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Best LGBTQ+ books to add to your shelf this Pride

As if your TBR list wasn’t long enough

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Whether it's fiction or non-fiction, poetry or prose, books are a welcoming, accessible, and fun way to explore queerness - plus you can do it completely at your own pace and in your own space.

We've rounded up some of the best books on queer experiences, from the asexuality spectrum, to lesbian history, through trans memoirs, bisexual essays, and everything in between.

Because reading is what? Fundamental.

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Best book on Transmasculinity

A Trans Man Walks Into a Gay Bar - A Journey of Self (and Sexual) Discovery Book

A Trans Man Walks Into a Gay Bar - A Journey of Self (and Sexual) Discovery Book

Harry Nicholas explores what it means to be a gay and a man (and a gay man) in this honest, funny, insightful memoir in which we as the reader come with him on a journey covering everything from Gindr, saunas, and falling in love.

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Best book on Aromanticism

Ace and Aro Journeys: A Guide to Embracing Your Asexual or Aromantic Identity

Ace and Aro Journeys: A Guide to Embracing Your Asexual or Aromantic Identity

Want to learn more about asexuality and aromanticism? This guide from the The Ace and Aro Advocacy Project covers everything you need to know about understanding your identity, different types of relationships, and how to find and build community. What's not to love?

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Best queer history book

Bad Gays: A Homosexual History (Paperback)

Bad Gays: A Homosexual History (Paperback)

Based on the hit podcast from Huw Lemmey and Ben Miller, Bad Gays uses humour and nuance to explore the queers who won't be making it onto "LGBTQ+ Icons you need to know" lists and asks "what we can learn about LGBTQ history, sexuality and identity through its villains and baddies?".

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Best book on bisexual men

Bisexual Men Exist: A Handbook for Bisexual, Pansexual and M-Spec Men

Bisexual Men Exist: A Handbook for Bisexual, Pansexual and M-Spec Men

In this groundbreaking book, Vaneet Mehta delves into the community, background, and challenges of one of the most overlooked groups in the LGBTQ+ community; bisexual, pansexual, and M-spec men.

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Best book on sapphic culture

All The Things She Said: Everything I Know About Modern Lesbian and Bi Culture

All The Things She Said: Everything I Know About Modern Lesbian and Bi Culture

Journalist Daisy Jones takes readers on a whirlwind tour of modern lesbian, bisexual and queer women's culture in her debut book, covering everything from affirming haircuts, lesbian bars, TikTok and of course, Carol. Brb, swooning over Cate Blanchett.

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Best lesbian romance

The Price of Salt, or Carol

The Price of Salt, or Carol

Speaking of Carol, no list of best LGBTQIA+ books would be complete without it - or rather The Price of Salt, as Patricia Highsmith's original novel was called.

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Best book about neurodivergent queers

Queerly Autistic: The Ultimate Guide For LGBTQIA+ Teens On The Spectrum

Queerly Autistic: The Ultimate Guide For LGBTQIA+ Teens On The Spectrum

What does it mean to be queer and autistic? In Queerly Autistic, Erin Ekins explores just that (duh), providing an empowering guide to coming out, safe sex, and practicing self-care. While being aimed at teens, this books is an affirming read for autistic queers and allies of all ages.

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Milk Fed (Paperback)

Milk Fed (Paperback)

This sexy, strange, suspenseful novel is a romance in way you've never seen before. When Rachel, a lapsed Jew with an obsession for calorie counting, meets Miriam, a young Orthodox Jewish woman, neither are prepared for where their obsession and longing will take them.

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Best poetry collection

The Essential June Jordan (Penguin Modern Classics)

The Essential June Jordan (Penguin Modern Classics)

June Jordan was a bisexual essayist, activist, and poet whose work explored sexuality, gender, race, immigration, representation, the civil rights movement, and much more. This book brings together all her most influentials works in one convenient place.

10
Best book for gay men

Gay Man Talking: All the Conversations We Never Had (Paperback)

Gay Man Talking: All the Conversations We Never Had (Paperback)

Author Daniel Harding unpacks what it means to be a gay man today, from coming out, to the GBBF stereotype, through sex, relationships, and community, via conversations with friends and other gay men.

