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5 wand vibrator sex positions that are downright magical
You'll need an assistant for these tricks šŖ
Wand vibrators are the power tools of the sex toy world. There's no subtlety, just 100% full-on throttle. While people have known about āneck massagersā for decades, these vibes remain classic bedroom staples.
While we love them for a solo sesh, they're also super handy for patterned sex too. Thanks to their power and versatility, wands are one of the best gender-neutral sex toys. They can be used for partnered regardless of whether your partner has a penis or a vulva. Now that's magic.
Here are some of our fave sex positions you can try out with a wand, just make sure you use your favourite magic potion too ā we mean plenty of lube, obviously.
The Electric Scissors
Scissoring is the kind of move that sounds way hotter than it usually is IRL (see also: 69), but a wand vibrator makes it actually incredible. Lie side by side and intertwine your limbs, each of you grinding against side of the wand (sharing is caring!) A rechargeable wand lets you roll around without worrying about the cord.
SHOP NOW Deluxe Rechargeable Mini Wand, Lovehoney
The Pillow Thumper
For a beyond orgasmic combo of rumbly vibes and penetration, lie flat pressing your vulva onto an old-school plug-in wand vibrator wrapped in a t-shirt or tucked under a pillow (if your clit is extra sensitive.) You can hump the vibrating pillow or just plant yourself there and ride the waves. So. Good.
Shop now Deluxe Mains Powered Extra Powerful Magic Wand Vibrator, Lovehoney
The Howling Dog
Doggy is great for getting a bulky wand vibrator where it needs to go. And doggy + wand is a classic, but if you want to push it further, try giving your partner control of the wand. A mini-wand is easy to manoeuvre and they can tease you with it, press it against a butt plug to make it vibrate and/or hold it at the base of their penis or strap on while they thrust.
Shop now Multi-speed rechargeable midi-wand, Bondara
The Reverrrrrrrrb
You can buy wand attachments to add textured bits or internal stimulation, but you can also DIY your pleasure. Press a wand against the end of a dildo to create an instant vibrating dildo. Move the wand between your clit and the dildo to tease yourself or press it against both at once. If you're into power plays or edging, this is also a perfect way for a partner to test your limits.
Shop now Dual Rechargeable Rabbit & Wand Massager Set,
The Skyrocket in Flight
Turns out, wands are amazing for penises too! Try pressing a wand on the low setting against the bottom of their shaft for a grand finale finish to oral or a hand job. Seriously, that's all you doāpress and holdāand it can lead to spectacular results.
Caveats: Ask first ā no one wants surprise power tool on their junk. Use the lowest setting. Find their sweet spot ā might be at the base, might be just under the head.
And for a whole different sensation, try an attachment designed to fit over the head of a penis.
Shop now Hummer Deluxe Male Masturbator Wand Attachment, Lovehoney
Jill Hamilton is a contributor for Cosmopolitan.com and writes the blog In Bed With Married Women.
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