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16 best butt plugs to try no matter your anal experience, for prostate, perineum, and anal G-spot stimulation
Interested in some booty action? We gotchu
Thinking about adding more butt stuff to your sex life? An anal plug is the place to start. Butt plugs are the best sex toys for getting acquainted with all the pleasure your backside has to offer, whether you're ready to try anal sex for the first time or make foreplay a little more backdoor play.
And no, you don't need a prostate to reap these benefits. As certified sex therapist Shadeen Francis tells Cosmo, “Anal plugs stimulate the sensitive nerve endings inside the anus and can lead to powerful orgasms.” Um, hi, sounds good to us!
While there’s certainly a place for butt plugs in partnered play, they can also be a great way to test the waters with backdoor stuff on your own before diving into anal sex with a partner. In fact, anal surgeon Dr. Evan Goldstein recommends that beginners experiment with butt plugs solo first before trying 'em out with anyone else.
And because all bodies and desires are different, you best believe there’s a wide range of anal plug options out there... though ofc, we tested and reviewed to find the very best for you.
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From vibrating butt plugs to doctor-approved anal training sets to slim, beginner-friendly options for newbies, we've got something for everyone. So, let's get to it and find the perfect plug for you, shall we?
Why should you use a butt plug?
According to Dr. Donna Oriowo, owner and lead therapist at AnnodRight, anyone can benefit from giving butt stuff a try — including those with vulvas. “With the pudendal nerve, direct stimulation to the anus can also stimulate the vagina,” she tells Cosmo.
“Plus, we know that with all those nerve endings in the anus, only 20 percent of them are in active use to keep things working. The other 80 percent is all about sensation.” And there's only one way to unlock that 80 percent: with experimentation and touch. Francis agrees, pointing out that different plugs can provide totally different experiences as well.
“Some plugs feel good for the pressure of fullness, some arc towards the prostate in people who have them (or the A-spot for people with vulvas), and some even pulse or vibrate,” she explains. What's not to like??
Ofc, you'll want to start small and work your way up, especially if you're a newbie. As Francis points out, the tissues of the anus are delicate and sensitive, so be gentle with yourself.
“If after exploring stimulation of the sensitive opening from the outside you'd like to try penetration, start small,” she says. “Always start smaller than you think: a little finger perhaps, or a narrow toy (with a flared base, of course).”
What to consider when choosing a butt plug
Not sure where to get started? Here are some tips on finding the butt plug of your dreams:
Stick with body-safe materials
As with all sex toys, the material of your anal plug matters, 'cause you def don't want to irritate your most intimate areas with a poorly-made toy. It's best to steer clear of toys made with PVC, as those tend to be more porous and pretty much impossible to fully sanitise (not to mention they may contain potentially toxic chemicals called phthalates).
Instead, sex therapist Shadeen Francis suggests looking for toys made from non-porous, body-safe materials. “You have many options, such as silicone, glass, porcelain, and metal,” she says, and it all depends on the sensation you wanna experience.
Look for a flared base
You'll notice that many of the best butt plugs include a wide handle at the base, and this isn't just an aesthetic choice. According to Francis, beginners should look for butt plugs “with a flared base to prevent the risk of the toy getting pulled into your anal canal and lodged inside,” and tbh, it's not a bad idea for users of ALL experience levels to stick to plugs with a flared base.
Consider the size
Not to state the obvious, but beginners should start with smaller, narrower butt plugs and work their way up, rather than taking the plunge with a jumbo-sized plug. “You can always go up in size as smaller toys become more comfortable,” Francis explains. “Even if over time you fancy yourself a bit of a size-slut, look for toys that start narrow and gradually increase in size to make insertion more comfortable.”
How we tested the best butt plugs
Here at Cosmo, we will not stand for being accused of lying down on the job — especially not when it comes to testing butt plugs. Each product that crosses our desk was passed around to colleagues and friends — all at different points on the gender spectrum and aged between 20 and 42 at the time of testing — to assess.
We asked each one to feedback their thoughts on the material of the butt plug, its features, size, whether it had a flared base, and if it was waterproof or rechargeable. The most-loved products are on this list — just for you!
Best butt plugs to shop in 2025
Pros
- Flared base, for safety
- Four sizes to choose from
- Four hours of battery power
Cons
- Not the most exciting packaging
For a long-distance plug option, check out the Hush 2 from Lovense. It's available in four different size options — ranging from 1 inch to 2.25 inches in thickness — so you can select the best fit depending on your experience level and girth preference.
