - So. - Oh, the vibe changed. - That was sex. - Yup. - I'm gonna go. - Me too. - But you live here. - I meant downstairs. - Oh, that's rough, buddy. This felt like a accurate to life depiction of what sex would probably be like for the first time if you didn't have very much sexual education. I'm gonna go ahead and rate this a six. It seemed enthusiastically consensual, it just seemed like it wasn't ultimately very pleasurable. These people struggle to communicate after. Sometimes sex sucks. If you're getting ready to do something sexually for the first time, do yourself a really big favor by giving yourself the grace to have whatever experience it is. It's pretty uncommon to be amazing at something or have your best experience of something the very first time you do it, and the more pressure we put on ourselves to have a specific kind of experience, the harder it is for us to actually be in the moment with what's actually happening and how we're actually feeling. (couple kissing) (Haylin gasps) I would be so pissed. It looks like a nice shirt. All right, it's atmospheric, it's moody, it's sensual. This is great. If you don't think this is great, check your internalized biases. This is what teenager girls fantasize about. Oh, it's quite sensual. I don't remember it being this sensual. Oh wow, they are going all night. Oh, literally they're going all night, damn! Oh, and by the fire. I can't think of a single other movie that has the same audience where I have seen a teenage girl be like, "Sex is (beep) awesome "and I wanna do it all the time." That's great. What that scene was was a great depiction of non-verbal communication, sensuality, whole body touching, a lot of the things that we as sexuality educators know is a big part of pleasurable satisfying sex. 10 out of 10, it was great. What's not to like? No notes, oh my God. Comment your favorite sex scene that I didn't talk about in this video. Check out my other show on Cosmo, "How to Sex Toy", right here on this channel. Can I ask you a few questions about sex toys? - Yeah. - I love them. - Okay. I take it from that response that you own a couple yourself? - Oh, amen sister, yes. - It's a vibrator. - Uh huh. Let's see if we can turn it on. - Oh Jesus. Ugh, make it stop.

Haylin, one of Cosmo's sex experts,  reacts, reviews, and rates on iconic *fictional* sex scenes on a scale of one to ten based on real-life standards. 👏  (Emphasis on “REAL-LIFE.“) Watch more Haylin! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L6RKjk87s5Q&list=PLrx4fxhgMUObg4uSipyxNzwxzDF0buk_W

We all love these scenes, but are they consensual, realistic, and pleasurable? Haylin spills on Titanic, Girls, Sex and the City and more!

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