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14 Long-Distance Sex Toys to Heat Up Your Sex Life from Anywhere in the World

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Whether you and your partner are about to go long-distance, or you’re just looking for a way to spice up your next date night, long-distance sex toys might just be the very thing you need to keep things hot between you. Because, great news: Sex tech has evolved far beyond the need to plug your vibrator into the wall and hunker down in the same spot until you climax. These days, some sex toys come equipped with Bluetooth connectivity and long-distance control capabilities, so you can literally control your orgasm from your Android or iPhone. “There are even toys that sync together, so that when you’re using them, they coordinate the same pattern, creating a sense that you’re together and experiencing the same sensations, even from afar,” says certified sexologist Gigi Engle.

That can look like reconnecting from miles away, or donning a panty vibrator on date night and letting your partner control it from across the table. You also don’t necessarily have to be long-distance to benefit from a toy like this—if you want to go hands-free or don’t want to worry about losing a remote control, an app-controlled sex toy is for you. And because we know there are tons to choose from, we made our very own list of the best ones on the market. These are toys we’ve tried and trust, all from retailers we love and at various price points and functions.

Our top picks for the best long-distance sex toys:

Rest assured, there’s something on this list for you. When you’re ready to dive in, here are our best picks for the long-distance sex toys you’ll want to add-to-cart ASAP.

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best overall long-distance sex toy

We-Vibe Sync O

Sync O

Pros

  • O-shaped design really helps to keep it in place
  • Can be worn during solo play or partnered sex

Cons

  • External arm doesn't always stayed pressed against the clit
  • May move out of place during partnered sex, per some reviewers

There are tons of C-shaped vibes out there, but honestly, the Sync O may just be the very best one. Designed to be worn like a paper clip on your vulva, the super-flexible Sync O is great at providing internal and external stim during partnered sex. The unique O-shape on the insertable end will keep things firmly in place (and you'll love that its 10 intensity levels can be controlled from legit any place using the We-Vibe app or included remote).

  • Material: Silicone
  • Length: 3.1"
  • Run time: Up to 2 hours
  • Waterproof? Yes

Glowing Customer Review: "Straight away I was impressed with the unique design of the internal O. This clever feature allows the toy to stay in place during solo and sex and also directly stimulates the G-spot and the head of the penis. With a remote and app-control, this toy is suited for all and any occasion."

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best long-distance egg sex toy

Lovense Lush 3

Lush 3

Pros

  • App comes with tons of cool features
  • Insertable section stays in place well, according to reviews

Cons

  • External arm doesn't vibe as powerfully as some would like
  • Some testers wish it were less rigid

Are you down to try the most powerful Bluetooth remote-control vibrator on the market? Able to be used at close range or long distances, this wearable egg vibe from Lovense features a U-shaped tail design that hugs your body and helps it stay right in place. It's fairly discreet, wildly strong, and has v reliable connectivity—what more could ya want?

  • Materials: Silicone and ABS plastic
  • Length: 6.5"
  • Run time: Up to 2 hours
  • Waterproof? Yes

Glowing Customer Review: "Honestly I couldn't be happier with this!!! My girlfriend lives 1,800 miles away and this just helps make things sooo much better. I mean, the best would actually being with her, but having her control it and just have her way is amazingggg."

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best long-distance couples vibrator

We-Vibe Chorus

Chorus

Pros

  • Luxurious and discrete
  • Comes with a squeeze remote for in-person play, and connects to the We-Vibe app for long-distance play
  • Comes with 3 speeds and 7 vibration patterns

Cons

  • Might be tricky to learn to use if you're new to sex tech

Cosmo writer Rachel Varina called We-Vibe's Chorus a toy that "deserves a permanent spot on the nightstand of any and all my adventurous couples" in a detailed review of the couples vibe, so consider this your sign that you + your LDR need it now. The highlight of this toy is the Touch-sense feature on the We-Vibe app, which lets you or your partner create your own vibration patterns and modes by essentially drawing them on your screen, from wherever you are. Cool, right?!

