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From Samantha’s shower head to Charlotte’s rabbit: every sex toy in Sex and the City
... and where to buy them 🐰

If, like us, your find yourself quoting Sex and the City on the reg — then this sex toy round-up is for you. While we know the show’s most memorable lines (read: “I’m sorry, I can’t — don’t hate me”) like the back of our hand, during a recent re-watch we couldn't help but wonder... why has no one reviewed every toy in the show before?
After all, Sex and the City is the franchise that made the Rampant Rabbit famous. It gave us the scene that inspired us to toy with our shower heads. And introduced us to the characters who prove it’s perfectly acceptable to spend the *whole* day masturbating. Today’s Sex and the City bus tour even stops at the Pleasure Chest in New York’s West Village, so we really owe it to fans to do the sex toys in the show justice, don’t you think?
With that in mind, we’ve rounded up every sex toy (and every sex toy inspired by the iconic show). And, sorry purists, but we’ve also included a few bits from And Just Like That. Whether it’s the famous rabbit to the handcuff gift basket in season six, here’s our take on how Carrie, Miranda, Samantha, and Charlotte got their kicks in the show — and how you can get yours, too.
Every sex toy in Sex and the City at a glance
- Best dildo: Lovehoney BASICS Glow In the Dark Realistic Suction Cup Dildo,
£19.99£11.99 - Best Rampant Rabbit: Ann Summers G-Spot Stroking Rampant Rabbit,
£65.00£45.50 - Best wand: Doxy Extra Powerful Wand Massager, £99.99
- Best strap-on: Bondara Climax Hunter 7 Function Remote Control Strap-On
£89.99£45.00
Shop every sex toy in Sex and the City
Lois Shearing is Cosmoplitan's Former Senior Sex and Relationship Writer. They have been writing about sex, sexuality, gender, politics, and relationships for almost ten years. Their writing on these topics has appeared in Mashable, The Independent, Metro, The Advocate, and Byline Times, among others. In 2021, they published their first book, Bi the Way with JKP. They are currently working on two other books, set to be published in 2024. In a previous life, they worked as a content marketer and content writer for various tech start-ups. They continue to be interested in the tech sector and its impact on our lives, relationships, and work, with particular regard to the ways AI will shape our relationships in the future. Outside of work, they are deeply passionate about queer community organising, and run the only support resource for bisexual survivors of sexual violence in the UK: the Bi Survivors Network. You can find them on Instagram and X.
Emilie Lavinia is Cosmopolitan UK's Former Sex and Relationships Editor. An accredited Sex Educator and Sexologist, Emilie explores identity, equity and innovations in sex, love, wellness and identity with her writing, broadcasting, coaching and commercial work. Emilie has written for the likes of The Guardian, Stylist, Grazia, Woman & Home, Red and Women's Health. She has appeared in documentaries exploring sex and wellbeing by ITV, Channel 5 and the BBC. Emilie has represented the UK as a United Nations Delegate and is a passionate advocate for women's health, LGBTQ+ rights and sex education and public health policy. She is a representative for Young Women's Trust, United Nations Women and The Porn Conversation and works with a number of charities. She loves big books, Bell Hooks, her infrared sauna and her Pomeranian, Ivy Valentine. She lives in London and can give you a rating out of 10 for every sex toy ever invented. Sign up to Emilie's Substack newsletter The Cuff for spice and advice or follow her on LinkedIn, X, Instagram, or her website: emilielavinia.com
Megan Wallace (they/them) is Cosmopolitan UK’s Former Sex and Relationships Editor covering sexual pleasure, sex toys, LGBTQIA+ identity, dating and romance. They have covered sexuality and relationships for over five years and are the founder of the PULP zine, which publishes essays on culture and sex. In their spare time, they can be found exploring the London kink scene and planning dates on Feeld.

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