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16 best sex toys for squirting if you’re down to get wet and wild
Towel not required, but highly recommended

Ah, squirting: the myth, the legend. Shrouded in folklore and weeks-worth of debate about whether it’s pee or not, if you’ve never squirted yourself, you might question whether or not it can actually happen. And, considering it’s one of the most searched-for terms on Pornhub, we wouldn’t blame you for being skeptical about whether it’s pleasurable or just another fantasy.
Well, we’re here to bust the myths, and the good news is: squirt is a very real thing, and a sensation that can bring people with vulvas lots of pleasure. Unforch for some, though, not everyone can do it — but you never know until you try (and ofc, internal stimulation is still enjoyable, whether or not you can).
So, how can you achieve a sheet-soaking orgasm, you ask? You can get there with penetrative sex, oral sex, or by using fingers — and there are even sex toys for squirting that can help get you over the finish line. And while there isn’t a one-size-fits-all squirt sex toy that’ll work for everyone, we’ve got plenty of suggestions that have reviewers gushing (heh).
Best sex toys for squirting at a glance
What is squirting?
Okay, okay, we know what you’re really here for: clarity on whether squirt is pee or not. The bad news is, we can’t say for sure. While we know the liquid contains at least a bit of urine, some studies have found that it’s made up of substances that aren’t found in the bladder, so the jury is still out on where it really comes from (you can thank the fact that squirt is notoriously tricky to contain or capture for the lack of research in this area).
If it’s not pee, then what is it, though? “Squirting is the involuntary release of fluid from the urethra during sexual arousal,” explains Sarah Mulwinda, sexual health nurse at Lovehoney. “It’s usually confused (but not the same as) female ejaculation, which tends to be thicker and creamier in appearance — squirting fluid is much clearer. Think of it as the body’s natural response to pleasure, a type of sexual secretion produced when you’re turned on. Its purpose is to create a natural lubrication, and is typically associated with longer lasting and more satisfying orgasms.”
If you’re not bursting with liquid every time you have sex, never fear: not everyone can squirt, and squirting doesn’t necessarily mean you’re having an orgasm, or experiencing more pleasure.
“It’s all down to personal experience,” Mulwinda says. “While squirting sometimes happens alongside orgasm, it doesn’t always — every body responds differently. For some, it’s simply part of ‘getting wet’, that arousal response you’ll hear cheekily referenced in plenty of pop songs these days.”
Can everyone squirt?
Every body is different, so what makes one person squirt might do nothing for another person.
“Not everyone with a vagina can squirt, and that’s completely normal,” explains Mulwinda. “Even though the body has the right anatomy, some people don’t — due to things like variation in pelvic floor muscle control, sensitivity in the G-spot area, or how the urethral/paraurethral (Skene’s) glands respond to stimulation.”
“Studies have found that anywhere from 10% to 54% of people with vaginas report having experienced squirting or female ejaculation. If you’ve never squirted, it doesn’t mean something’s wrong — it might just not be how your body works. But don’t let those stats stop you from trying because it’s an enjoyable journey to see if you can or not regardless!”
What to look for in a sex toy to make you squirt
1. Material
When it comes to vibrators, material matters, ’cause you def don’t want to irritate your most intimate areas with a poorly-made toy. It’s best to steer clear of toys made with PVC, as those tend to be more porous and pretty much impossible to fully sanitise.
Instead, look for toys made from body-safe or medical-grade silicone, which work great with water-based lubes. Toys made from borosilicate glass, stainless steel, or ABS plastic are also safe choices.
2. Weight
Generally speaking, a heavier counterweight = a deeper vibration. But that doesn’t mean every toy with a powerful AF motor is going to be amazing.
Toys also need to be balanced, so the vibration energy goes where it needs to go (like the contact area) and not anywhere else (like the handle, which would make your arm super tired). And sometimes a lighter toy is preferable if you’re looking for something you can take on the go.
3. Internal toys hit different
Generally, toys that stimulate your ~internal hotspots~ have a high success rate. “Curved dildos or G-spot vibrators are brilliant for this — their angled shape makes it so much easier to hit that ‘just right’ spot,” explains Mulwinda. “Go for one with a nice, bulbous tip if you can, as that extra fullness can really dial up the pressure.”
There are also people who can squirt from clitoral stimulation alone, while others can only get there with both happening simultaneously, like with a rabbit vibrator. As sexologist Goody Howard, previously told Cosmo: “Experiencing insertive sex and clitoral stimulation at the same time is the easiest way to connect to that sensation.” No matter how you get off, we’ve got options for ya.
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Corinne Sullivan is an Editor at Cosmopolitan, where she covers a variety of beats, including lifestyle, entertainment, relationships, shopping, and more. She can tell you everything you need to know about the love lives of A-listers, the coziest bedsheets, and the sex toys actually worth your $$$. She is also the author of the 2018 novel Indecent. Follow her on Instagram for cute pics of her pup and bébé.
Honey is the Senior Sex and Relationships E-commerce Writer for Cosmopolitan, Women’s Health and Men’s Health. She covers shopping guides and reviews of the best sex toys; deals events — including Amazon Prime Day and Black Friday; and sex, dating, and LGBTQ+ trends.
Her journalism career started in 2020 when she started Sextras, a podcast and digital magazine about sex and relationships. Find Sextras on Spotify or Substack, where she writes and chats about everything from positive masculinity and how to practise sex magic, to why the latest kink or porn category is blowing up.
She has an MA in Magazine Journalism from City, University of London, and previously reported for HR magazine. Her features also appear in Glamour, Refinery29, The Independent, and more.
When she's not asking everyone she meets invasive questions about their sex and dating lives, you'll find Honey singing around her flat, teaching herself a new craft, or working her way through a new '90s/'00s box set with her flatmate.

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