17 Best Lesbian Sex Toys You’ll Want to Use All the Time

This vibrator has a smooth, wide, and flexible tip meant to mimic a tongue, which makes it great for clitoral stimulation—as well as a tool for added sensation anywhere on the body. It's a great toy to use if you like to build anticipation in the bedroom. And if you're on the go, you don't have to worry about this baby going off while you're going through TSA. It comes with a travel lock, and even if it did start on its own, it's super quiet and discreet.

• Use: External only
• Material: Silicone
• Run time: Up to 3 hours
• Waterproof? Yes

Glowing Customer Review: "This one is definitely larger in size than I thought it would be, which was actually really nice because it made it easy to hold/maneuver. It's very soft touch silicone and in a super cute color. It was very easy to learn how to use and has several setting options for speed/pulse, which was really nice. This is a winner in my book."

This strap-on set has tonnnns of glowing reviews on Lovehoney, and it comes with everything you need to get started: a harness that can be adjusted between 18 and 68 inches, a five-inch dildo, and three interchangeable O-rings. Oh, and if you've already got a dildo you like, it's very likely you'll be able to pop it into this harness, since it comes with three different O-ring size options.

• Use: Internal and external
• Material: Silicone

Glowing Customer Review: "We are a lesbian couple and so far we have enjoyed this product. It's a good size for beginners, good feel, and very sturdy. Overall really nice design!"

If you're looking for a strapless double-ended dildo that also vibrates, allow me to introduce you to this bestseller from Wet For Her. Its flexible design allows each end to bend, accommodating a variety of positions and angles. Reviewers love that it can be worn strapless or with a harness, and the fact that it's available in three different sizes—small, medium, or large—so you can find the length and girth best for you and your partner.

• Use: Internal and external
• Material: Silicone
• Run time: Not specified
• Waterproof? No, only water-resistant

Glowing Customer Review: "I wasn't sure what I'd think of this toy, but now that I've tried it there's no looking back. Truly a game changer for the wearer. And the experiencer didn't seem to disagree."

Oh, you thought this would just be a list of vibrators? Well, you thought wrong. When shopping for sex toys, don't forget that all your erogenous zones deserve some love. These nipple clamps are adjustable, so you can go at your own pace, and they include silicone tips that won't irritate your skin.

• Use: External only
• Material: Nickel-free metal and silicone

Glowing Customer Review: "My nipples, I'm embarrassed to admit, have been pretty much ignored my whole life. Until now! Got a present of these little gems for the twin girls. Great sensation. Even nicer when taken off after 15 to 20 minutes. Love love love my new nipple clamps!"

If you're just starting to introduce sex toys into your life, a wand toy is a great place to start because you can literally use it anywhere on the body. "I recommend starting with the feet, moving up the legs, thighs and inner thighs, around the breasts, the nipples, around the butt, and so forth," says Ghose. I personally <3 this LELO wand because it's *super* quiet—aka ideal if you have roomies—and has an ergonomic curve to help you hit just the right spot.

• Use: External only
• Material: Silicone and ABS plastic
  
• Run time: Up to 2 hours
  
• Waterproof? Yes
  

Glowing Customer Review: "Gets the job done. Great in the shower. Love the different modes and speeds. Enjoyable as a solo use or with my partner. Really quiet [and] only makes a bit of noise on the highest setting."

Dame’s focus is on closing the Pleasure Gap (you know, the difference in satisfaction that people with vulvas experience versus cis males), and it’s pretty clear the Eva II vibe is doing just that. The waterproof toy has three speeds, and the unique, hands-free design makes it simple to wear without stealing all the spotlight. Unsure of how to work it into your sex life? Ghose recommends that one partner wears it "while the other can lay on top or straddle, so both can experience the vibrator at the same time."

• Use: External only
• Material: Silicone
• Run time: Up to 1 hour on highest setting
• Waterproof? Yes

Glowing Customer Review: "Absolute necessity for the best time. Been using this toy for many years now. It absolutely enhances our sex life. It's by far the best toy in our collection."

Yes, these little toys look like AirPods, but, no, they will not be able to play the new Sabrina Carpenter. These little tools are wearable finger vibes—just slip your finger tip under the silicone cover, and, boom, your fingers will be buzzing. I love that these come in a rechargeable case, so they're very discreet and easy to travel with.

• Use: External only
• Material: Silicone and ABS plastic
• Run time: Up to 25 min
• Waterproof? No, only splashproof
  

Glowing Customer Review: "Love how tiny this is and easy to slip onto your finger—does the trick!"

