Welcome to the wonderful world of vibrators—aka, tech that can enhance and, in some cases, totally change your sex life for the better. We know it can be a little bit intimidating; there are so many different types of vibrators, and buying your first one can be challenging if you’re not really sure what works for you. That’s why we put together this master list of the best vibrators for beginners, so that whether you’re buying just for yourself, or if you and your partner are on the market for a toy to spice up your shared experience, you’ll be able to find something you absolutely love and that can last you years to come (ahem, cum).
Not sure where to start? Understandable. “With so many options—different brands, types, shapes, sizes, and functions—it’s easy to feel overwhelmed,” says psychotherapist Rachel Wright, MA, LMFT. If you’re shopping for your very own first vibrator (aka, just for you), start by thinking about what sensations you like. Remember: What works for your best friend might not necessarily work the same way for you. "This is because our sexual responses are not exactly the same; everyone might want something a little different,” explains sexologist Carol Queen, PhD. Wright recommends opting for something versatile, un-intimidating, and easy to use. “Multiple intensity settings can help you experiment with what feels good,” she says.
If you’re shopping with your partner for something to play with together, communication is key. “Talk about what you’re both curious about, and don’t be afraid to experiment together,” says Wright. “If one of you is hesitant, framing it as a shared experience rather than a solo purchase can make it feel more inviting and exciting.”
There are different toys for different purposes. Bullets vibrators, wand vibes, and suction toys are great for clitoral stimulation, while rabbit vibrators and long, bulbed toys are ideal for internal play. Below, we’ve rounded up our favorite, non-complicated, easy-to-use sex toys that can get the job done and help you feel amazing.
Our top picks for the best vibrators for beginners of 2025:
So without further ado, happy shopping, and…thank us later. 😉
1. Smile Makers The Billionaire
Pros
- Slightly bigger than a regular bullet vibe
- Re-chargeable
Cons
- One reviewer claims it wasn't too powerful, but that's part of what makes it a great beginner toy!
She may be smol, but she is mighty, trust. This slightly-larger-than-average bullet vibe can be used for both clitoral stimulation and shallow penetration, so it's ideal for figuring out exactly what turns you on. It offers incredibly deep, rhythmic pulsations (along with four speeds and two pulsation modes) that are anything but buzzy.
- Material: Silicone
- Use: Internal and external
- Rechargeable? Yes
- Waterproof? Yes
THE REVIEW: "Amazing!!! It is the perfect size and so great for beginners," writes one reviewer. "I am so in love with this vibrator. It has easily become my new favorite to reach for. I especially like its versatility; it offers something for every mood you’re in! 10/10."
2. Maude Vibe
Pros
- Water resistant
Cons
- Only three speeds
If you're just starting out on your sex toy journey, this teardrop-shaped massager is a must. Made with 100 percent platinum-grade silicone, this palm-sized stunner is anything but intimidating. It features three speeds, a fluttery tip, and an incredibly quiet motor. And it even comes with a travel lock and a cute canvas travel pouch, so you can take it with you to go.
- Material: Silicone
- Use: External only
- Rechargeable? Yes
- Waterproof? No, only water-resistant
THE REVIEW: As one tester writes, "Wow! This was my first vibrator and I’m so happy I listened to the reviews! It’s not intimidating at all and was wonderful and really packs a punch for how small it is. Definitely great for beginners!"
3. Lelo Gigi 2
Pros
- Over 500 five-star reviews
- Great for both internal and external stimulation
Cons
- Higher price-point than most beginner toys
If you want a trustworthy beginner's vibe you can use inside your vagina, this is for you. The GIGI 2 has a very substantial motor for deeper vibrations, eight vibrating patterns, and is nearly silent. It features a rechargeable battery (one hour of charge + one and a half hours of use = plenty of time to experiment). Oh, and it's currently on sale for less than $100, which is MAJOR.
- Material: Silicone and ABS plastic
- Use: Internal and external
- Rechargeable? Yes
- Waterproof? Yes
THE REVIEW: “The best toy I’ve ever owned,” notes one reviewer. “LELO products are meant to last, which totally justifies the price. I’ve had mine for over two years now with no problems. I have several others and they never see use because the GIGI 2 is the best.”
