Planning a hen (or sten) party can be pretty stressful, between organising everyone's calendars and budgets, finding the best hen party houses, and choosing which hen party games to play. Luckily, we're here to make those jobs all the easier, so you can spend less time stressing and instead enjoy these special moments before the bride's big day. Enter: the Mr and Mrs game.
Never played before? Worry not – here's everything you need to know about the Mr and Mrs game, and our pick of the best Mr and Mrs questions...
How to play Mr and Mrs
The rules for playing Mr and Mrs are relatively simple; however, there are a few ways you can play depending on the group you have and whether both partners are at the same event.
Separate hen/stag do: If you're planning to play Mr and Mrs at a hen or stag do where the other partner won't be present, you'll need to get the answers from their partner ahead of time. You can simply ask them to send their responses over text or email, or for a fun twist, get them to record themselves giving the answers, so the bride or groom can then see their reactions.
Sten do: If you're planning Mr and Mrs for a group event where both partners are present (read: a sten), then you simply need to decide your questions ahead of time as the couple will give their answers on the day.
Items to bring: For any question that starts with 'who', ideally you'll need a set of paddles (customised to say 'Mr' on one side and 'Mrs' on the other) so the couple can hold up whichever paddle they think is the answer. For all the other questions, ensure you've got a whiteboard to hand so they can write their answers and wipe them off easily before the next one.
Forfeits: Of course, you don't need to play Mr and Mrs with forfeits, but if you want to spice the game up a bit, consider a list of forfeits the bride or groom will need to complete if they get a question wrong.
Good luck!
Classic Mr and Mrs questions
- When did you meet?
- What was their first impression of you?
- Who asked who out first?
- What did you do on your first date?
- Who said "I love you" first?
- What are your nicknames for each other?
- What's their favourite way to spend time together?
- What their favourite movie?
- Who is their best friend?
- Where was your first holiday together?
- Who is their celebrity crush?
- What are they most scared of?
- What is their favourite takeaway?
- Where is their dream honeymoon destination?
- What's the one thing they couldn't live without?
- Do they want children?
- What was their first job?
- What is your favourite trait of theirs?
- What's the best gift they've ever given you? And you've given them?
- Do you have a 'couple song'?
Funny Mr and Mrs questions
- What is their most annoying habit?
- What's your funniest memory of them?
- What did they say you'd most likely go to jail for?
- Who has the worst morning breath?
- What is their guilty pleasure?
- What dog breed would they identify as?
- Name all their cousins
- Did they ever get in trouble at school?
- What would their superpower be?
- Which Disney character are they most like?
- What's their niche interest?
- What item of their clothing do you dislike the most?
- What's the pettiest argument you've had?
- What's the weirdest place you've had sex?
- What's a food you love that they hate?
- What are their least favourite jobs around the house?
- If they won the lottery, how would they spend the money?
- If they had to go onto a dating app, what would their bio be?
- Do they have any phobias?
- What's the most embarrassing song on their Spotify?
'Who is...' Mr and Mrs questions
- Who is the funniest?
- Who is the better cook?
- Who is the messiest?
- Who takes the longest to get ready?
- Who has the better taste in music?
- Who has the better taste in films?
- Who plans the best dates?
- Who cries more easily?
- Who is more romantic?
- Who sleeps in longer?
- Who is most likely to get hangry?
- Who gossips more?
- Who snores the most?
- Who is most likely to start planning for the future?
- Who is more patient?
- Who is most likely to win an argument?
- Who has the worst habits?
- Who is better at karaoke?
- Who texts back faster?
- Who is most likely to laugh during a serious moment?
- Who is more dramatic?
- Who is the better driver?
- Who would make a better Love Islander?
- Who wakes up earlier?
- Who has the better style?
Wedding day Mr and Mrs questions
- Who has done more wedding planning?
- Who has more guests coming to the wedding?
- Who is most likely to sleep in on the wedding day?
- Who is most likely to be late to the venue on the wedding day?
- Who is most likely to cry first on the wedding day?
- Who is most likely to forget their vows at the wedding?
- Who is most likely to forget the rings?
- Who will get the most drunk at the wedding?
- Who will be dancing the most at the wedding?
- Who is most likely to smush wedding cake into the other's face?
- Who is most likely to forget the moves to the first dance?
- Who is most likely to do an Irish exit from the wedding?
- Who is most likely to order a late night Deliveroo to the room?
- Who is most likely to fall asleep first after the wedding day?
- Who is most likely to fall asleep in their wedding clothes?
- Who is most likely to have a hangover the day after the wedding?
- Who has spent more time planning the honeymoon?
- Who had more decision-making on the honeymoon destination?
- Who is most likely to do the packing for the honeymoon?
- Who is most likely to forget to bring their sunglasses on the honeymoon?
Naughty Mr and Mrs questions
- Who is more likely to initiate sex?
- Who is more adventurous in bed?
- Who is most likely to talk dirty in the bedroom?
- Who is most likely to send a sext from work?
- Who owns more sex toys?
- Who is more likely to suggest role play?
- Who is more likely to go along with role play?
- Who is most likely to want morning sex?
- Who is most likely to want shower sex?
- Who is more likely to have sex in a public place?
- Who is more dominant in bed?
- Who is more likely to watch porn?
- Who gives better oral sex?
- Who is more vocal during sex?
- Who is more likely to have a secret fantasy they haven't shared?
- Who is more likely to suggest a new sex position?
- Who is more likely to laugh during sex?
- Who is more likely to fart during sex?
- Who is more likely to fall asleep straight after sex?
- Who is more likely to schedule sex?
- Who is more likely to suggest a quickie?
- Who is more likely to suggest a striptease?
- Who is more likely to actually do a striptease?
- Who is more likely to suggest bringing food into sex?
Who is more likely to whisper something naughty in public?
Happy henning!


