Spread the love with this harness, which comes with a O-ring to hold any flared-base dildo, as well as a separate wearable silicone vibe for the harness-wearer. The harness, which fits up to 60-inch hips, has a hidden pocket in the front padding for the wearable vibe, which has two motors and can also be used separately. It's basically a three-in-one toy that will complement your already-existing collection.

• Use: External only
• Material: Silicone
• Run time: Not specified
• Waterproof? No, only splashproof

Enjoy motorized pleasure hands-free with this rider vibe. Made to rest on a flat surface, the vibe is perfect for those who enjoy a good grind. The toy has two motors, each with 12 different settings, that can be controlled separately. The included remote has a nearly 33-foot range, so you can hand it off to your partner and enjoy!

• Use: External only
• Material: Silicone
• Run time: Up to 90 minutes
• Waterproof? Yes
  

Glowing Customer Review: "I find I have a lot of trouble orgasming if it's not from grinding. Was absolutely thrilled when I discovered this toy while browsing, [as] it was exactly what I'd been looking for!! Easy to place on wherever you choose to grind, and the curves are very thoughtful and comfortable. I'm super happy with this purchase and hope grinders consider this alternative!"

If both you and your partner are into penetrative sex, try this double dildo, which is made with silky-soft silicone and flexible enough to allow for comfortable movement. It measures 18 inches in total length with a 1.5-inch diameter on each end—and if you're looking for something girthier, you can always upgrade to the standard version.

• Use: Internal and external
• Material: Silicone

Glowing Customer Review: "One of my most used [toys]. The texture makes it super easy for any type of use, the flexibility does not wear out, and it's a perfect size!! I would recommend this product and buy it again."

Have you ever been out to dinner and thought to yourself, Wow, it would be really hot it if my partner could magically stimulate me from under the table without anyone knowing? Welp, dreams do come true: Wear these panties, slip the vibrator into them, and hand off the remote to your partner or have them download the app…then go out in public and enjoy your naughty little secret.

• Use: External only
• Material: Silicone
• Run time: Up to 2 hours
• Waterproof? Yes

Glowing Customer Review: "Wow! This beauty was so fun to use. I got 'my buddy' to download the app and gave him control—it did not disappoint! It has a nice strong rumbly vibration as opposed to the buzzy, numbing type. It's quiet enough that it shouldn't be too noticeable, but I wouldn't wear it to the library. A must for the toy collection."

You don't need a dildo or vibrator to turn up the heat in the bedroom—especially when experimenting with different sensations can be just as hot. This ostrich feather is soft, perfect for a good tickle, love tap, or soft, sensual stroke. It's a great, low-key way to try something new that won't break the bank.

• Use: External only
• Material: Feather

Glowing Customer Review: "Oh my god, I love this tickler. It's so gentle and soft. Great quality, easy to store. Especially loved it with a blindfold. You need to touch it and feel it on your skin to know what I mean. Must have for me and I'm glad I bought it. If you are into soft touch and gentle games, this item is for you."

If using a dildo is your go-to, after a while you might know that feeling of wishing there was just a little something else to really take you there. To add some extra razzle-dazzle when using a dildo, this accessory from Wet For Her will do the trick. Made to fit over almost any dildo or strap-on, this little accessory holds an included bullet vibrator just at the right spot to give you clitoral stimulation.

• Use: External only
• Material: Silicone
• Run time: Up to 1 hour
• Waterproof? No, only splashproof

Glowing Customer Reviews: "I used this toy with my girlfriend for the first time yesterday and it was f*cking fantastic. I came twice (both times surprisingly fast) with this toy. You can feel some of the vibration on the dildo when it's inside, so it's even better than I imagined. We're definitely going to use this A LOT."

​“The Fin is an amazing external vibrator that is discreet, doesn’t get in the way, and—get this—can actually turn your fingers into the vibrator itself,” says sex educator and Babeland marketing director Lisa Finn. “You can wear the Fin at a higher setting toward the back of your fingers and let the motor travel down to your fingertips so you can touch your partner directly and still add the sensation of vibration."

• Use: External only
• Material: Silicone
• Run time: Up to 1.5 hours on highest setting
• Waterproof? Yes

Glowing Customer Review: "Perfect little toy for some extra fun in the bedroom. Nice handy lanyard in case it gets caught up in the action. Smooth velvet touch for extra sensations."

This water-based lube can be used on its own or with the silicone toys on this list and was named Best Water-Based Lube by Cosmopolitan's 2023 Lube Awards. It's full of hydrating ingredients like hyaluronic acid and vitamin E to give you that nice slip without any sticky or tacky sensation. It's also got some adaptogens (aka herbs that are meant to boost your libido). Plus, the bottle is cute AF, so it'll look right at home on your nightstand.

Glowing Customer Review: "Goes on silky, slippery, and keeps you wet. Very gentle on the skin without irritation."