10 Best Sex Swings for Every Budget and Experience Level

If sex swings look intimidating to you (or you don't even really know what the heck they are), we should probably start with the basics: What is a sex swing? "Sex swings are amazing for elevating your sex life and giving you some exciting new positions to explore," says Isabelle Uren, a sexpert at BedBible.

And in addition to putting you in an ideal position for deeper penetrative sex, sex swings are a great tool for exploring Dom/sub dynamics. As sex expert Zachary Zane explains, "You're typically 'strapped in' a sex swing, so there's an element of bondage and BDSM."

According to Uren, you'll find three main types of sex swings, and here's what you should know about 'em:

• Traditional sex swings: When most people picture a sex swing, the traditional model is probs what they have in mind. As Uren explains, "Traditional sex swings need to be mounted, usually to the ceiling or on a sex swing stand, meaning you either have to make some permanent modifications to your home or have space to put up a stand. Single hook swings only require one mount point, whereas dual hook swings need two."
• Door sex swings: A far easier and cheaper alternative to the traditional sex swing is a door swing, which doesn't require any specialist equipment or DIY skills. "They have two bars that are locked in place behind the closed door, with the swing hanging on the other side," Uren says. "You can put them up and take them down quickly and easily, and they are travel-friendly."
• Sex slings: These types of sex swings resemble a hammock and typically require four mounting points. And while they are the most supportive of the sex swings, they are somewhat limiting in the number of positions you can explore. "If you have strength or mobility issues, a sex sling could be a better option, as they are much more supportive due to the full coverage, hammock-style seat," Uren adds.

Yes, sometimes it can be hard to install a sex swing depending on the type you purchase. If the sex swing is not meant for over your door and doesn't use a stand, you'll most likely need to install it to your ceiling—though each swing is different, so read the instructions carefully. In the case of a ceiling installation, unless you're v handy and know what you're doing, you should absolutely hire a professional (hi, Taskrabbit!).

And FYI, your handyman has probably received a ton of unconventional requests in their career. However, I get that some people may feel uncomfy. If you prefer to be discreet, you can typically have the pro install the hook to your ceiling and leave the actual swing attachment step for your own time. If your sex swing is improperly installed, injuries can occur and we don't want that on our conscience, pls and thnx!

Yes, a sex swing can be benefit your relationship for its spiciness factor (🥵🥵🥵), but it's also great for those who have health issues. These can include (but are not limited to!) those who find certain sex positions difficult due to injuries, age, joint problems, or people who cannot hold a position for an extended period of time.

But as always, when trying something new, make sure you read up on the dos and don’ts and have several conversations with your partner about comfort levels, boundaries, and safety. “Additionally, start slowly!” recommends Zane. "Your partner shouldn't start by ramming it in there. Slow and steady wins the race, and if you find something uncomfortable, be vocal, and let your partner know.”

While most sex swings hang from the ceiling and require you to drill holes (no pun intended), you can also find sex swings that secure right over your door. Ofc, the kind you get all depends on your needs and how you intend to use. A few things to keep in mind as you shop:

Consider the material

When shopping for a sex swing, you want to look for materials that are strong, comfortable, and easy to clean. "Some common sex swing materials include fabrics, such as nylon or cotton canvas, or leather," Uren tells us. "Fabric swings tend to have more padding and are easier to care for, but leather has a more luxurious feel and fits the BDSM aesthetic perfectly!"

Make sure it's comfy

In addition to getting a swing made with comfortable materials, you'll want to look for features that ensure you won't get totally chafed while hangin' around. "For the sake of comfort, you want to look for something that has padded straps to prevent anything from digging in and distracting you from the fun," says Uren. "A head strap is also a must for traditional sex swings to prevent neck ache." And if comfort is your number one priority, then a hammock-style sex sling is your best bet.

Look for bonus features

A basic model is probably the best bet for beginners, but many sex swings come with cool features that'll enhance your sex play. "If you want to be able to swivel around to switch between oral and genital play, you should look for a spinning sex swing," Uren suggests. And if you want a sex swing to use in your bondage play, then you should look for one that comes with added restraints or extra D-rings for you to attach your own.

• Zachary Zane is a New York City-based relationship columnist, sex expert for Fun Factory, and author of Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto.
• Isabelle Uren is certified sex expert, writer, and website manager for BedBible.
  

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