4. Satisfyer Pro 2
Pros
- Almost 9000 five-star reviews (!!)
Cons
- Some reviewers say it's a loud toy
Since clit-sucking vibes can be a *little* intense for some vulva owners, it's good to start with one that offers relatively gentle suction, like this budget-friendly option from Satisfyer. The Pro 2 is suuuuper intuitive, with 11 different speeds and an easy-to-grip handle. And as a bonus, it’s waterproof, so you can take it with you into the tub.
- Material: Silicone and ABS plastic
- Use: External only
- Rechargeable? Yes
- Waterproof? Yes
THE REVIEW: According to one tester, “My wife has already said that she is legit considering throwing it in the trash, for fear that her affinity for it may eventually adversely affect our marriage—she’s that attached to it already, after one 2-minute session. Pretty remarkable.”
5. Dame Pom
Pros
- Flexible and round shape gives you options!
Cons
- More rumbly than buzzy, which might not be a fit for everyone
Don’t like the idea of a traditional vibe? The Pom vibrator by Dame has all the vibrations and none of the ~phallic aesthetic~. This small but powerful vibrator is specifically made to fit in the palm of your hand for easy use and control, so you can use its five intensities and five vibration patterns anywhere you want.
- Material: Silicone
- Use: External only
- Rechargeable? Yes
- Waterproof? Yes
THE REVIEW: "This really gave me the 'deathless death,'" raves one reviewer. "I loved the intensity and settings. I loved that I could use it on my clitoris or turn it upside down and use it on my actual vaginal opening for stimulation there. I tried it in the shower and when I orgasmed with my mouth hanging open under the shower head, I wouldn't have cared if I drowned or slipped. It was heaven."
6. Unbound Bender
Pros
- Flexible for both internal and external stimulation
Cons
- Not the quietest
This flexible internal vibe from Unbound may not look like much, but reviewers agree: Bender is the real deal. Great for both internal and external stimulation, Unbound’s bendy toy features 10 speeds and patterns and a super-strong motor to help you find the p-e-r-f-e-c-t spot.
- Material: Silicone
- Use: Internal and external
- Rechargeable? Yes
- Waterproof? Yes
THE REVIEW: “I ordered this over a year ago and have since bought many other toys—and this is still one of my faves,” one review reads. “It was my first toy and the best decision I’ve ever made. Works well by yourself and with a partner...Do yourself a favor and get this.”
7. plusOne Dual Vibrating Massager
TBH, Rabbit vibrators can be a lil intimidating, but this budget-friendly option is le perfect way to experiment with dual stimulation. One of the best inexpensive Rabbit vibes out there, plusOne's dual-motor massager features an impressive 10 different vibration settings—plus, it's fully waterproof and rechargeable with an amazingly long-lasting battery.
- Material: Silicone
- Use: Internal and external
- Rechargeable? Yes
- Waterproof? Yes
THE REVIEW: "At first, I wasn’t sure of the curved shape and the size—but I absolutely love it!” notes one buyer. “I’m not used to larger toys, but my partner and I have used it multiple times now without having to charge it once. It’s durable, flexible, and high-powered. I can use this internally and externally on different pulsations, making it feel like a new, exciting experience!”
8. Dame Aer
Pros
- Simple to operate, which makes it ideal for beginners
- Large clitoral suction hole makes it adaptable to different body parts
Cons
- Speeds and intensities might not be strong enough for fans of intense suction
Complete with a wide mouth that can accommodate the whole clitoris, Aer uses pressure wave technology to mimics the flutter of a tongue and the suction of a mouth for a truly knee-buckling experience. You can also easily target the area with five different speeds and five pulsing patterns.
- Material: Silicone
- Use: External only
- Waterproof? Yes
- Rechargeable? Yes
THE REVIEW: According to one review, "This is my first suction toy, and I didn't really know what to expect, but it took me to a happy place and beyond! Like, leg shaking uncontrollable climax. Crazy good!"
9. Svakom Cici
Pros
- Water-proof
- 30-degree head is perfect for shallow penetration
Cons
- Two-hour charge time might feel long for some
Built to stimulate your sensitive spots in all the best ways, this vibe features a slender head tilted at a 30-degree angle—and it just so happens to match the depth and structure of the vagina (nope, not a coincidence). You’ll love how it comes packed with five vibration modes and five speeds that can be used for teasing your nipples, clitoris, and other hot spots, and you better believe it’s totally waterproof, too.
