• Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce got engaged in August 2025.
  • The couple are currently wedding planning, and she wants the process to feel "grounded and not chaotic."
  • A source says the wedding won't be "super huge."

Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce have been spending a ton of time together amid the holidays, and a source just spilllllled to Us Weekly about their relationship. "Travis has given Taylor a sense of calm," the insider said. "He supports her in ways that she could have never imagined, and he never expects her to perform or curate a persona around him. That kind of ease has given her permission to be her real self. It’s always light between them, and although they have serious life conversations, they really don’t argue or fight."

They added that "This is her favorite time of year with the holidays and her birthday, and she has been intentionally slowing down. She’s been nesting, cooking, spending time with family and carving out space to enjoy being engaged."

Speaking of being engaged, the source notes that "Taylor wants the lead-up to her wedding to Travis to feel grounded and not chaotic," that it "won’t be a super huge wedding as far as guest count," and that "Taylor and Travis are both very excited about their next chapter" (and are talking about starting a family).

Meanwhile, another source says that "Taylor used to be super type A, but she’s become more spontaneous. The armor is off. She’s trying to live a more unfiltered life. Taylor is visibly lighter and laughing a lot more. Travis gives her a fearless playfulness and the confidence to take up space unapologetically."

Love this for them.