10 blow job and oral sex tips for him and her

Top tips for you and him

By Cosmopolitan Published: 16 August 2013

<p>Here's a trick that gives him the illusion that you're taking him all the way in: place the tip of your tongue on the roof of your mouth, then let his member hit the underside of your tongue.</p>

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Here's a trick that gives him the illusion that you're taking him all the way in: place the tip of your tongue on the roof of your mouth, then let his member hit the underside of your tongue.

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<p>The meatus – the hole in the tip of his penis – is super-sensitive. Stick the tip of your tongue on that spot and apply medium pressure. It's such a specific place, he probably doesn't even realise it has feel-good potential, so he'll love that you've discovered it.</p>

The meatus – the hole in the tip of his penis – is super-sensitive. Stick the tip of your tongue on that spot and apply medium pressure. It's such a specific place, he probably doesn't even realise it has feel-good potential, so he'll love that you've discovered it.

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A vice-grip can be nice

<p>The ridge of his penis – where the tip meets the shaft – is very sensitive to touch. Cover your teeth with your lips and place them around that ridge like a vice. Apply firm pressure – like how you squeeze fruit – then release and repeat. The movement perks up the nerves there and then lets them relax, which can feel really good.</p>

The ridge of his penis – where the tip meets the shaft – is very sensitive to touch. Cover your teeth with your lips and place them around that ridge like a vice. Apply firm pressure – like how you squeeze fruit – then release and repeat. The movement perks up the nerves there and then lets them relax, which can feel really good.

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There's a digital version of oral

<p>Here's a unique way to give his frenulum – the small strip of skin on the underside of his shaft – some special attention: place the tip of your finger on it, then take his shaft (along with your finger) into your mouth. As you move your mouth up and down, rub your finger over the F-spot.</p>

Here's a unique way to give his frenulum – the small strip of skin on the underside of his shaft – some special attention: place the tip of your finger on it, then take his shaft (along with your finger) into your mouth. As you move your mouth up and down, rub your finger over the F-spot.

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'Invisible oral' can boost your pleasure

<p>A shocking number of women have trouble mentally letting go and enjoying oral. Sound like you? Try keeping the lights off so you can't see him. You'll have fewer distractions and be able to focus.</p>

A shocking number of women have trouble mentally letting go and enjoying oral. Sound like you? Try keeping the lights off so you can't see him. You'll have fewer distractions and be able to focus.

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Suction isn't just for love bites

<p>Many women have complained to our experts that they have a hard time getting off when he's down south because their man doesn't use enough pressure. Ask him to vary his moves and try sucking on your clitoris instead – it provides a more intense pressure.</p>

Many women have complained to our experts that they have a hard time getting off when he's down south because their man doesn't use enough pressure. Ask him to vary his moves and try sucking on your clitoris instead – it provides a more intense pressure.

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Multitasking leads to more Os for you

<p>Our experts say that being stimulated in multiple areas will help a woman reach climax more quickly. So while his tongue is at work, have him play with your nipples. In the beginning, he should softly stroke you, but as you get closer to the edge, he can squeeze.</p>

Our experts say that being stimulated in multiple areas will help a woman reach climax more quickly. So while his tongue is at work, have him play with your nipples. In the beginning, he should softly stroke you, but as you get closer to the edge, he can squeeze.

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Cooling down can be very hot

<p>Your temperature rises slightly when you're aroused, so anything cool will be a pleasurable jolt to your senses. Point a fan in your direction so that while he's between your legs, you're feeling both warm from his mouth and a cool breeze. The combo is unexpected, and anything surprising can send you over the edge.</p>

Your temperature rises slightly when you're aroused, so anything cool will be a pleasurable jolt to your senses. Point a fan in your direction so that while he's between your legs, you're feeling both warm from his mouth and a cool breeze. The combo is unexpected, and anything surprising can send you over the edge.

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He wants to pretend he's a bike seat

<p>You don't have to be on your back when you're on the receiving end of oral. Have him lie down, and then put your privates over his mouth. This gives you some control over the pace and motion, making it easier for you to orgasm – and experts tell us it can be erotic for a man to have your bits that up close and personal.</p>

You don't have to be on your back when you're on the receiving end of oral. Have him lie down, and then put your privates over his mouth. This gives you some control over the pace and motion, making it easier for you to orgasm – and experts tell us it can be erotic for a man to have your bits that up close and personal.

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And for you both

<p>Lie side by side [top to tail/in a 69 position? - CHK], with your head near his penis. As you both lick, let your hands massage each other's butts – there are large muscles there, so rubbing them will make for an even greater release.</p>

Lie side by side [top to tail/in a 69 position? - CHK], with your head near his penis. As you both lick, let your hands massage each other's butts – there are large muscles there, so rubbing them will make for an even greater release.