- Material: Silicone
- Use: External only
- Waterproof? Yes
- Rechargeable? Yes
THE REVIEW: One reviewer wrote, "This little toy is surprisingly strong! The size is great for using solo or with your partner. I totally recommend this one!"
10. Fun Factory Stronic Petite
Pros
- Features a rippled shaft for delightful internal stim
- Thrusting feature means less work for the user upon insertion
Cons
- Only three vibrating rhythms
For some thrusting fun, go ahead and give this mini pulsator a try. Lightweight with an easy-insert tip, this contoured toy is small enough for beginners to handle, and you'll have so much fun experimenting with the five speeds and three thrusting rhythms, whether you're looking for gentle penetration or some heavier thrusting action.
- Material: Silicone
- Use: Internal and external
- Rechargeable? Yes
- Waterproof? Yes
THE REVIEW: As one tester explains, "I'd always had trouble with internal toys being uncomfortable or just not hitting the right spots, and I thought they just weren't for me. Turns out I just needed 'petite' toys, because the Stronic Petite was a joy to use. It has just the right amount of squish to it and it's not heavy at all. It's also super quiet, which is fantastic."
10. Mon Ami Body Wand Massager
Pros
- Five speeds and seven vibration patterns gives you options!
- Handy travel lock
Cons
- Some reviewers say they were disappointed by the power of the vibration settings
Even sex toy newbies will have an easy time with this pretty azure vibe from Lovehoney. Thanks to its straightforward three-button control panels, this wand makes it easy to switch between the 12 vibration modes, and the built-in travel lock helps ensure that your toy stays silent until you're ready to play.
- Material: Silicone
- Use: External only
- Rechargeable? Yes
- Waterproof? Yes
THE REVIEW: "Mon Ami is exactly what I was looking for," writes one reviewer. "Simple and easy to use, and I like that it doesn't have a bunch of random vibration modes—just straight vibration at different levels of strength. And it is very quiet compared to my last vibrator. It's super cute, beautiful color, and works great."
11. Maude Spot
Pros
- Two-hour runtime!
- Simple but effective and easy to use
Cons
- Some reviewers say the toy could be a little quieter
There's nothing phallic or offensive about this incredibly chic internal vibe. Measuring just over eight inches long and available in three subdued color ways, the simple five-speed vibrator is far less intimidating than other penetrative toys, and the curved body will help ya target all the right spots.
- Material: Silicone
- Use: Internal and external
- Rechargeable? Yes
- Waterproof? No, only water-resistant
THE REVIEW: According to one review, "The packaging is simple and eco-friendly. The colors are simple and aesthetic. The design of the spot is pared down to fulfill what you want without any extra shitty extras. When every other vibrator is a jack of all trades, the spot vibrator is the master of one."
12. Bellesa Blender
Pros
- Overwhelmingly positive reviews
- Powerful vibrations
Cons
- A little bigger than your average makeup sponge, so it's discreet, but maybe not, like, leave-on-the-counter discreet
If the idea of having a vibrator around the house makes you uncomfy, then this v discreet bb will put you at ease. Designed to look *just* like a beauty blender (hence the name!!), no one would ever guess that this toy is actually an incredibly versatile clit vibrator, complete with an ergonomic shape, soft-to-the-touch feel, and 10 vibration settings to try.
- Material: Silicone
- Use: External only
- Rechargeable? Yes
- Waterproof? Yes
THE REVIEW: "I recently purchased the Blender, and I must say, it has completely revolutionized my masturbation game," one tester notes. "This little device is an absolute game-changer! The vibrator's design is sleek, elegant, and ergonomic, making it a pleasure to hold and use. Its discreet appearance allows for easy storage and travel."
13. Vush Gloss Bullet Vibrator
Pros
- Single button makes it super easy to use
- SO discreet—could look like a lip balm in your bag
Cons
- Very simple and uncomplicated—users who are craving more might want to opt for something with more features
Measuring just about the size of a tube of lipstick (and tbh, looking just like one, too), this precision point bullet vibe from Vush is the epitome of discretion. It's also got 10 vibration settings, easy single-button operation, and a v handy magnetic charging case that helps you take it on the go.