And in addition to boasting 10 rumbly vibe settings, you can control this bad boy from any distance thanks to the Lovense app, which unlocks unlimited vibration patterns and allows you to connect with a partner anywhere in the world.
“My Hush 2 has become one of my favourite interactive toys,” one happy reviewer claims. “For someone who doesn't have a lot of experience anally, this size is a good fit, and I am not worried about it slipping out at inconvenient times. Of course, the digital interaction is wonderful (as is the case with all Lovense toys).”
Shall we race you to the checkout?
| Features | Unlimited vibrations via the Lovense app |
|---|---|
| Material | Silicone |
| Power | Rechargeable |
| Insertable length | 3.9 to 5.2 inches |
| Waterproof | OFC |
Pros
- Great for temperature play
- Easy to clean
Cons
- Glass might not be for everyone — but it's fun, we promise!
Similar in appearance to anal beads, the graduated design on this hand-blown glass plug make this a super versatile toy for a variety of sensations.
The first bead has a circumference of just 2.75 inches, making it ideal for beginners, while the last bead has a thicker 4.6-inch girth for truly fulfilling anal stimulation. Plus, the borosilicate glass means that you can get as creative as you'd like with temperature play and makes it super easy to clean.
“The pressure inside when fully inserted is great, the base is comfortable for longer wear, and the glass is easy to clean,” shares one happy purchaser. “What isn't there to like?” Preach!
| Features | Flared base and three graduated 'beads' |
|---|---|
| Material | Borosilicate glass |
| Power | No vibes here |
| Insertable length | 3.75 inches |
| Waterproof | Totes |
Pros
- Comes with an anal training guide (we love sex education!)
- Ideal for beginners working up to full-on anal penetration
- Gender-inclusive
Cons
- Takes a while to work up to the biggest (but it's worth it!)
If you’re ready to get your booty backdoor-play ready, this is where you’re gonna want to start. According to Dr. Goldstein, an ideal dilator has a longer-than-average shaft, a tapered tip, and no neck.
This set of five is ideal for beginners who are looking to explore anal play and work their way up over time. Plus, thanks to the flared base, they're suitable for regular use.
One happy customer shares: “After using this set for about a year, I have been able to slowly ease in and now enjoy some anal play with my partner. I loved that they were easy to clean, durable, and come in a good selection of sizes. Insertion was easy with a generous helping of water-based lubricant. This product really helped pave the way for self-exploration.”
| Features | Five different sized dilators |
|---|---|
| Material | Silicone |
| Power | No power here |
| Insertable length | 2.5 to 3.5 inches |
| Waterproof | Ya! |
Pros
- Loop handle for easy removal
- Slightly curved to hit your prostate
Cons
- Cold metal might be a bit of a shock at first (but it warms up)
Like glass plugs, metal butt plugs are also compatible with all lubes and ideal for temperature play, and this stainless steel option from Njoy is the very best.
Featuring an extra tapered head for maximum comfort and an easy-to-grip base ring, this beauty has a one inch-thick bulb and 2.5 inches of insertable length, while more advanced folks can always upgrade to the medium or large options.
“Easy-to-clean and oh-so-heavy, this plug gives you those good feelings you're searching for,” one reviewer raves. “It comes in several convenient sizes. Best plug I've ever used, and I could not be happier with it.” What a claim, huh?!
| Features | Curved bulbous tip with loop handle |
|---|---|
| Material | Stainless steel |
| Power | No vibes here |
| Insertable length | 2.25 to 2.75 inches |
| Waterproof | Yaaas |
Pros
- Activate the travel lock by holding down the 'on' button for 4 seconds
- Gentle vibrations are ideal for beginners
Cons
- Doesn't come with a storage pouch like other Smile Makers toys
We're taught to love thy neighbour — but rarely does that sentiment extend to our next door pleasure spot (AKA the asshole).
To make butt play accessible to everyone, Smile Makers has made this lilac (butt)lover, covered in the softest silicone out there.
Ideal for beginners, it has less than three insertable inches and a rounded tip for easy insertion (with plenty of anal lube, OFC). Plus if you feel like it, you can switch on its three vibrating speeds and two patterns to add a little buzz to your backside.
