19 Best Massage Oils for Sex
Time to slip into something a little more...slippery.
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If your sex life could use a little more sensuality these days, then great news: you don’t have to splurge on a spensy couples massage. Instead, take matters into your own hands (literally) and give your partner a sexy little rubdown before you get down—assuming they return the favor, of course. Even more good news? Not only can a massage situation add some serious romance to your routine, but it’s also incredible foreplay (and aftercare). In addition to helping you relax and get into your body, a massage can also open up new avenues of pleasure.
“So often we dive right into genital touch that we ignore the other erogenous zones of the body that can really heighten our arousal,” says Lisa Finn, brand manager and sex educator at Babeland. But to help you unlock all that pleasure potential, you’re gonna need to get yourself some sexy massage oil. Hence this list of all the very best massage and body oils that were specifically designed with sex in mind. Plus, some of these sex oils even double as lube. (However! It’s very important to note that that’s not the case for most sex and body oils, and improper use in your internal genitalia can lead to infection and some major irritation. If lube is what you seek, we recommend checking out some of our Cosmo editor-endorsed faves.)
Other perks of using massage oil during sex include (but are not limited to!) enhanced slippery sensations, the opportunity to set the mood with soothing scents, and, of course, the obvious visual effects of an oiled-up body. Oh, and can’t forget the kinky temperature play potential if you opt for a warmed oil or one of our favorite massage oil candles. All of which is to say: yes, your sex life could be a little more slippery.
Our top picks for the best massage oils of 2024:
So now that you're eager to give it a try, here are all the best body oils for sex, foreplay, and beyond, as well as everything you should know before using massage oil for sex.
Pros
- All-natural formula featuring just two ingredients and zero weird chemicals.
- Great for both external and internal play.
- Reviewers say the CBD enhances relaxation and arousal.
Cons
- Oil-based formula is slippery, so best avoided during shower sex.
A CBD sex oil that doubles as lube and comes with a Cosmo sex editor seal of approval? Believe it. One of our 2024 Lube Awards winners, this CBD-infused coconut oil is our Associate Sex and Relationship Editor’s go-to for a slippery pre-sex massage and beyond.
- Size: 2 oz
- Internal or external? Both
- Scent: Unscented
- Key ingredient(s): Organic MCT coconut oil, Broad-spectrum extract from USDA organic-certified, regeneratively-grown USA hemp (400mg Active CBD), free of THC
Glowing Cosmo Editor Review: “As someone who has historically struggled to get out of my damn head and into my body during sex, I’m thrilled to announce I have finally found the solution: a pre-sex rubdown featuring this CBD-infused coconut oil lubricant. And while I love it as a sexy massage oil, it’s also safe to use as lube for penetrative play (though not with latex or polyisoprene condoms or latex toys, JFYI). Either way, allow this sleek and slippery stuff to help you get into it.” —Kayla Kibbe, Associate Sex and Relationships Editor
Pros
- Safe to use as lube and massage oil
- Long-lasting without feeling greasy
Cons
- Not as lubricating as some would like
Want a massage oil that's doubles as lube and is both lickable and kissable? Kindly turn your attention to this ultra-hydrating, two-in-one formula from Dame. Naturally-derived, pH-balanced, and safe for internal use, this sex oil smells lightly of spicy sandalwood and cardamom, and it'll keep everything slippery and slick during sex sessions (though since it's oil-based, pls not that it's not compatible with condoms!).
- Size: 2 oz
- Internal or external? Both
- Scent: Sandalwood and cardamom
- Key ingredient(s): Safflower seed oil, vitamin E, evening primrose oil
Glowing Customer Review: "This oil is awesome! Just as advertised, it works very well for both massages and sex! I have used it many times with my wife and we love it. There is a pleasant smell, which is subtle and not overpowering at all."
Pros
- Contains a ton of product (16 ounces!!)
- Has a very simple ingredient list, which may mitigate irritation on those with sensitive skin
Cons
- Testers note that it might stain bedding
Amazon is my go-to place for everything from beauty products to home goods. And today, I'm adding intimate items and sex toys on Amazon to the list because the e-tailer has some of the best products for inside the bedroom, like this coconut sensual massage oil. Not only is this body oil super affordable with a ton of product, but it also uses primarily coconut-based ingredients for the most luxe, aromatic, yet ~natural~ experience. If you want to continue the sensual play (which you probably will after using this bb), stock up on Nooky's water-based lubricants!