  • Material: Silicone
  • Length: 3"
  • Run time: 1.5 hours
  • Waterproof? Submersible

Glowing Editor Review: "If you’re looking for a couples vibrator that’ll take you and your SO places that penetration alone could never, you need the Chorus. Whether your love is across the globe or sitting by your side, this We-Vibe gem is a must-have for any and all sex toy connoisseurs. As for me? It’s bringing my hubs and me closer together than ever before, one Touch-sense sesh at a time."

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best long-distance panty sex toy

We-Vibe Moxie+

Moxie+

Pros

  • Stays in place with the help of a magnet
  • Great for those who love deep, rumbly vibes

Cons

  • Can get a tad noisy on highest setting
  • Included remote doesn't have the best range

For some panty play action, you simply must try the Moxie+, which uses a magnetic clip to stay perfectly in place—no matter which of its 10 pleasure modes you try. You can control it from a short distance with the help of the handheld remote or from across the world with the We-Connect app...not to mention it's rechargeable and runs for up to two hours on a single charge.

  • Material: Silicone
  • Length: 3.3"
  • Run time: Up to 2 hours
  • Waterproof? Yes

Glowing Customer Review: "Best purchase I’ve ever made. The size is perfect, and it comes with a little magnet to keep it in place. I had a hard time pressing the button while using it, but then I just used the app to control it and problem solved! It’s super quiet, so you can wear it anytime/anywhere, which is my favorite!"

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best long-distance cock ring

We-Vibe Verge

Verge

Pros

  • Excellent p-spot stimulation
  • Connects to the We-Vibe app for long-distance play
  • 10+ vibration modes (!!)
  • Waterproof

Cons

  • Some reviewers say it's a little small

If the penis in your life is looking for some love, look no further than We-Vibe's Verge. It's an app-controlled, rechargeable, water-submersible cock ring that fits snuggly at the base of the penis and behind the balls for optimal access to the perineum—aka the p-spot, one of the most sensitive pleasure spots for penis havers. It can also be worn with the bulkier part facing up (instead of underneath the balls) for partnered vibration during penetration. But whatever way you wear it, connect it to the We-Vibe app for access from anywhere in the world—and access to its 10 rumbly vibration modes.

  • Material: Silicone
  • Length: Opening is 1.7" wide, 2.5" long
  • Run time: 2 hours
  • Waterproof? Submersible

Glowing Customer Review: "It was my first time trying a penis ring and I was so excited for the We-vibe Verge. It arrived in a sleek box with a sample of lube included and was well packaged. It was super easy to connect to the app and the different vibration modes were so fun to play around with. The battery life lasts for a long time and is quick to recharge. While switching through the vibrations my partner and I both experienced a powerful climax as it also stimulates the perineum. I love how it feels so comfortable and silky smooth. I would absolutely recommend to anyone looking to mix things up—look no further!"

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best splurge long-distance sex toy

Lioness Vibrator 2.0

Vibrator 2.0

Pros

  • Provides "pleasure data" right on your phone
  • Allows you (and your partner!) to better understand how you get off

Cons

  • Def not cheap!
  • May be too ~techy~ for some folks

Known as "the world’s most advanced vibrator" and equipped with 100 customizable vibration intensities (yes, really), the Lioness uses built-in sensors to track your pleasure in real time through an intuitive mobile app, so you can start to understand what turns your body on—and what you can do to achieve A+ orgasms more often. And yep, the app also supports long-distance remote control.

  • Material: Silicone
  • Length: 8"
  • Run time: Up to 2 hours
  • Waterproof? Yes

Glowing Customer Review: "I received it in the mail just today and oh my gosh. I tested it out by myself and sadly ruined my sheets, but lord have mercy, I was like a newborn lamb. After the first try, I wanted to try partner play, as I was curious. He played me like a fiddle. I normally don't beg for anything, but this vibrator made me feel like I was having an exorcism with my eyes rolling back."

