Truth or dare texting is one of those ideas that sounds a little silly until you actually try it—and then suddenly, you’re ten messages deep, learning things you definitely wouldn’t have asked otherwise. It’s low-effort, slightly unpredictable, and surprisingly effective at turning a normal text thread into something way more interesting than just sending “wyd?” back and forth.

The magic of truth or dare texting is in the structure. “Truth” gives you a reason to ask questions that might feel too direct out of nowhere, while “dare” keeps things playful and interactive without being awkward. You can keep it sweet, meaningful, funny, or flirty—it all depends on what kind of energy you’re already working with. And because it’s happening over text, there’s room to think, respond, and ease into things instead of feeling put on the spot.

That said, a good game of truth or dare isn’t about pushing boundaries or shocking someone for fun. It works best when both people are genuinely into it and on the same page. And just to be clear: it’s always okay to skip a question, pass on a dare, or say “next.” If you want the truth, an easy way to get someone to stop texting you back is to push for a truth they don't feel like sharing—capisce?

Below, you’ll find flirty truth questions and playful dares made specifically for texting. Think easy to send, easy to answer, and flexible enough to fit wherever you are in your relationship—from friends with benefits to long-distance couples to those “we’ve been together forever” folks. Use them to deepen the convo, keep things light, or shake things up when your texts need a little help. Dare you to send one right now!

Flirty Truth Questions To Text Your Partner

  1. What song reminds you of me?
  2. Do you believe in soulmates?
  3. What’s the most romantic thing anyone’s ever done for you?
  4. If you could take a day off to spend with me, what would we do?
  5. What’s the first thing you told your friends about me?
  6. What was your biggest fear as a kid?
  7. What’s your biggest fear now?
  8. What’s the most adventurous thing you’ve ever done?
  9. What are your thoughts on open relationships?
  10. What is the most awkward date you’ve ever had?
  11. What’s a dating red flag for you?
  12. Have you ever done something illegal?
  13. When did you first realize you had feelings for me?
  14. What’s a small moment between us that really stuck with you?
  15. What’s something about me that surprised you in a good way?
  16. How do you usually show affection when you really care about someone?
  17. What’s your love language, and do you think I’ve picked up on it?
  18. What’s your idea of a perfect low-key date?
  19. What’s something you’ve never told me but probably should?
  20. When do you feel the most emotionally connected to someone?
  21. What’s one thing you really admire in a partner?
  22. What kind of future moments excite you the most—travel, routines, milestones?
  23. What’s something you’re currently working on in yourself?
  24. What’s the best relationship advice you’ve ever gotten?
  25. What makes you feel truly appreciated?
  26. What’s something you need more of in a relationship?
  27. What’s a boundary that’s really important to you when dating?
  28. When was the last time you felt genuinely proud of yourself?
  29. What does emotional intimacy mean to you?
  30. What’s one habit you’re trying to unlearn?
  31. What’s something you’re excited about right now?
  32. What’s one thing you hope we get to experience together?
  33. When do you feel most like yourself?
  34. What’s something you’ve learned about yourself from dating?
  35. What’s a compliment you never forget receiving?
  36. What’s one thing that instantly makes you feel closer to someone?
  37. How do you usually know when you really like someone?
  38. What’s a moment with me that made you smile more than you expected?
  39. What’s something you’re hoping for in your next chapter?
  40. What do you think makes our connection different from others you’ve had?

Flirty Dares to Text Your Crush

    1. Text your best friend that you can’t stop thinking about me.
    2. Go like the photo on my Instagram where I look my ~most alluring.~
    3. Tell me the last outfit I wore that you loved.
    4. List your favorite things about me.
    5. I dare you to write a haiku about me and read it out loud.
    6. Show me your last Google (or Instagram) search.
    7. I dare you to send me the last screenshot you took on your phone.
    8. DM your celebrity crush and ask them to marry you.
    9. I dare you to text your group chat a random selfie with no explanation.
    10. I dare you to FaceTime me and tell me how you feel about me.
    11. Change my contact name in your phone to something flirty for 24 hours.
    12. Text me the emoji that best describes how you feel about me—no explanation.
    13. Screenshot your lock screen and send it to me.
    14. Tell me what kind of date you think I’d be surprisingly good at planning.
    15. Send me a photo of something in your space that feels very you.
    16. Text me one thing you’d want to know about me but haven’t asked yet.
    17. Send me a voice memo saying my name.
    18. Tell me what vibe you think I bring into a room.
    19. Pick a random emoji and explain how it applies to us.
    20. Text me the first thought you had when you saw my last photo.
    21. Tell me one small thing I do that you find endearing.
    22. Send me the last meme you laughed at (no context).
    23. Tell me what kind of first impression you think you give off.
    24. Text me a hypothetical: “If we were hanging out right now, we’d be ___.”
    25. Send me a selfie only if you’re smiling.
    26. Tell me what kind of compliment you secretly love receiving.
    27. Describe our dynamic as if it were a TV trope.
    28. Text me something you’d say if you weren’t worried about sounding obvious.
    29. Send me a photo of what you’re drinking right now.
    30. Tell me what kind of energy you hope people feel when they’re with you.
    31. Text me a question you’ve been debating asking me.
    32. Pick one word you associate with me and sit with it for a second. Then tell me why.
    33. Tell me what kind of date feels the most *you.*
    34. Screenshot your emoji recents and explain the vibe.
    35. Tell me one habit you have that people find unexpectedly charming.
    36. Text me something that would absolutely make me smile if I read it out of the blue.
    37. Tell me what you think makes flirting fun instead of stressful.
    38. Send me a GIF that matches how this conversation feels right now.
    39. Tell me one thing you’re looking forward to this week.
    40. End the dare by daring me to do something next.
    From: Cosmopolitan US