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Best book about coming out

Coming Out Stories: Personal Experiences of Coming Out from Across the LGBTQ+ Spectrum

Coming Out Stories: Personal Experiences of Coming Out from Across the LGBTQ+ Spectrum

This beautiful and moving anthology brings together a range of - you guessed it - coming out stories from queer people of all different backgrounds, sexualities, and gender identities.

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Best trans non-fiction

The Transgender Issue: An Argument for Justice

The Transgender Issue: An Argument for Justice

Journalist Shon Faye provides an illuminating, powerful, reasoned argument for trans liberation against the backdrop of the trans panic in the UK in her debut book - which became an instant Sunday Times best seller.

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Best for lesbian history

Lesbian Love Story: A Queer History of Sapphic Romance (Hardback)

Lesbian Love Story: A Queer History of Sapphic Romance (Hardback)

A love letter like you've never experienced before - Amelia Possanza reaches back through history to shine a light on the lives and loves of lesbians role models, interweaving each with her own experience of sapphic life.

14
Best LGBTQ+ memoir

Transitional: In One Way or Another, We All Transition

Transitional: In One Way or Another, We All Transition

Activist and writer Munroe Bergdorf's moving memoir delves in to the different ways we all transtition - from teens into adults, in and out of love, in to new identities - all against the backdrop of her own lived experiences.

We chatted with Munroe about the launch of the book.

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15
Best book on Islam and queerness

Hijab Butch Blues

Hijab Butch Blues

Another groundbreaking memoir, author Lamya H reflects on her experiences as a queer, butch Muslim; weaving her life with lesson from the Quran.

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It Ain't Over Til the Bisexual Speaks: An Anthology of Bisexual Voices

It Ain't Over Til the Bisexual Speaks: An Anthology of Bisexual Voices

Editors Vaneet Mehta and Lois Shearing bring together the voices of 17 (including themselves) contemporary bisexual activists, organisers, and thinkers to capture the layout of the modern bi movement and tackle issues from racism, transphobia, fatphobia, through to explorations of faith and polyamory.

You can read an extract here.

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Best book for queer or questioning newbies

Queer: A Graphic History (Graphic Guides)

Queer: A Graphic History (Graphic Guides)

Activist-academic Meg-John Barker and cartoonist Jules Scheele illuminate queer theory and history in this fun, informative, and accessible graphic novel, which is the perfect pick for anyone questioning their sexuality or gender - or simply wanting to learn more.

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Go the Way Your Blood Beats: On Truth, Bisexuality and Desire: On Truth and Desire

Go the Way Your Blood Beats: On Truth, Bisexuality and Desire: On Truth and Desire

Drawing on his own experiences as a bisexual man, Michael Amherst questions the binary of gay and straight, male and female to rethink desire and the way we conceptualise it. Interwoven between chapters are love letters to Amherst's first love, who died during the writing process.

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Best queer graphic novel

My Lesbian Experience With Loneliness - My Lesbian Experience with Loneliness 1 (Paperback)

My Lesbian Experience With Loneliness - My Lesbian Experience with Loneliness 1 (Paperback)

An honest, heart-felt, and funny look at one young woman's exploration of sexuality, sex, and loneliness - all wrapped up as a gorgeous graphic novel.

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Bi the Way: The Bisexual Guide to Life

Bi the Way: The Bisexual Guide to Life

An introductory guide to all things bisexuality, from coming out, to biphobia and bi-erasure, finding community, and dating - all told from the perspectives of activism and liberation.

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Lois Shearing
Former Senior Sex and Relationship Writer

Lois Shearing is Cosmoplitan's Former Senior Sex and Relationship Writer. They have been writing about sex, sexuality, gender, politics, and relationships for almost ten years. Their writing on these topics has appeared in Mashable, The Independent, Metro, The Advocate, and Byline Times, among others. In 2021, they published their first book, Bi the Way with JKP. They are currently working on two other books, set to be published in 2024.  In a previous life, they worked as a content marketer and content writer for various tech start-ups. They continue to be interested in the tech sector and its impact on our lives, relationships, and work, with particular regard to the ways AI will shape our relationships in the future.  Outside of work, they are deeply passionate about queer community organising, and run the only support resource for bisexual survivors of sexual violence in the UK: the Bi Survivors Network.  You can find them on Instagram and X

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