“The Neighbour is the vibrating butt plug we can all get behind,” says one reviewer. “It’s your typical toy next door; cute, dependable, anything but intimidating — and ready to add just the right amount of spice to solo or partnered sex.”
| Features | 3 vibrating speeds and 2 patterns |
|---|---|
| Material | Silicone |
| Insertable length | 3 inches |
| Power | Rechargeable |
| Waterproof | Duh |
b-Vibe Remote Control Rechargeable Vibrating Silicone Jewelled Butt Plug
Pros
- The colour, the jewel, she's perfect!
- Comes with a little storage pouch and an anal sex guide
- Tons of settings to choose from
Cons
- Not compatible with silicone lube
She might look cute and unsuspecting, but this butt plug from b-Vibe will coax an anal orgasm out of you in no time.
Anointed with a pink jewel at the end, the vibrating portion of this plug is programmed with six vibration intensities and a whopping 15 patterns — so you'll have no shortage of ways to get off.
Plus, thanks to the handy remote, you can pass control of your squirms over to your partner. Play out and about if you dare...
“This device took the very soul out of my wife,” says one customer. Sold!
| Features | Remote controlled, 15 vibration patterns and 6 intensities |
|---|---|
| Material | Silicone |
| Insertable length | 3 inches |
| Power | Rechargeable |
| Waterproof | Ya |
Pros
- Small and compact
- Ideal for travel
- Easy insertion thanks to the tapered tip
Cons
- No vibrations, unforch
Designed with platinum-grade, soft-to-the-touch silicone, this no-frills butt plug from Maude is tapered and slim enough to work for most beginners, measuring just 1 inch in width with 3.5 inches of insertable length.
It comes in its own little storage pouch, so it's easy to travel with, and the suction cup is strong enough to attach to any surface — shower, wall, or bedroom floor... you choose!
One reviewer describes the cone as: “perfect for beginners and seasoned pros alike, it’s incredibly soft and suitable for many bodies. It’s comfortable and has a luxurious feel. Definitely a staple in my and my partner’s collection.” Love!
| Features | Linen storage pouch |
|---|---|
| Material | Silicone |
| Power | No power here |
| Insertable length | 3.5 inches |
| Waterproof | Totes |
Pros
- Guaranteed to hit your prostate
- Comes in two sizes: small or large
Cons
- No vibes
The curved bulb on Fun Factory's beginner-to-intermediate Bootie plug makes it great for prostate play or more targeted anal play, as you're able to maneuver it around easier.
There's also a wide T-bar base that's designed to fit comfortably between the butt cheeks, and best of all, this bulbous plug comes in three size options, ranging from 1.1 inches in diameter to 1.6 inches.
“There was no 'searching' for the right spot, because as soon as I fully inserted the Bootie, it was there,” says one satisfied customer. “That wide head provided just the right amount of pressure.
“Unlike many curved toys, the Bootie felt equally as nice during thrusting as it did with a pressing motion... for anal use, this is definitely the perfect butt plug for long-term wear.” Yum.
| Features | Curved, flared base |
|---|---|
| Material | Silicone |
| Power | No vibrations |
| Insertable length | 2.6 to 4.3 inches |
| Waterproof | Yeppp |
Pros
- Super easy to use and clean (a big plus in our eyes)
- Price and size makes it perfect for beginners
Cons
- Doesn't come with batteries :(
While this vibrating anal plug is an A+ toy if you're just getting started with butt play, we promise that even more experienced users can have a good time with this too.
It's equipped with 10 different functions and a flared base — plus, you simply can't beat the price. And even though it's battery-operated, it's still fully waterproof. Get it in a 4-inch or 4.5-inch version if you want a bit more oomph.
“WHAT A TOY! The plug itself is extremely easy to insert using water-based lube and is comfortable once inserted,” one happy reviewer claims.
“The vibrators different functions really keep anal play exciting and makes the whole experience extremely pleasurable. Since buying this toy, I have purchased other larger anal vibrators that still can't pack a punch like this one can.”
| Features | 3 vibration speeds and 7 patterns |
|---|---|
| Material | Silicone |
| Power | 1 x AAA battery (not included) |
| Insertable length | 3.5 to 4.5 inches |
| Waterproof | Yupppp |
Pros
- Feels like penetrative anal sex
- 12 settings to choose from — unreal
Cons
- Not for beginners
With nearly four inches of insertable vibrating, rotating, and thrusting fun, this bb's here to help ya thrust 'til ya bust.
All 12 of the different functions can be controlled using a single button located on the bottom of the device, and it's a v approachable size for beginners and experts alike.
