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The 8 Best Sex Positions for When Your Partner Has a Thick Penis
Here's how to get the intensity level juuuuust right.
So you have a partner with a thick dick. Congratulations, right? Or possibly, yikes. That's a lot to work with! BUT we can help you make it feel good—real good—for both of you.
A thick dick can be one of the most amazing things in this world. It hits all the right places (including the first inch of your vagina, which is the most sensitive) without even trying. Now, for the record, so do smaller and even micro penises. Basically, if you are into the person connected to the penis, the penis is gonna do it for you. And if you need some help/enhancements, bring a few fine-ass sex toys along for the ride.
So what do with this lovely piece of equipment you have before you without, like, breaking yourself? “Being super turned on before penetration is key, it gives your body a chance to open up and your muscles to relax. Take all the time you need, let your partner know if you’re not ready yet,” says Renée Hilliard, M.D., a trained Ob/Gyn and sex and relationship coach.
So yeah, take your time (always an excellent plan for sex, or almost always), use a ton of lube and experiment with positions and little shifts of your body to see what feels best. And if you still feel a little skittish? “Little known fact: relaxing your jaw muscles relaxes your pelvic floor and vaginal muscles which can help you accommodate more girth,” says Hilliard.
And then: Give these positions a try.
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You're the Top
If you get on top, you get to decide how much of that thickness you can take. Straddle your partner and lean down so you're on your elbow. Slide slowly onto their penis, adjusting your legs and pelvis to best enjoy/accommodate their girth.
The Sugar Spoon
Feel well-filled and well-loved with a spooning position that comes with a perfect fit. Tuck a vibrator against your clit for bonus stimulation.
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The Holy Fuck
For a wild combination of clit and vaginal love, have their gorgeous thickness inside you while you hold a suction toy against your clit. Slide to your butt to the edge of the bed and your partner can sort of lean over you so you have space between your bodies for you to hold the toy.
The Edge of Heaven
Prop yourself on the very edge of a counter (bathroom for shorter partner, kitchen for taller). Pull them toward you, with your arms around their shoulders, and legs around their hips — hang on for dear life. This is a semi-unbalanced position that's great for impromptu flings with lots of making out and exactly the right mix of tenderness and raw *~fire~*.
The Ow Oh Ohhhhh
Anal? With this person? OK, I got you — you can do this. Have them kneel, sitting back on their feet. You do the same, but sitting back on their dick with your bum. Caveats: Make sure you're beyond turned on. Put on a shit-ton of lube, then put on even more. Reach behind to get a feel for where it is and slide onto it, going as slow as you want.“Honor your body first and foremost and let your partner know if you need a break or have had enough. You may need to do some solo anal play to get ready. Try experimenting with an anal plug or dildo and lots of lube on your own when you are feeling relaxed,” says Hilliard.
The Fortress
If they're thick and long, and you're more on the petite side, you'll need to mitigate some of that overwhelming...girth. Lie flat on your belly, spreading your legs slightly. They come in from behind, sort of like lying-down doggy. If it's still too much, you can back off a little by pushing your legs together a little, coming up onto your elbows or tilting your hips to give them a bit less depth.
The Banana Split
Have them kneel on a cushy arm chair, facing the back. You sit on their lap, draping your legs over each arm of the chair. Hold yourself steady with your arms and use your thigh muscles to move — they'll be thrusting too. Go as wide as you want with your legs — it will still feel amazing.
Get Ahead
If they have the kind of equipment that bulges out even wider on the shaft and you think they're going to split your mouth open via BJ, try a modified version. Sit them down, holding down one of their legs firmly so it doesn't turn into a face-fuck. Take just the head into your mouth, using a well-lubed hand on the shaft to act as proxy mouth for the rest. If you feel a little choky, less mouth, more hand. (Try a bullet vibe for you and you'll be even more into it.)
“If you are coordinated, you can make twisting motions with your hand for an added bonus,” says Hilliard.
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