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best wearable long-distance sex toy

ZALO Aya Wearable Vibrator

Aya Wearable Vibrator

Pros

  • Actually whisper-quiet
  • Allows for hands-free play

Cons

  • Silicone attachment could be bigger
  • Only splashproof, not waterproof

This beaut from ZALO can be worn two different ways: secured in place with a magnet on the crotch of your panties, or inserted inside you with the help of a removable silicone attachment. It's compatible with both the ZALO Remote Pro app and the included squeeze-activated remote, so you can experiment with its eight vibration modes from a-n-y-w-h-e-r-e. And since it doesn't exceed 40 decibels even on the highest setting, it's totally discreet, too.

  • Materials: Silicone and ABS plastic
  • Length: 3.4"
  • Run time: Up to 1 hour
  • Waterproof? No, only splashproof

Glowing Customer Review: "ZALO never fails to amaze me! The quality of this vibrator is fantastic, and I like how versatile the patterns can be through the remote and the app. Thanks to the magnet keeping it in place, it did not slip out as I walked around."

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best hands-free long-distance sex toy

OhMiBod Esca 2

Esca 2

Pros

  • Pretty discreet, so great for public play
  • Can be controlled so many different ways

Cons

  • Not as powerful or rumbly as some had hoped
  • Only has four manual mode settings

The Esca2 is a wearable internal vibrator that can be controlled across the room or across the world with the OhMiBod app, so the possibilities are pretty much endless. You'll love how the LED light on the tip of the Esca 2 functions as visual feedback to signal how strong or mild the vibrations are—plus the fact that it can be synced up with Kiiroo pleasure devices for interactive fun.

  • Material: Silicone
  • Length: 7.3"
  • Run time: Up to 3 hours
  • Waterproof? Yes

Glowing Customer Review: "My boyfriend lives 5 hours away in another state and was able to control it from his phone through the app! So surprised that this works and really spices things up from afar."

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best long-distance rabbit sex toy

Lovense Nora

Nora

Pros

  • Pairs with a masturbation sleeve
  • Curved shaft both vibes and rotates

Cons

  • Def not the quietest toy
  • Feels a bit bulky, per some testers

Want a traditional rabbit vibrator that's also controllable via the Lovense Body Chat app? You got it. Want a rabbit vibrator that also works in tandem with your partner's Lovense Max 2 masturbator sleeve to feel like you're both having sex with each other through your toys? Also possible. Pretty neat, huh? Other fun perks include the unique rotating head and the girthy, rippled shaft.

  • Material: Silicone
  • Length: 9.5"
  • Run time: Up to 4 hours
  • Waterproof? No, only water-resistant

Glowing Customer Review: "We have enjoyed every session thanks to Nora's versatility and the ease of use of the Lovense app. Her silicone exterior is soft and easy to wash. Battery life is excellent. We definitely recommend this toy to anyone looking for a remote-controlled rabbit, especially for those in long-distance relationships looking to spice things up."

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best interactive long-distance sex toy

OhMiBod Fuse

Fuse

Pros

  • Two-way communication system is srsly innovative
  • Lightweight with an ergonomic handle

Cons

  • Device pairing can get a lil glitchy, per testers
  • Noisier than some would like

This dual-stim massager is Bluetooth-enabled with two-way communication, so you and your boo can share your pleasure across the world with the OhMiBod app—not to mention the built-in sensor technology allows for bi-directional control, so either of you can drive the action. And because the Fuse was developed in partnership with Kiiroo, this toy is compatible with other interactive Kiiroo devices.

  • Materials: Silicone and ABS plastic
  • Length: 7.1"
  • Run time: Up to 1.5 hours
  • Waterproof? Yes

Glowing Customer Review: "My partner lives in another part of the state, and we thought this might be fun when we can't physically be together. I've never spent this much on a vibrator before though! It's nice to look at and feels really good. Great orgasms as well."

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best long-distance clitoral sex toy

Satisfyer Pro 2 Generation 3

Pro 2 Generation 3

Pros

  • Interchangeable mouths provide v different sensations
  • Suction action ranges from gentle to intense

Cons

  • Vibes are def more buzzy than rumbly
  • Testers say vibrations tend to go into the handle

Calling all fans of clitoral suction: this one's for you. The newest generation of this classic Satisfyer pressure wave vibrator is Bluetooth-enabled, so you'll get remote control capability through the Satisfyer Connect App. Other perks include dual motors, two interchangeable caps for different sensations, and 12 preset vibe modes.

