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The Wheelbarrow Sex Position Might Be Your New Favorite Sexual Adventure

Think: Handstand meets cartwheel meets wheelbarrow race.

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Yes, the wheelbarrow sex position does look exactly like a sexy, complicated cartwheel. But, hear us out—it can also be a fun challenge for those of you who love sex from behind and are up for an adventure. (Plus, if a wheelbarrow race breaks out at the company picnic, let’s just say you’ll have plenty of practice under your belt—literally.)

“The wheelbarrow is definitely an ambitious position, but it can have a big payoff!” says Nikki Coleman, PhD, a sex-positive therapist. “We love it because it offers deep penetration while also stimulating the internal clitoral structure, enhancing pleasure.”

But this position isn’t all pleasure and deep penetration—it can also be legitimately hard for some. “It requires a good deal of strength, flexibility, and open communication between partners to ensure comfort and enjoyment,” says Coleman. This is both wheelbarrow’s greatest weakness and greatest strength. If you can lean into the funny, playful parts of trying something a little complicated and bendy, it can become a great way to bond.

So, as with all sex positions, do whatever you need or want to make it work for you. “For bigger or differently-abled bodies, try a more supportive approach, with the penetrating partner on their knees and a solid surface like a wall or headboard at their back, and with each partner’s thighs touching,” says Coleman. Add pillows, lean on whatever you have available, and bend around until both of you are like, Oh God, that’s it. If either of you get tired or sore, slide into doggy or something else more comfortable.

If you’re ready to take the wheelbarrow out for a spin, here’s how to do it, plus a couple variations to spice things up.

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The Wheelbarrow

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Start with the receiver lying flat, facing the ground (a soft, carpeted surface is your friend here). The penetrating partner lifts the receiver’s legs while the receiver holds themselves up with their arms. Unless you’re supernaturally strong, you may get tired, so have a backup plan in mind and reward yourselves for your accomplishment by firing up a couples’ vibe.

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The Wheelbarrow Cheat Code

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Get all the good stuff of the wheelbarrow in a more sustainable package. The receiver stands holding onto a chair, table, or bed, then bends over so their head and arms are resting on top. The penetrating partner holds on to one leg instead of two, and everyone gets a little break from lifting. If the receiver still feels off balance, they can put both feet on the ground. Zhuzh it up with a butt plug, if you’re feeling it.

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Wheel-bed-ow

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Forget the whole up-on-the-arms thing and take to your comfy bed. The receiver lies face down with their hips at the edge. The penetrating partner stands at the edge the bed, holding onto their partner’s legs, and can penetrate anally or vaginally. Same feels, way easier. If you want to add a pillow or two to prop up a lay-on vibrator, all the better.

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