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18 special ways the Royal Family celebrate Christmas

Every family has got Christmas traditions, but these are another level...

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When it comes to Christmas, the Royal Family, like the rest of us, have their own special traditions that they commit to every year. From annual festive portraits for their Christmas cards (anyone else feel old seeing how much Prince Louis has grown?) to the monarch’s Christmas Day broadcast, their rituals are a both personal and public.

While the royals didn’t invent festive routines – obviously – there’s something endlessly fascinating about how they do Christmas. Historically, the family decamps to Sandringham for the big day, with senior royals famously photographed walking to church on Christmas morning. In a rogue move, they also tend to open presents on Christmas Eve, freeing up the 25 December for church, lunch and far less chaos than the rest of us endure.

This year, much will likely look familiar, with King Charles and Queen Camilla expected to host a sizeable gathering alongside the Prince and Princess of Wales (although with some notable absences: the former Prince, Andrew Mountbatten-Windsor, and his ex-wife, Sarah Ferguson, won’t be attending, nor will Princess Beatrice and Princess Eugenie, who are set to be spending the break with their in-laws instead).

So while there are a handful of changes, the core traditions remain firmly intact. From where the Royal Family spend Christmas Day to the rituals they follow in the run-up to it, here’s everything we know about how the royals do the festive season...

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They send plenty of Christmas cards

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In fact, Queen Elizabeth and Prince Philip were believed to have sent out around 850 hand-signed cards between the pair of them every year. Each royal family unit will send their own personalised card, typically featuring a formal portrait (see the one from the Prince and Princess of Wales and family back in 2023).

Many people in particular look forward to seeing the Prince and Princess of Wales' card, and Meghan Markle and Prince Harry's – as they sometimes feature rarely seen photos of their children.

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All the Buckingham Palace staff are given gifts

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Earlier in the year, all staff are given a choice between a gift token or a book token for their annual Christmas present from the sovereign. To qualify for the gift, they must have been in royal service for over a year, and the value of their voucher increases with seniority. Junior staff will receive a token worth £28, and this will increase every year to a maximum of £35.

The week before Christmas, all staff-members are given their gift by the King in one of the State Apartments, after the Head of Staff announces his annual report on their yearly performance.

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They spend Christmas at Sandringham House

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The Royal family traditionally go to Sandringham House in Norfolk for their Christmas festivities instead of Buckingham Palace. The country retreat has been owned by the royal family since 1862, and serves as the perfect winter escape with the house being set in 24 hectares of gardens – plenty of space for Prince George, Princess Charlotte and Prince Louis to run around then!

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The Queen would even hire an entire train carriage to get there

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She may have been the head of the Commonwealth with access to her own private royal train and everything, but Queen Elizabeth preferred to travel to the Sandringham Estate ahead of Christmas just like everyone else (sort of). Reports say Her Majesty would hire a whole carriage of a pre-scheduled public train to King's Lynn to transport herself, Prince Philip and their immediate staff to Norfolk around a week before Christmas.

We wonder if King Charles and Queen Camilla prefer this means of travel?

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The rest of the family arrives on Christmas Eve

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The family members who are invited to spend the Christmas period with the sovereign at Sandringham are given a specific time to arrive on Christmas Eve. Each group will get a different time to turn up according to their status within the family. The most junior members will turn up first, and the most important - the likes of the Prince and Princes of Wales, for example - will arrive last.

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The Queen would do her Christmas shopping at Harrods

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It's been reported that the late Her Majesty used to enjoy doing her own Christmas shopping – and wanting only the best for her family, Harrods would apparently stay open after hours just for the Elizabeth II, so she could shop at her leisure.

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The Princess of Wales hosts a carol service

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This year marked the fifth time that Kate Middleton hosted her Together At Christmas festive service at Westminster Abbey – and her husband Prince William and their children (among other royals) all showed their support.

One year, the Princess even surprised and delighted crowds by joining Tom Walker on the piano too, as part of a joint performance of 'For Those Who Can't Be Here'.

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They have two Christmas trees

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According to former royal chef Darren McGrady, "The Royal Family has a large Christmas tree and a large silver artificial tree in the dining room, which is about 30 years old."

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Partners of royal family members are only invited to join when they’re married

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Except Meghan Markle that is, as she marked a departure from royal protocol in 2017 when she was invited to Sandringham for Christmas following the couple's engagement announcement the month before.

