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17 Best Sex Gifts That’ll Add Some Spice to Anyone’s Sex Life

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There's nothing wrong with getting your fave person a gift like jewelry, a new tech gadget, or a set of gorgeous drinking glasses, but sometimes you want something a bit sexier. Like, if it's your bestie's bachelorette party or if you wanna surprise your partner with something sexy as an anniversary gift. To help you find something actually hot and not just corny, I've rounded up some of the best sex gifts to shop now. Yes, there are things like lingerie and sex toys on the list (hey, they're classic sex gifts for a reason!) but there are also some truly unique sex-themed gifts here, too.

When you're shopping for a sex gift, you probably want to know at least a little bit about what your recipient is into in the bedroom. If it's your partner, you probably have a pretty good idea. But if you're shopping for a friend or a couple, you might be feeling a little clueless. And while you could text them like "Hey, are you guys into BDSM or no?" that might be a little awk. If that's the situation you're dealing with, something like a candle that melts into body-friendly massage oil or a sexy board game might be perfect. It's not *quite* as intimate as a sex toy, but it's still got the right energy of an erotic gift. Also, just saying, if something here catches your eye, you might as well treat yourself.

Behold, the best sex gifts you can shop now.

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This scented candle you can use for a massage

maude burn - jojoba oil massage candle

maude burn - jojoba oil massage candle
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Candles are already kinda sexy, but a candle that melts down into an oil you can use to massage your partner? That's hot. This candle is made with jojoba oil, which their skin will love, and it comes in a variety of scents. There's also an unscented version if your recipient is sensitive to fragrance.

Jewelry that doubles as a vibrator? Say less. Crave's bestselling Vesper necklace, which is available in silver and gold, is a statement piece that transforms into an external clit vibrator. If you're looking for a more luxe bachelorette gift or something sexy for your partner, this is the way to go.

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All the sex toys they could want

Lovehoney Wild Weekend Mega Couple's Sex Toy Kit

Lovehoney Wild Weekend Mega Couple's Sex Toy Kit
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Warning: if you give this to your bestie for her bachelorette, you probably won't be hearing from her for a while bc she will be busy. This set comes with 11 sex toys, including a rabbit vibrator, anal beads, a vibrating cock ring, and so much more. Also, the variety of toys is good for people or couples who haven't really used sex toys before and want to figure out what they like before dropping a ton of $$$.

4
This Orgasmic Gel That Takes Sex to Another Level

Sliquid Organics Stimulating O Gel

Sliquid Organics Stimulating O Gel
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This is basically the definition of "good things come in small packages." Your recipient can rub a little bit of this gel on their clit, nipples, or anywhere else for some intense sensations during sex or masturbation. Also, it's formulated to be hypoallergenic and mostly consists of organic ingredients including peppermint oil and aloe (but ofc, make sure your recipient doesn't have any allergies to the ingredients!).

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5
For The Person Flirting With BDSM

Under The Bed Restraints

Under The Bed Restraints
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If your partner has expressed an interest in being restrained or restraining you, this gift is sure to be appreciated. Several reviewers mention that it's beginner-friendly and easy to set up, plus it's designed to fit any mattress. No headboard, no problem!

6
This Bestselling Bullet Vibrator

Bullet Vibrator

Bullet Vibrator
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I am a firm believer that everyone needs a good bullet vibrator. Clit stimulation is the name of the game, people! This sleek lil one has 10 vibration modes and an angled tip, and unlike most bullet vibes at this price point, it's actually rechargeable. Also, it's $12! So even if your recipient is like "thanks, but no thanks," you won't have dropped tons of $$$ on something they won't use.

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7
This Silky and Lacy Lingerie Set

Women's Satin Pajama Set

Women's Satin Pajama Set
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Lingerie is kind of a go-to sex gift, whether you're buying for your bestie's bachelorette or need a sweet V-Day gift for your beloved. This gorgeous set comes with a satiny robe and set of shorts, along with a lacy bralette and undies. I mean, it has over 13,000 5-star ratings on Amazon, so what are you waiting for??

8
This Steamy Cosmo Sex Book

Cosmopolitan Fantasy Sex Games

Cosmopolitan Fantasy Sex Games
Credit: Cosmopolitan

Sure, maybe I'm a little biased, but this book has 85(!!!) ideas for roleplay games, creative positions, and more. I see a H-O-T night in their future once they unwrap this.

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This Gorgeous Vibrator

Namii Vibrator

Namii Vibrator
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This unique vibrator features both suction AND vibration functions, which your recipient can use simultaneously or separately. Also, it comes with a lighted magnetic charging base that's pretty enough to serve as their bedside lamp. With this, they'll be happy to keep their new favorite toy on display.

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This Expert-Recommended Sex Enhancer

Liberator Decor Flip Ramp

Liberator Decor Flip Ramp
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The Liberator Flip Ramp was previously recommended to Cosmo by Tyomi Morgan, a certified sexologist, pleasure coach, and movement specialist. It opens up a whole new world of positions and angles, and that's the best sex gift you can give someone. Plus, when it's not in use, it folds up into a cube that looks just like a normal ottoman. Genius!

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Drunk in Love: X-Rated Couples Drinking Game
Credit: Amazon/Drunk in Love

This would make a perfect anniversary gift for your friend who's been with their partner 4ever and needs to shake things up. It includes cards with prompts like "Drink if you've sent a nude to your partner" along with dares like "Blindfold your partner and make them guess which body part they're touching (or drink)."

You can't go wrong with a sexy red lace teddy to really spice things up. Adore Me's collection is available in a ton of colors, as well as in both regular and plus sizes. And if one pieces aren't your thing, go for one of the brand's super sexy two-piece corset sets instead.

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Looking to spice things up with your partner? This remote-controlled panty vibrator is subtle, sleek, and designed to be hidden away in this black thong. It has three vibration modes that can be used in quiet or loud places, five intensity levels, and a range of 15-20 feet for the remote control.

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This TikTok-Famous Vibrator

Neworld Rose Sex Toy

Neworld Rose Sex Toy
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If they've spent any time on TikTok, they've probably come across the internet-famous rose toy. Give them a chance to test drive this style of vibrator for themselves and see what the hype is all about.

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Tenga Spinners V2 Masturbation Sleeve
Credit: Babeland

People with penises deserve sex toys, too! This one looks like a piece of artwork, but inside is a textured shaft that provides extra stimulation. It takes masturbation (or handjobs, or blowjobs) to the next level.

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This Fun and Sexy Board Game

Lovehoney Oh! Fantastic Foreplay Board Game

Lovehoney Oh! Fantastic Foreplay Board Game
Credit: Lovehoney

Board game night just got a lot spicier! This game prompts you to do sexy things to your partner, ranging from playing with their hair to more intense activities, like blindfolding them and performing oral sex. It's a good way to try something different or just get out of a sex rut (it happens to the best of us!)

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This Sexy Conversation Starter

100 Questions About Sex

100 Questions About Sex
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Honestly, talking about sex is an underrated form of foreplay. This card set has tons of conversation prompts about fantasies, interests, and favorite sexy memories. It's basically guaranteed to be a turn-on for any couple.

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