Frank Kobola
Frank is a contributing writer for Cosmopolitan.com
10 legit first date tips from guys you’ll want to remember
Your anxiety will thank you
6 people on what it's like to be sapiosexual
You might have seen the term popping up on people's dating profiles.
12 cute things couples can do to stay in touch instead of texting all day
Just because you can message them throughout the workday, it doesn't mean you should.
9 signs your partner is selfish in bed
Because life's too short to be with someone who sucks at sex and doesn't want to change.
8 guys on when saying "I love you" went horribly wrong
"She told me, 'No you don’t,' and I started crying.
12 guys on the most embarrassing thing they did in front of their partner’s parents
"I was nude in front of most of her relatives.”
10 guys on their best 'one night stands'
"We had sex until the sun came up, it was like an R&B song."
9 guys on how they knew immediately they'd met “The One”
"This was the first time I went on a first date and just knew that she liked me as much as I liked her."
10 signs your relationship is rock solid
It doesn't matter if they're not physically there with you right now. You know they're still coming back to you.
"I told my best friend their partner was cheating on them - this is what happened"
Three people who've caught their BFF's partners being unfaithful explain how they told them.
How soon is too soon to send a double text? 8 guys weigh in
"You can double text out of genuine concern."
12 guys on how they know they’re in love
“I think it’s a conscious effort and not something that just happens."
3 guys with erectile dysfunction on what they wish women knew
"My career is very stressful, and to be blunt, my penis doesn’t really work great when work has me really stressed."
10 Tinder secrets most guys wouldn't tell you
Yes, he has fallen for a bot at least once.
12 guys share their wildest stag do confessions
"The groom had a meltdown. Like, a full-on ‘I don’t want to get married’ meltdown."
10 sex toy secrets guys won’t tell you
He has no idea how you clean these things.
9 sex things that don’t matter once you get married
Change can be a good thing.
10 anal sex secrets guys tend to keep to themselves
It's like a calzone vs. a pizza. Similar, but just different enough.
7 hand job secrets guys keep to themselves
A hand job without lube is basically just rug burn.
10 guys describe the most memorable orgasm they’ve ever had
There's... a lot of bum stuff.
9 guys confess how they caught their partners cheating
"I went downstairs to get a drink and she was on a couch hardcore making out with some dude."
10 shower sex secrets guys will never tell you
It’s like a terrifying, horny, water park ride.
9 cunnilingus secrets guys won't tell you
We know damn well this beard tickles.
10 fingering secrets guys will never tell you
Even as adults, we're still winging this.
9 doggy style secrets guys will never tell you
Watching your butt jiggle is like, half the appeal.
9 guys on the most regrettable gifts their girlfriends have got them
Sometimes the thought does not count
12 guys on how they know it's time to say "I love you"
"I don’t just like, fire off a Snap the second it dawns on me. I want it to be romantic."
16 guys on how often they really masturbate
“Once a day, usually, if I’m single. Actually, even when I’m not single."
11 guys on the best Christmas gifts they've ever received
Serious gifting inspo ahead.
11 guys confess the worst Christmas gifts they've ever given their girlfriends
BRB, cringing forever.
11 things guys think right before proposing
Empty bladder, full heart. That’s the best way to go into a proposal.
All your questions about balls, answered
Balls can be mind-boggling to anyone who doesn't have them, but rest easy. Help is on the way.