Paige Vahla
Former Sex & Relationships Editor
Paige Vahla (She/Her) is Cosmopolitan UK's former Sex & Relationships Editor covering all things sex, relationships, friends and family, and LGBTQ+. Think of her as your sex-positive best friend who offers expert insight and first-person perspectives when it comes to exploring the realm of love and sex. Whether you're updating your sex toy stash, getting over a friendship break-up or need answers to your burning relationship questions - she's got you covered. You can also follow her on Twitter.
How to go down on someone *really* well
A no-nonsense guide to mind-blowing cunnilingus
Enter the splash zone: how to squirt like a pro
The wetter, the better
How to use a vibrator
Live your best sex toy life and take pleasure into your own hands
Cheap sex toys that are actually incredible, tested by our sex writers
Because your sexual pleasure shouldn’t have to break the bank
Board games, but not as you know them — discover the 21 best adult sex games
Monopoly could never
Expert masturbation tips for women who want to masturbate really, really well
Get to know your body
‘Womanizer’s OG Pleasure Air G-spot Vibrator made me consider if I still need a boyfriend’
Spoiler: she's a bedroom staple
The best LELO sex toys that are majorly unique
Combining luxury, wellness, and pleasure. Let’s have it!
The LELO DOT gave me multiple orgasms
A vibe that gets straight to the point
What it means to be asexual, explained by experts
“For any sexual orientation, there’s no one-size-fits-all — all ace people will have a unique relationship with their asexuality”
Why age-gap relationships are still a sticky subject
Age is nothing but a number, right?
Best gifts for people in long-distance relationships
From sex toys to cute mementos
The best Lovehoney advent calendars for 2023
Did someone say XXX-mas?
A look back at the realities of dating in 2022
Yup, situationship is a legit relationship status now
People are sharing their best and worst dating moments of 2022 on TikTok
The viral trend all started with one woman’s wild Powerpoint presentation of her romantic escapades
Drake made a 42 diamond necklace to mark all the times he didn't propose
The piece is made from 42 engagement rings, 18K white gold and 351.38 carats in diamonds – rich flex indeed
Will your clitoris ‘disappear’ if you don’t use it?
A doctor responds to these viral TikTok claims – plus more mind blowing facts about your magical clit
Drew Barrymore thinks bad dates are ‘awesome’ – um?!
The actor and TV host spills on how she looks at dating struggles optimistically – we’ll take a leaf!
How Bumble and TikTok are fighting non-consensual intimate image abuse
The platforms have partnered with StopNCII to help block and delete intimate images and videos of people shared without their consent
Tinder launches a guide to healthier dating habits
The guide, in collaboration with anti-domestic violence and sexual assault non-profit NO MORE, provides tips on consent, safety and respect when dating
Cara Delevingne on the orgasm gap, sexual growth, and her doc Planet Sex
The model, actor and LGBTQ+ icon tells us what's to come on her new BBC show, where she explores our deepest desires, donates her orgasm to science, and makes art from her vagina
Get Stonewall and Durex’s queer, inclusive sex resource to the top of your reading list
Sex ed’ but make it queer.
Kim Kardashian on fireplace sex with Pete to honour her grandma "MJ"
"How creepy to think about your grandma during sex?”