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If you’ve never been one to switch up sex positions then, sorry to break it to you, you’ve seriously been missing out. While there’s nothing wrong with some good old missionary or doggy style (you know, the classics), it’s worth venturing out and trying something new – whether with a repeat or casual partner.
See, sex positions aren’t all acrobatics and iron-like core strength (though we do have a few of those more adventurous moves up our sleeves, if you’d like). Instead, plenty of sex positions are designed to yield maximum results with minimal effort, paving the way for multiple orgasms, levelling up head game, or providing out-of-this-world G-Spot stimulation.
The main tip for success isn’t about whether you’ve tried any of these positions before but whether you’re able to communicate openly and honestly with your partner(s) about what does or doesn’t work for you in the moment.
So, how about a hand-curated selection of low effort, under-the-radar sex positions which feel amazing? We thought you’d never ask! The sex position experts at Love Pleasure share their top underrated sex positions which you should try at home.
Missionary
Let’s get this one over and done with first – which, ironically, is probably your exact thoughts when someone suggests this age-old position. But we think it’s got a bad rap for no reason.
Not only is there tonnes of skin-on-skin contact and the potential for plenty of intense eye contact, there are ways to jazz missionary up a bit. Lift your legs onto your partner’s shoulders to really intensify this position, and to allow them to go even deeper.
If they don’t have a penis, use a strap-on dildo. Either way, use loads of lube to make it extra slippery and pleasurable.
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Standing Ovation
Now the reason this position is so underrated is because most people write it off straight away. It’s definitely not the easiest position on the list, but we say it’s worth the extra effort – and practice makes perfect! In the heat of the moment, you’ll love how passionate and hot this position is.
Here’s our pro tip: get in position by asking your partner to sit on a chair or the edge of a bed and straddle them so that your vulva is in a suitable position for their penis/strap-on. Then, hold onto their shoulders as they stand up. May the thrusting commence.
We’d recommend taking this one slow and opting for regular breaks. Or, for extra support, ask your partner to prop you up on an elevated surface like a kitchen countertop.
Spooning
Spooning can be a cute, intimate cuddle – but it can also be so much more than that! In order to embrace the sexy potential of spooning, both partners lie on their sides, with the receiving partner’s back pressed to the giving partner’s front. From there, the giving partner can gently thrust in order to penetrate the receiving partner with their penis/strap-on.
It’s the perfect position for the penetrating partner to really take control and maximise your pleasure by reaching round with their free hand and bringing you even closer to climax by stimulating your clitoris.
You’ll be surprised at how good spooning can be. They can even use a small sex toy to make sure you come.
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Side Chick
Looking for something incredibly intimate? This is the position for you.
The Side Chick requires both partners to lie on their sides, facing each other while the giving partner uses their penis/strap-on to penetrate the receiving partner. There’s so much skin-to-skin contact and a chance for your limbs to become entwined – it feels sooo passionate when done right.
FYI: it can be a bit of a tricky position to get into the swing of, but once you’ve got the hang of it, we’re sure it’ll be your new go-to.
Paisley is the former Sex and Relationships editor at Cosmopolitan UK. She covers everything from sex toys, how to masturbate and sex positions, to all things LGBTQ. She definitely reveals too much about her personal life on the Internet.
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