- Size: 16 oz
- Internal or external? External
- Scent: Coconut
- Key ingredient(s): Coconut oil, coco butter, sunflower oil
Glowing Customer Review: "My partner used it on me as a body massage oil, and I used it on his sexual part and he lost his mind. Let’s just say he had the best happy ending there is!"
Pros
- Uses aphrodisiac botanicals and oils
- Oil-jelly doesn't transfer to sheets
Cons
- Definitely a splurge
This body oil from Goop Wellness may be pricey, but it's well worth the cost, trust. They truly thought of everything when it came to creating this intimate sex oil—from the display-worthy design you don't feel the need to hide in a closed drawer, to the formula that feels just as wonderful on your back as it does on your vulva, to the consistency formulated sans stickiness and made to not transfer to your sheets, this sex oil is truly a game-changer.
Just note, it's not made for internal use or with condoms, so stick to the external genitalia—i.e., penis, or for vagina-owners, your vulva, meaning anything on the outside that you can see by spreading your legs or the lips with your hands (labia majora, labia minora, and clitoris).
- Size: 2 oz
- Internal or external? External
- Scent: Bergamot, cinnamon, clove, and ginger
- Key ingredient(s): Squalane, meadowfoam seed oil, pumpkin seed oil, saffron oil, goji seed oil
Glowing Customer Review: "WOW I MEAN WOW. Just buy it if you're thinking about it. I mean, best oil I’ve ever used hands-down."
Pros
- Lovely aromatic scent
- Heated element adds a little *spice*
Cons
- It's a real candle, so you need to be sure that the oil isn't too hot or you could burn your skin
If you're curious about wax play, this body-safe massage candle from LELO is a must-try. Made with all-natural soy wax, shea butter, and apricot kernel oil formula, this candle is specifically formulated to melt at lower temperatures compared to standard candle wax, leaving you with a sensual body oil perfect for massages. And if black pepper and pomegranate aren't for you, this candle also comes in two other scents.
- Size: 5.3 oz
- Internal or external? External
- Scent: Black pepper and pomegranate
- Key ingredient(s): Soy wax, shea butter, apricot kernel oil
Glowing Customer Review: "Got this candle as a Christmas gift for my partner and it has quickly become a favorite! The candle burns into a smooth massage oil that doesn't dry flaky or tacky. And it smells incredible. Can't wait to try the other scents!"
Pros
- Lavender scent is subtle and calming
- Doesn't leave oily, greasy residue
Cons
- Requires 5 to 10 pumps, so may be used up quickly
There's nothing quite like lavender to set the mind and body at ease, which is why this clean massage oil from Bloomi is so damn great. The non-greasy formula includes anti-inflammatory sesame oil to alleviate dryness and pumpkin seed oil to moisturize skin and enhance blood flow, all while the lavender aroma soothes your senses.
- Size: 3 oz
- Internal or external? External
- Scent: Lavender
- Key ingredient(s): Grapeseed oil, pumpkin seed oil, squalane, lavender oil, vitamin E
Glowing Customer Review: "The lavender in this oil is incredible. So relaxing for the massage giver and receiver—I could breathe this aroma all day. Consistency is not too oily [and] just perfect for foreplay massages. New staple in my intimacy cabinet!"
Pros
- Smells so delicious and luxe
- Leaves skin soft rather than sticky or greasy
Cons
- Heavily-fragranced product like this one may not be suitable for sensitive skin types
Looking to combine sensuality and scent? You should try a massage lotion infused with essential oils, like this delightfully slick formula from Smile Makers. This option combines rosemary, lavender, and black pepper for a rich aroma that'll drive you and your boo wild—and for something a lil more calming, you can also try Smile Maker's sunflower, jojoba, and almond body oil.