“I only made it through about half of the settings before I was shooting like a wild man,” a reviewer raves.
“The vibrations are fantastic and the thrusting action is so good. I plan on wearing this toy out in no time flat, it feels so good.”
| Features | 12 vibration patterns |
|---|---|
| Material | Silicone |
| Power | Rechargeable |
| Insertable length | 3.75 inches |
| Waterproof | Yes |
Pros
- Ridges provide stimulation against P- and G-spots
- Comes with a storage case
- Amazing for those who have already started their anal journey
Cons
- Not the biggest in the series, but choose a larger plug with more weight if you're into that...
Ding ding ding! (That's the school bell ringing, FYI). Welcome to a quick stop biology lesson: the anus is a muscle, so it can contract and relax around whatever it comes into contact with (or doesn't!).
This is why anal penetration for people with prostates can feel so good — your prostate comes into close contact with the plug the harder you grip on to it.
Enter: the weighted butt plug from b-Vibe — this one is the third lightest in the series, which is packed with two weighted balls to create feelings of pressure and fullness as it sits inside you.
These snug plugs are a great way to build up to full-on anal penetration — and not only stimulate those with prostates, but folks with vulvas, too — as the ridges press into the G-spot from inside the ass.
| Features | 2 weighted balls that provide pleasure as they move and create feelings of fullness |
|---|---|
| Material | Silicone, steel, ABS plastic |
| Insertable length | 4.5 insertable inches |
| Power | No vibes here |
| Waterproof | Yes! |
Pros
- Warm or cool the butt plug in water if you feel like it
- Can use it with silicone or water-based lube
Cons
- A little too round and large for beginners
With 2.5 inches of insertable length, this temperature-responsive metal plug has a flared base and slim neck for easy insertion — although it's slightly rounded, so probs best for those who've had some experience with butt plugs already.
Plus, the sassy silver fox tail is so damn cute — unforch not removable though (come on Lovehoney! Ever heard of cleaning a butt plug?)
If you're after a lil more girth, you can always upgrade to the medium version of this plug.
“This has to be one of my favourite toys,” says one reviewer. “The size of the butt plug is perfect and comfortable, so I am able to go around as a sexy fox for my partner! The tail is so soft and good quality!”
| Features | Faux fur fox tail |
|---|---|
| Material | Stainless steel |
| Power | No vibes here |
| Insertable length | 2.5 to 3 inches |
| Waterproof | She's splashproof |
Pros
- She's cute — what more do you want from us?
- Metal is easy to clean
Cons
- Again, the cold shock of metal can be a bit intense for some (but put it in some warm water first!)
Looking for a lil ✨pizazz?✨ Then get this precious and petite aluminium plug from Lovehoney, which features 2.5 inches of insertable length, a pink heart-shaped gem on the base, and enough weight to give ya an amazing feeling of fullness.
And like all metal toys, this plug is compatible with all lubes and able to be used for temperature play. It's also available as a 3-inch plug.
“I found it to be really comfortable for first-time use with lube — big enough to be satisfying but small enough that it was comfortable to wear for a good period of time,” one reviewer describes.
“Added bonus of it looking super cute, [and I] felt like it 'prettied up' an area that is not always the prettiest.”
Best believe your butt is still bejewelled, or whatever it was Taylor Swift said...
| Features | Bejewelled end |
|---|---|
| Material | Zinc alloy |
| Power | No vibes here |
| Insertable length | 2.5 or 3 inches |
| Waterproof | One hundo |
Pros
- Put in as much as you want
- Use without vibrations if you feel like it
Cons
- Have to press through all the settings to get to the one you want
A great graduated option, this cutie boasts three bulbous beads of increasing size, two power motors, and 12 tantalising massaging modes.
Everything can be controlled with a button on the wide, flared base, and with a 3.8-inch girth at the widest point, this plug shouldn't feel *too* intimidating.
“I had wanted to try anal for a while and finally decided to give it a try with the Lolli Plug 2,” explains one beginner to anal sex. “I have found a new wonderful pleasure. It was a breeze to slowly get used to this toy, and the many different vibration patterns always gives me options.”
| Features | 12 vibration modes |
|---|---|
| Material | Silicone |
| Power | Rechargeable |
| Insertable length | 4.25 inches |
| Waterproof | Yesss |
Pros
- Battery lasts up to 2 hours
- All LELO toys feel luxury
Cons
- Alternative to LELO's Hugo if you're not into remote control vibrators
Dr. Goldstein especially loves butt plugs created with prostate play in mind, since “upward-curved toys take the guesswork out of finding the sometimes elusive spot and can reduce the risk of injury,” he says.
