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Just a List of the Steamiest, Hottest Sex Scenes From ‘Insecure’

Raise your hand if Molly and Andrew’s hotel balcony bang lives rent-free in your mind too.

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Major, major good news: The fifth and final season of Issa Rae’s award-winning comedy-drama series Insecure is finally here. The first episode will drop at 10 p.m. ET tonight on HBO Max, and y’all, to say I am ready would be an understatement.

Ever since the day Insecure first aired in 2016, the show has excellently portrayed the modern-day lives of Black women. The series has tackled everything from strained friendships to gender and racial inequality to the shamelessly real reality of millennial dating.

But one thing Insecure does so, so well, in addition to tackling all the nuances above, is the sex. Literally no one can deny how sexy the hit show is, and honestly, it may just be the horniest thing to grace our TVs in a long time. Of course, they may have cast the hottest actors possible for the show, and that doesn’t quite suck either. But the makeup sex, the public sex, and the kinky sex are everything viewers need and more.

So in celebration of the last season of Insecure (BRB as I go scream into an empty void of darkness), we decided to give you a lil refresher on the sexiest sex scenes from the show. Use this ranking to reminisce, find inspiration for your sex bucket list, or, hey, maybe even masturbate. No judgment here.

Light spoilers ahead, folks….

1

Season 4, Episode 1: Issa Hooks Up With “TSA Bae”

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Issa directing Calvin (“TSA bae”) while switching between multiple positions was more of a comedic punch line than anything else, but let’s be real, communicating and advocating for your own pleasure during sex is hot.

Fast-forward to around 7 minutes and 20 seconds in.

2

Season 4, Episode 9: Lawrence and Issa Rekindle Their Romance

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Issa and Lawrence are infamous for couch sex scenes, and this soft and sensual montage of them getting back together makes us root for them as a couple.

Fast-forward to around 1 minute in.

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Season 2, Episode 5: Molly and Dro Hook Up in the Bathroom

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For those of you who have ever fantasized about sneaking away from your group of friends to go have a quickie with your fling, this scene is for you.

Fast-forward to around 23 minutes in.

4

Season 3, Episode 3: Issa Fantasizes About Daniel

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Issa starts daydreaming about Daniel going down on her while she eats Cheetos, and who can blame her? Having her crush face-deep between her legs WHILE eating her favorite snack? Sounds like a win-win situation.

Fast-forward to around 1 minute and 30 seconds in.

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Season 1, Episode 5: Issa Cheats on Lawrence With Daniel

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Despite her attempts to fix her relationship with Lawrence, Issa eventually acts on her hidden lust for Daniel. Although I feel bad for Lawrence in this scenario, it’s hard to focus on anything other than Daniel’s muscular build. Am I right or am I right?

Fast-forward to around 25 minutes in.

6

Season 2, Episode 1: Lawrence and Issa Have “Closure” Sex

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Have you ever gone to your ex’s house for “closure” only to end up with your clothes off? This happened when Lawrence visited Issa to get some of his belongings from her apartment. Let’s just say he couldn’t help but to pull down Issa’s panties and earnestly get it in while on the couch.

Fast-forward to around 30 minutes in.

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Season 3, Episode 1: Dro Goes Down on Molly

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If there’s one thing Dro and Molly know how to do, it’s utilizing whatever location they’re having sex in—including the kitchen. Part of what makes this scene so steamy is that Molly is enjoying Dro’s tongue so much that she accidentally knocks the Hennessy bottle over the counter. It happens.

Fast-forward to around 27 minutes in.

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Season 4, Episode 8: Issa and Lawrence Have “I Miss You” Sex

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After Issa and Lawrence have a heart-to-heart and share their perspective on what initially went wrong in their relationship, they share a moment of passion that had us screaming “YASSS!” at our TV screens.

Fast-forward to around 27 minutes in.

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Season 2, Episode 5: Molly and Dro Hook Up for the First Time

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Everyone knew it was only a matter of time before Molly and Dro slept together, and that’s what made this scene unforgettable. The tension rising between these two was quite literally irresistible to watch.

Fast-forward to around 27 minutes in.

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Season 2, Episode 4: Lawrence Has a Threesome

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Come on. Did you really think we were gonna leave out the infamous threesome between Lawrence and the women he had just met at the supermarket?

Fast-forward to around 22 minutes and 50 seconds in.

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Season 3, Episode 1: Daniel Has Loud Sex

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Are there even any words to describe how glorious Daniel’s strokes look? It definitely sounded like his fuck buddy enjoyed it.

Fast-forward to around 2 minutes and 10 seconds in.

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Season 2, Episode 1: Lawrence and Tasha Have Rough Morning Sex

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As if we thought these two couldn’t get enough of each other, they share some passionate morning sex. And yes, we get a close view of Lawrence’s side strokes while Tasha screams, “Yes, zaddy!”

Fast-forward to around 6 minutes and 25 seconds in.

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Season 3, Episode 5: Issa and Nathan Have Sex on a Ferris Wheel at Coachella

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Beyoncé isn’t the only one who can put on a stellar performance at Coachella. Issa and Nathan took the festival to new heights as they sneaked away for a fun ride (literally) on the Ferris wheel.

Fast-forward to around 22 minutes and 20 seconds in.

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Season 4, Episode 2: Molly and Andrew Have Rough Sex

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As if watching Andrew thrust Molly from behind couldn’t be any hotter, we also see Molly biting the sheets in complete ecstasy. Also, Andrew spanking Molly at the end is…wow.

Fast-forward to around 2 minutes in.

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Season 4, Episode 7: Molly and Andrew Bang on the Hotel Balcony

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What could be better than getting freaky on a hotel balcony while overlooking the gorgeous views of Mexico?

Fast-forward to around 12 minutes in.

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Season 1, Episode 8: Lawrence Has Rough Rebound Sex

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Some say that rebound sex might be the best way to get over an ex, so, well, that’s exactly what Lawrence did to get over Issa. Something about Lawrence banging Tasha roughly from behind will immediately have you thinking, Wow, is it getting hot in here, or is that just my imagination?

Fast-forward to around 30 minutes and 25 seconds in.

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Season 4, Episode 7: Molly and Andrew Get Kinky During Their Vacation

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There’s nothing that puts the spice into a relationship more than some nasty baecation sex. Molly puts this to the test as she steps out of the bathroom wearing seductive black lingerie. Then she blindfolds Andrew before pinning him down to the bed. Just when you think things couldn’t get any better, she sits on his face and tells him to eat her ass.

Fast-forward to around 17 minutes in.

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