Lesbian sex toys for women and people with vulvas

Strapless strap-ons are great and all, but they do come with a few hurdles: Are the giver’s kegel muscles are strong enough to hold it in place? Is the toy bendy enough to work in a position that allows you to both get off while maintaining eye contact?

That’s a lot of ifs, so if you’re after a more straight-forward approach to penetrative pleasure, the Gizi Duo has two full length shafts for you to mount.

Meanwhile, that nub in the middle is covered in swathes of ribs for you to rub your clits against — all while making intensely erotic eye contact.

Penetration not your vibe (ahem)? If it’s double clit stimulation without the internal play you’re after, Thump has every kind you could possibly want.

While you might need to get experimental with your positions, this Bellesa baby is loaded with suction power on one side, vibrations on the handle, and pulsing technology via its square paddle on the front.

Once you’ve settled into scissoring, you can both thump against the side of your choice for simultaneous external Os. Stunning!

Some stereotypes are based on reality, and lesbians liking crystals is one of them (in our sapphic sex writers’ experience, anyway). Well, thanks to this dildo, you can combine your crystal compulsion with your sex life.

Made entirely of rose quartz, this curved number might help to open up your heart chakra and heal emotional wounds — or at the very least will open your thighs.

That bulbous tip at the end is excellent for kneading into your G-spot, and you never know: it just might make you squirt, if you’re so compelled.

LELO’s DOT clitoral vibrator boasts a precision point which is designed to stimulate the clitoris (but it also works on other erogenous zones).

So far, so good. But the best bit is that, due to its soft, bendy tip and elliptical motion, it prevents the clit from going numb during a lengthy sesh. In short, you’ll be able to enjoy multiple orgasms across its eight vibration settings.

It’s from luxury sex toy brand LELO, so is made from the finest materials and features some seriously cutting edge tech. If you fancy giving your partner as a seriously iconic gift, this is what we’d recommend.

One thing about WLW — and probably part of the reason they orgasm more regularly than straight and bisexual women — is that they truly know the anatomy of the female body. It kinda comes with the territory…

So it makes sense that you’d have a combo of toys to stimulate the G-spot and C-spot on hand for when you’re looking to build up to a blended orgasm.

This vibrator from Smile Makers is lightly ribbed, for extra texture against your G-spot, and offers up nine vibration intensities to choose from as you pair thrusting with your side order of choice — oral or fingers, anyone? Everything is romantic, IG!

This strapless strap-on is one you can both enjoy at the same time. One partner wears the shaft internally while penetrating the other — so perfect if you’re into internal stimulation.

The strap-on targets both your G-spots, and you can thrust away as you wish. The toy also includes a removable bullet vibrator which offers three speeds and seven vibration patterns.

Great news, the strap is also fully submersible, meaning that you and your partner can try it out in the shower — just make sure you’ve got an anti-slip mat down under your feet!

Switches out there, they finally named a toy after you, congrats! While you will have given your money to countless Swedish brands like Ikea (U-haulers, we’re looking at you), Spotify, and Fjällräven, you might not have shopped with our fave of them all: LELO.

But here’s where we implore you to invest your money in a quality sex toy, and LELO makes the best of the best. This one is coated in silky silicone, and can be used as a magic wand vibrator on one end, and a G-spot vibrator on the other.

To make sure you’re really mixing up where and when you get off, LELO has also made this one app-controlled, for better intimacy when you’re apart. Oh, and the app unlocks two extra vibration modes on top of its 10 built-in settings. Swedish fish, or, um... sweet.

The most basic of sex toys around, the humble bullet can take your sex life from a one to 100 quicker than you can say ‘come’. Despite appearing deceptively small and simple, bullet vibrators have a ton of uses and can be used au natural (i.e. on their own), or paired with other sex toys for added vibes.

This silver number from Lovehoney is set with 10 powerful functions, so you can hold it against the C-spot for direct stimulation, or insert it inside a strap-on harness or hollow dildo to level up your penetration game. Its only downfall is that it’s battery-powered, so you run the risk of losing the vibes mid-sesh.

Dame Products is one of our favourite sex toy brands, as the toys are great quality and designed by women for women and people with vulvas.

This finger vibrator is slipped over the wearer’s finger so you can play with your partner with extra clit stimulation. Made from medical grade silicone, this little guy has three intensity settings and a run time of an hour and a half.

The biggest attraction, though, is probably its sleek design. With a modern, simple, and refined look, it’s perfect for anyone who needs a little bit of luxury to get their engine running.

There really are no rules when it comes to sex (other than consent, duh) — so why are we restricting ourselves to holding or strapping on a dildo? Not only can these forms of penetration be trickier for those with mobility issues, but there’s a whole world of riding positions out there, so let’s get creative with it!

Thanks to Bondara’s sex toy geniuses, you can now suction your fave phallus to this straddle saddle on any surface — we’re talking thighs, sofa arms, or faces (if that’s your thing) — as you or a partner yeehaw their way to the big O. New positions unlocked ✅

Whether you experience pain or discomfort during sex, are new to penetration, or are recovering from vaginoplasty surgery (because, despite the implications of the recent Supreme Court ruling — trans women are lesbians, too!), this dilator set can help you ease into internal play.

Starting with the smallest dilator, this set can be inserted during external play or foreplay — so you can work your way up through the set over time to full-on penetration (if that’s your goal).

The loop handle means you’ll have full control over how much length you insert, and don’t forget to add a generous portion of water-based lube to prevent any unwanted friction!

If you’re looking for a beginners dildo or a nice simple one to use if you’re not sure you’re into them, this affordable curved suction cup number from Lovehoney is a really good option.

It’s curved to hit your G-spot and can be used with water-based lube. It can also be used with a harness if you want to convert it into a strap-on — just make sure you have a 1.5 inch O ring for a seamless fit.

With 6.5 inches of insertable length, it gives you plenty of shaft to play with. And you can increase the fun for the wearer by slipping a bullet vibe inside to stimulate their clit.

If your pillow was your first foray into a good old fashion grind, this toy from Rocks Off will be just your type. Designed to be gender-neutral, this vibrator contains two vibrating nubs to stimulate the balls, penis, vulva, or clitoris.

For those who are into a spot of voyeurism, have your partner mount the toy as you watch them grind their way to climax, or for something a little more hands-on, use the toy to tease them in any position of your choosing.

The Ruby Glow is, unforch, battery-operated and it only runs for 50 minutes, so you might want to combine this with another toy to elongate the main event.

Glass dildos are great sex toys to use in partnered sex. One person can use the dildo (with lots of lube to make it more pleasurable and reduce the risk of soreness) by slowly moving it in and out of their partner’s vagina. Baby you’re a giver, after all!

The beads on this dildo add extra stimulation as they go in and are removed. Plus, will glass toys you can see a lot more of what is going on, which is really hot.

Glass dildos are great for temperature play — this one can be put in the fridge or warmed up in a bowl of water for a whole new range of sensations.

If you haven’t tried a clit sucker sex toy, where have you been? If you are looking to dip your toes, this one from ROMP is a great place to start.

Small and powerful, the ROMP Switch is a great budget suction vibrator for those trying suction vibes for the first time.

Instead of coming into direct contact with the clitoris like a bullet vibrator would, it instead uses pressure waves to mimic the feeling of being eaten out.

Its six pleasure air suction settings — all whisper quiet — are easy to switch between using its two control buttons, plus its head comes off for a quick clean after use. What more could a gal ask for?