A prime example: this bestselling prostate massager, which comes with six vibe settings, dual motors, and TONS of power.
“W.O.W. That was out of this world,” claims one reviewer. “It was my first time using a sex toy and it gave me my first p-orgasm within 30 seconds of using it. The powerful vibrations from this small toy is incredible!”
| Features | 6 vibration settings |
|---|---|
| Material | Body-safe silicone, ABS plastic |
| Power | Rechargeable |
| Insertable length | 3.4 inches |
| Waterproof | Obvs |
Pros
- Double P-spot and perineum stimulation
- Easy to control via the updated We-Vibe app
Cons
- Remote is battery-operated (ugh!)
If you're not in the business of sticking your hand next to your boyfriend's backside while they have something up there, we wouldn't blame you.
Not only is this prostate massager controlled via either the manual buttons or the We-Vibe app, but its 10 rumbly vibration modes can be controlled from anywhere in the world — making it ideal for long-distance play.
As well as reaching the male G-spot (AKA the P-spot) with its four insertable inches, Vector extends to the perineum for blissful blended sensations during either solo or partnered penetrative sex.
“This is my second P-massager and let me tell you, compared to the first one it's like getting out of a Yugo and into a Ferrari,” claims one purchaser. “It is very beginner friendly. The adjustment is great for getting it in just the right spot. And the vibrations... WOW!!!” Sign us up...
| Features | 6 vibration patterns and 4 intensities |
|---|---|
| Material | Silicone |
| Insertable length | 4 inches |
| Power | Rechargeable, remote uses 1 x coin cell (CR2032/CR2016) |
| Waterproof | You already know, babe |
How to use a butt plug, for beginners
First things first: lube is your friend, and we C-A-N-N-O-T emphasise that enough. “Before you grab the butt plug, though, you have to remember that, unlike the vagina, the anus is not self-lubricating,” says sex and relationship therapist Dr Donna Oriowo.
“This means you have to use lube. Don’t be shy with it, either — use just a bit more than you think is enough. Better to have more lube than less.”
The type of lube you use matters, too. “As a tip for your lube choice, think about what you might like to do in your butt play session,” certified sex therapist Shadeen Francis suggests.
“Silicone lube is long-lasting but can be hard to clean and can't be used with silicone toys. Water-based lube is friendly for everyone, but you will need to reapply. Oil-based lubes give a lot of slip but, depending on the ingredients, can contain allergens and will absolutely stain your bedsheets.”
When using a butt plug, sex and pleasure educator Luna Matatas suggests opting for silicone lube or a thicker water-based lube. “For butt stuff, we want the lube to linger,” she says. “Silicone lubes are a popular choice for anal enthusiasts because a little goes a long way, so they last longer.”
Dr. Goldstein warns that leaving a toy inside your body for extended periods can irritate and inflame the sphincter muscles around the neck of the plug, making it tricky to remove (especially if it’s too small or the shaft is too short). “Less is always more when it comes to duration,” he says.
“If you're someone who loves the pressured sensations of the butt plug staying put, then I recommend you start slow, with just a few minutes, and then you can gradually go for longer periods of time.”
Meet the experts
- Donna Oriowo, LICSW, M.ED, is the owner and lead therapist at AnnodRight in Lanham, Maryland, USA.
- Shadeen Francis, LMFT, CST, is a certified sex therapist based in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, USA.
- Luna Matatas is a sex and pleasure educator based in Toronto, Canada, who coined Peg the Patriarchy and hosts b-Vibe's The Plug podcast.
- Evan Goldstein, DO, is a renowned anal surgeon, CEO of Bespoke Surgical, and co-founder of sex care brand Future Method.
Why trust Cosmo
Pleasure is hiiiighly diverse, and what rocks someone's world may not be powerful enough to thrill another person. That's why we rounded up a whole range of highly-rated butt plugs, from small anal toys to seriously strong devices that'll leave your legs quaking.
To make sure there's something for everyone, we consulted sex and relationship educators and therapists to scope out their top tips for using butt plugs. We also distributed our selection of butt plugs among willing testers — from friends, to family, and willing colleagues — for their insights on what works and doesn't.
And you better believe we read those product reviews (and test many of the brands IRL) so you don't have to do it yourself.
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