Convention states that only married couples are invited to Sandringham for Christmas, and it's usually stuck to; Kate Middleton wasn't allowed until she married Prince William in 2011, and neither was Zara Phillips' partner Mike Tindall before they got married.

It's thought that Prince Harry asked his grandmother to make an exception to the rule for Meghan, due to her family home being so far away. Royal commentator Richard Fitzwilliams explained why he thinks the family were so happy to oblige despite their strict traditions: "Now they are engaged and she will shortly be a senior member of the royal family, it is pivotal that she feels an integral part of it as soon as possible," he said at the time.

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Everyone finishes decorating the Christmas tree together

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After gathering at Sandringham House on Christmas Eve afternoon, the younger members of the royal family put the finishing touches on the trees. But if former royal chef Darren McGrady is to be believed, we like to imagine the Queen would sneak back down later to make sure the kids haven't made them look a mess. "The Queen is not lavish, so the décor is minimal," he told Good Housekeeping.

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They exchange Christmas gifts following afternoon tea on Christmas Eve

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In keeping with the family's German heritage, gifts are given on Christmas Eve instead of Christmas Day. And apparently they like to give jokey presents (Kate Middleton once gave Harry a 'grow your own girlfriend', apparently). Because what on Earth do you buy for the family who has it all?

All the Christmas gifts get put on trestle tables for each member of the family, and they open them following afternoon tea.

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Prince William and Prince Harry play an annual game of football against one another

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Although sadly the two brothers are somewhat estranged these days (and it'd be tricky with the Duke of Sussex living in California), previously the two Princes would take to the pitch along with locals and Sandringham staff for a game of Christmas Eve football – playing for opposing teams.

Usually, they'd wear the socks of their favourite teams (William supports Aston Villa and Harry supports Arsenal) but in 2015, they strayed from tradition to play on the same side: that of the local pub, The Black Horse Inn.

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There's a black tie dinner on Christmas Eve

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According to the Telegraph, it's "a relatively formal affair, with the men wearing black tie suits and the woman wearing gowns, expensive jewellery, and tiaras."

During the dinner, everyone enjoys a drink. The Queen's tipple of choice was reportedly a gin cocktail called a Zaza, while King Charles is said to opt for cherry brandy. Princes William and Harry are both rumoured to enjoy a pint of Sandringham cider (or maybe two...) made with apples grown in the grounds of Sandringham House.

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They all attend church on Christmas morning

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Seeing as the sovereign is literally the head of the Church of England, it's fitting that the royal family attend a Christmas morning service. Typically, the entire family would walk to St Mary Magdalene Church for a 45 minute service, whilst the Queen was driven. For his first Christmas as King, Charles and new Queen Camilla walked with the rest of the family.

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They eat turkey for Christmas dinner

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Just like the rest of us! The only difference being, theirs is cooked by a professional chef and is served along with the likes of lobster.
"[After church] they have a big lunch that includes a salad with shrimp or lobster, and a roasted turkey, and all of your traditional side dishes like parsnips, carrots, Brussels sprouts and Christmas pudding with brandy butter for dessert," explained Darren McGrady. "They stick with the same meal year after year", he added.

PS: the Christmas Day menu is written in French - fancy!

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The monarch would pre-record their Christmas message

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Despite the fact the Queen's speech would be broadcast to the country at 3pm on 25 December every year, the monarch would actually pre-record it in the White Drawing Room or one of the other grand rooms at Buckingham Palace a few days before Christmas. This year, we'll see King Charles III give his fourth festive address to the nation.

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They have a buffet dinner in the evening

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Where about 15 to 20 different items are on offer. Dreamy. "It's always a buffet with the chefs at the table carving," said former royal chef Darren McGrady. "Right before the Christmas buffet, the senior chef on duty goes into the dining room and carves the rib roast or turkey or ham and once he's done, Her Majesty [would then] present the chef with a glass of whiskey and they toast."

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They all play Charades

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Just like many families do on Christmas Day. And they'd often stay up late playing until midnight, thanks to the protocol that nobody retires to bed until the sovereign does (and it's said that Queen Elizabeth II enjoyed a festive late night). Who knows if King Charles grants his clan an earlier bedtime? Or perhaps it's now an even later one?

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