- Size: 3.4 oz
- Internal or external? External
- Scent: Rosemary, lavender, and black pepper
- Key ingredient(s): Rosemary leaf oil, vitamin E
Glowing Customer Review: "LOVED the aroma of this oil. Really luxurious. My partner used this on my whole body, and not only was it a sensual experience, but the lovely, rich feel lasted for ages without being sticky or greasy."
Pros
- Made with certified organic ingredients
- Ideal for sensitive skin
Cons
- Some find the formula a bit too thick
For a clean, fragrance-free formula that def won't irritate your skin, ya can't beat this organic massage oil from Maude. Ideal for both sensual massages and daily hydration, this bb contains a blend of jojoba, coconut, argan, and castor oil that'll leave you feeling so damn smooth and supple—and it can even be used on your face and hair!
- Size: 4 oz
- Internal or external? External
- Scent: Fragrance-free
- Key ingredient(s): Argan, castor, coconut, and jojoba oils
Glowing Customer Review: "I was on the hunt for a no-frills, good quality massage oil and came across Maude and their products and absolutely fell in love! I really enjoy the feel of the glass bottle and the pump works really well. The oil itself is great. It has a good slip to it, lasts for a while, and doesn't leave any residue on sheets or a greasy feeling."
Pros
- Great amount of product for the price
- Leaves skin super moisturized
Cons
- Formula may feel too thick for some
JSYK, you don't have to drop big money to get a non-greasy, body-safe massage oil. Introducing: this budget-friendly option from SheaMoisture, which is infused with coconut oil, coconut milk, and shea butter to leave you feeling baby-soft. Reviewers love how quickly this formula absorbs into the skin, and they def love that $11 price tag.
- Size: 8 oz
- Internal or external? External
- Scent: Coconut oil, coconut milk, shea butter
- Key ingredient(s): Coconut oil
Glowing Customer Review: "My husband and I both love this oil. We use it for massages and it’s not too greasy and the scent isn’t super strong. I have sensitive skin (break out easily) and this works well on my skin."
Pros
- Available in numerous fragrances if hemp isn't your vibe
- Uses 100 percent natural ingredients
Cons
- Some testers noted that upon arrival, some of the contents leaked
Hi, have you ever considered using a body oil infused with hemp seed? Known as nature's "most perfectly balanced oil," hemp seed oil provides tons of slip without any greasy residue, which is what makes it such a great choice for massage therapy. And for just $20, you can get this super-popular oil from Earthly Body, which is made with a moisturizing blend of hemp seed and grape seed oil and comes in nearly a dozen different scent options (though Naked in the Woods is a fan favorite).
- Size: 8 oz
- Internal or external? External
- Scent: White tea and ginger
- Key ingredient(s): Grapeseed oil, vitamin E
Glowing Customer Review: "When you use lotion to give massages, it dries up fast and doesn't spread as easily. But this stuff actually is really smooth and it isn't greasy and gross. It smells really nice and isn't really too feminine or too masculine; it's the perfect mixture. I absolutely love it!"
Pros
- Safe to ingest
- Has incredible texture and scent
Cons
- Doesn't spread as well as some would like
Another great hemp-infused formula, this sensual massage oil from HighOnLove is formulated to ease tension, increase energy flow, and stimulate circulation, all while leaving your skin velvety-smooth. And since aromas are used instead of fragrances, it's 100 percent edible and comes in four decadent varieties: white chocolate, lychee martini, tropical sunset, and—my personal fave—strawberries and champagne.
- Size: 4 oz
- Internal or external? External
- Scent: Strawberry and champagne
- Key ingredient(s): Safflower seed oil, grapeseed oil, vitamin E
Glowing Customer Review: "The scent and texture of this product are ideal. It is not overly sticky, nor does it taste too sweet. We love it!"
Pros
- Totally edible and safe to use as lube
- Feels just as amazing as it smells
Cons
- May stain bedsheets
Made from organic coconuts and natural ingredients, this non-sticky and long-lasting love oil from Woo More Play is the moisturizing formula of your dreams. You'll love that it's created with vanilla essence and a touch of stevia so it smells (and tastes!) amazing, and it also contains ultra-moisturizing beeswax. Oh, and did we mention it doubles as lube?