  • Materials: Silicone and ABS plastic
  • Length: 6.5"
  • Run time: Up to 2 hours
  • Waterproof? Yes

Glowing Customer Review: "I got this for my girlfriend, and now she might not need me anymore. This literally blew her mind. She initially used it on a high setting and it was too powerful for her, so watch out, ladies, if you haven’t used a toy like this before. She loves it sooo much. So glad it also has an app free to download so I can chat [and] FaceTime with her when I’m off traveling."

12
best long-distance sex toy for penises

Lovense Max 2

Max 2

Pros

  • Really does simulate the feeling of a blow job, per reviewers
  • Comes with 3 contraction strengths and 7 vibe options

Cons

  • Uses porous TPE material for the sleeve, which can't be fully sanitized
  • Def not the quietest toy

Hi, do you want a blowjob-simulating toy that does most (read: all) of the work for you? Give the Max 2 a try, which has an air pump design to mimic muscle contractions, plus seven vibration modes. As a bonus, you can use the Lovense Body Chat app to control the Max 2 from any distance—or sync your play with the Lovense Nora.

  • Materials: TPE and ABS plastic
  • Length: 9.5"
  • Run time: Up to 3.5 hours
  • Waterproof: No

Glowing Customer Review: "The Lovense Max 2 was really easy to use and pair. The vibrations are strong and really rumbly and provided a wide range of sensation. The contractions and suction are very interesting and powerful, too. As my first toy, this really set the expectations high."

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best designed long-distance sex toy

Kiiroo Pearl3

Pearl3

Pros

  • Has built-in touchpads that respond to your body
  • Provides precise stimulation where you need it most

Cons

  • Noisier than other options
  • Setting up the app can be a lil tricky

An internal vibe enabled with touch-sensitive technology to elevate stimulation? Yes, please. Oh-so-slightly contoured and equipped with three lil bumps for concentrating vibrations right where you need 'em, the Pearl3 hits all the right spots and feels just as good as it looks—plus, it's compatible with the FeelConnect app and all other Kiiroo products.

  • Materials: Silicone and ABS plastic
  • Length: 8.3"
  • Run time: Up to 3 hours
  • Waterproof? Yes

Glowing Customer Review: "Pearl2 was my favorite Kiiroo toy I ever owned. I didn’t think it could get any better, but when I tried Pearl3 for the first time, I couldn’t put it down! The three nubs on the under side of Pearl3 hit all the right spots, and the improved touch sensors…wow! Words can not explain how happy I am with my new Kiiroo Pearl3."

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best long-distance sex toy for vaginas

We-Vibe Rave 2

Rave 2

Pros

  • Has powerful motors on each end for versatility
  • So easy to shape and bend

Cons

  • May be too girthy for some folks
  • Motors can't be controlled separately through app

A new-and-improved version of the bestselling Rave vibe, this curvy cutie delivers suuuuper rumbly vibes with its power dual motors and impressively flexible body. You'll love the uniquely twistable shape, dual stimulation options, and 10 unique vibration settings—and, ofc, the fact that you can control this toy from miles away with a tap of a smartphone screen.

  • Materials: Silicone and ABS plastic
  • Length: 8.5"
  • Run time: Up to 2 hours
  • Waterproof? Yes

Glowing Customer Review: "I don't like buzzy vibrations and I prefer clitoral suction toys, but with a long-distance play partner and having a girth craving I decided to try this one. OMG. This toy is pretty unreal. It is the perfect size, and the asymmetry feels incredible (and I wasn't sure it would). By the end I was wondering how I could start a wedding registry for me and this purple powerhouse."


Why trust Cosmo?

Veronica Lopez is the sex and relationships editor at Cosmopolitan across print and digital. She has eight years of experience covering all things sex tech, dating, single life, breakups, and more.

Gigi Engle is a COSRT-registered, GSRD-accredited sex and relationships psychotherapist, sex educator, and award-winning author. She's also a regular contributor to Cosmopolitan—you can find her work here.

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