- Material: Silicone
- Use: External only
- Rechargeable? Yes
- Waterproof? Yes
THE REVIEW: "This is the best bullet vibe that I've tried," one tester notes. "It's great value for money, the material feels awesome and looks good, and [it] has a very comfortable design. The lid is also a massive plus for storage and transport—no need to hide it away in the back of a drawer. I could not recommend it more!"
How to Choose the Best Vibrator for Beginners
To get started, figure out how you’ll be using your vibrator, says Brandye Wilson-Manigat, MD. Will you be using the vibrator in bed only? Or do you want the option to be able to use it in the shower or tub? Do you want something you can use with a partner? Do you want something for strictly clitoral stimulation or something for both vaginal and clitoral stimulation?
Think through these Qs to better narrow down your options. Then, it's time to start shopping. Dr. Brandye says shopping for a sex toy online can offer many advantages for first-time buyers. Not only can you get sex toys shipped discreetly right to your door, but you can also check out the toy's reviews, descriptions, and features. A few other tips to keep in mind:
Consider the Size and the Material
Generally speaking, a larger toy = a more powerful toy...so while there are plenty of travel-sized vibrators that can pack a punch, it's better to go with a petite vibe if you don't want anything too intense. Dr. Brandye would suggest beginners go with something small that vibrates—like a bullet vibrator, for example. “Women can be shy about buying a sex toy, and having something small seems to minimize the ‘blush factor,’” she explains. Something that vibrates can, of course, be used on your clitoris, but you can also try it on other erogenous zones around your vulva or nipples.
Also, make sure you're buying a toy from a trustworthy retailer (aka, all the ones we chose above) that prioritizes safe production practices and materials. "Body-safe silicone is wonderful for a first purchase," says Wright. "It’s non-porous and super easy to clean. Just be sure to use a water-based lubricant with it and not a silicone-based one." (Silicone toys are not compatible with silicone lubes!)
Keep It Simple
There are tons of high-tech toys out there, but with your first-ever vibrator, simple tends to be better. Dr. Brandye suggests figuring out where the controls are located and how they work before buying a sex toy—and ofc, read the reviews to make sure other beginners didn't have any trouble finding out the operation. Nothing will kill your vibe faster than a vibrator with complicated AF instructions, trust.
Think About the Stimulation
"Some vibrators have deeper, rumbly vibrations, while others are lighter and buzzy," says Wright. "This should be in the toy's description online, or you can ask an employee if you’re shopping in person." Think about what sensations you like, or what you want know you want to enhance. Remember: "A sex toy is meant to do things the human body can’t do (like flick air at your clitoris for 20 minutes straight!)," says Wright.
Check Out the Bonus Features
While there's nothing wrong with a toy that can't be recharged or fully submerged in water, the best vibrators tend to have a few key features: They're fully waterproof (so you can use 'em in the tub or shower), they're USB rechargeable, and they tend to have a number of different vibration patterns and strengths, ’cause variety is the spice of life. Ofc, a vibrator doesn't have to have *all* these features to be worth the investment—it all depends on what functions matter most to you.
How We Chose Our Best Vibrators for Beginners
Pleasure is hiiiighly diverse, and what rocks someone's world may not be powerful enough to thrill another person. That's why we rounded up a whole range of highly-rated beginner vibrators, from gentle suction vibrators to seriously rumbly toys that'll leave your legs quaking.
Here at Cosmo, we have v high standards when it comes to sex toy recs. We make sure that every one of our round-ups includes toys for all budgets and bodies. And you better believe we read those product reviews (and test many of the brands IRL) so you don't have to do it yourself.
Meet the Experts
- Carol Queen, PhD, is a speaker and educator with a doctorate in sexology, as well as the staff sexologist for Good Vibrations.
- Brandye Wilson-Manigat, MD, is a board-certified obstetrician and gynecologist and author of the book My O My!: A Committed Woman's Guide to Getting the Great Sex She Deserves.
- Rachel Wright, MA, LMFT, is a psychotherapist who specializes in sex, relationships and mental health. She's also the host of The Wright Conversations podcast.