- Size: 3.3 oz
- Internal or external? Both
- Scent: Vanilla
- Key ingredient(s): Coconut oil, jojoba esters
Glowing Customer Review: "Absolutely amazing, smells great, keeps everything so slippery but doesn’t overly lubricate. Wife loved it, too. Even kept all my bits and pieces soft the following morning!"
Pros
- Totally safe for internal use and 100 percent edible
- Incredibly moisturizing while still lightweight
Cons
- Not as lubricating as some would like
Another great option for a two-in-one body oil that doubles as lube, this hemp-infused formula from Coconu is seriously versatile. With its coconut oil base, this body oil can be used to ease tension, increase sensation, and moisturize your most intimate areas, all in one silky, lightweight formula.
- Size: 3 oz
- Internal or external? Both
- Scent: Fragrance-free
- Key ingredient(s): Sea buckthorn oil, squalene, vitamin E
Glowing Customer Review: "I found this product after looking for a natural and safe massage oil. It goes on without feeling greasy and immediately relaxes my muscles and relieves all my tension even before the massage! It left my skin feeling smooth and soft. I am definitely adding this to my self-care routine."
Pros
- Helps to relax muscles and improve circulation
- Great consistency for massages
Cons
- Needs to stay clear from internal genetalia
Wanna try something infused with a lil CBD? Try this super-popular option from Ellis Brooklyn, which contains 100 milligrams of organic, full-spectrum CBD to promote increased blood flow and muscle relaxation. It also contains maritime pine bark extract and sweet almond oil for improved circulation and skin hydration, so ya, it's definitely worth your coin.
- Size: 1 oz
- Internal or external? External
- Scent: Fragrance-free
- Key ingredient(s): CBD, rosemary oil, vitamin E
Glowing Customer Review: "What a great massage oil. I tend to come home from work very exhausted so I tend to massage my back, chest, arms and legs. Minimal amount is needed for the entire body. The oil smells great and the CBD helps me relax more compared to my old oil."
QQ: What's the difference between massage oil and lube?
While some massage oils can be used as lube, it's important to note that not all body oils are safe for internal use (and, in fact, most are not). As Babeland sexual educator Lisa Finn explains, "The added fragrances and botanicals could potentially be irritating and may disrupt pH," which is why you should only use massage oil as a lubricant if it's *specifically* approved for both internal and external use.
If you do use an internal-safe body oil as a lubricant, then just know it comes with some limitations. While oil-based lubes and oils are long-lasting and v moisturizing, they aren't compatible with latex condoms and very rarely can be used with silicone toys. Likewise, they're much more likely to stain your sheets and make a mess than water-based lubes.
How to choose the best sexual massage oil
Check out the ingredients
As with anything you put on your skin, you'll want to steer clear of formulas that contain potentially icky ingredients such as parabens, which can irritate your skin, as well as any drying alcohols. Instead, look for moisturizing ingredients like oils and butters, and antioxidant-rich ones like vitamin E, among others.
Also be sure to consider any allergies you or your partner might have, as oils tend to include fruit and seed derivatives. Sensitive skin types should stick with a fragrance-free oil.
Look at the intended uses
Again, body oil and lube are definitely *not* one in the same, even though some massage oils are safe to use as lube. Before you ever use a body oil for sex (either anally or vaginally), make sure that formula is explicitly approved for internal use—and if isn't, then you should only be using that oil on your body, not in it.
Consider the scents
If you're looking to give your partner an aromatherapy massage, then choosing the right scent can make a world of difference. Before buying anything, consider what aromas may potentially irritate you and your partner, and read reviews to make sure the scent isn't *too* strong. Oh, and if you or your partner have sensitive skin, then you might wanna skip out on anything with fragrance altogether.
Why trust 'Cosmo'?
Here at Cosmo, we have v high standards when it comes to sexual wellness recs. We've included a range of sensual massage oil options so you can find the best options for you. You can also be rest assured all these picks are all body-safe—some are even okay for internal use—and hiiighly rated by some very happy customers since you deserve nothing but the best.
Every one of our round-ups adheres to the 15 Percent Pledge and includes products for all budgets and bodies. And you better believe we read those product reviews (and test many of the brands IRL) so you don't have to do it yourself.
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