It seems it is once again time to talk about penis size. If you’ve been following along, you know that so far, we’ve discussed 5-inch penises and their 6-inch counterparts. Which means that next up is—you guessed it—7-inch penises. How big is 7-inches? Is it bigger than average? Is it too big ? Is there such a thing? The experts and I have answers to all your burning 7-inch penis questions below.

But first, a brief disclaimer. However big or small, penis size is not a measure of attractiveness or masculinity or sexual prowess, nor is it a reliable indicator of how pleasurable sex will be for either penis-havers or their partners. Size may matter, but how much it matters and to what end varies significantly based on personal preference. It’s also worth noting that length isn’t the only metric to consider when it comes to penis size; some might argue that girth is just as (if not more) significant! And even when size does matter to whatever degree it may in any given context, it’s far from the only thing that matters in bed. Good sex takes more than good dick.

Moreover, our collective obsession with penis size as a society ultimately has much less to do with sexual pleasure than it does dated, patriarchal beliefs that uphold the almighty phallus as a symbol of male power.

But you didn’t come here for a lesson on the fallacy of phallocentrism. You came here to find out how big a 7-inch penis is and how yours (or one you’ve recently gotten up close and personal with) measures up. So without further feminism, here’s a brief guide to the 7-inch penis—from how it compares to the average penis size to what to do with it should you find yourself in possession of one and/or intimately involved with someone packing 7 inches of their own.

Is a 7-inch Penis Big?

Short answer: Yes, it’s pretty big.

According to a 2015 scientific review published in BJUI International that looked at the flaccid and erect penises of over 15,500 men, the average erect penis length is 5.16 inches. In the review, 68 percent of men measured between 4.5 and 5.8 inches while erect. This means that 7 inches is significantly larger than average, even with some more recent data putting the average closer to 6 inches.

“A 7-inch penis is rare enough to turn heads—it’s estimated that only about 2 to 5 percent of people fall into this size category,” says sex and relationships coach Catherine Drysdale. So if you’ve got a bonafide 7-incher on your hands, you’re in the “above average” zone.

If 7 inches doesn’t seem or sound as big as the stats make it out to be, you can probably blame porn. “Mainstream porn tends to showcase larger than average penises, which has a lot of folks thinking 7 inches is normal,” says Drysdale. “Spoiler alert—it’s not.”

Zachary Zane, a sex and relationships expert for Grindr, adds that some men may have a tendency to exaggerate when self-reporting their size, hence why a 7-inch penis may not sound that much bigger than average in a world where everyone claims to be packing at least 8 inches.

But in reality, rest assured that 7 inches of dick is indeed a substantial amount of penis.

Is a 7-Inch Penis Too Big?

It depends! The stats can provide reliable info on what’s above or below average, but what’s too big, too small, or just right is a matter of personal preference. Ultimately, there’s no such thing as an “ideal” penis size, nor is there any universal agreement on what constitutes falling short of that nonexistent ideal or exceeding it to a disadvantageous degree.

That said, despite all the porn and patriarchal brainwashing to the contrary, bigger is not always better. While 7 inches may be a blessing to some, a penis of that size may present some logistical challenges for others, especially when it comes to penetrative sex.

“Remember, the vaginal canal is typically around 4 to 5 inches when aroused,” says Zane. “So if you’re coming up with a true 7 inches, it could potentially cause pain for the receiving partner.”

Some may also find 7 inches more difficult to manage during oral sex and harder to deep throat effectively. Essentially, 7 inches may cause pain, discomfort, or technical difficulties for a partner (especially those who have less experience with penises of that size—or penises in general), which could translate to less sexual satisfaction for the penis-haver.

That said, there are plenty of tips, tricks, and workarounds that can make sex with a big penis more manageable and ultimately more pleasurable for all parties. Sometimes, simply changing or modifying positions can help. Which brings us to….

Best Sex Positions for a 7-inch Penis

“With a larger penis, positions that let your partner control the depth and rhythm are key to keeping things comfortable and pleasurable,” says Drysdale. Here are few sexpert recommended options.

  • Cowgirl: “Being on top allows you to control depth, rhythm, and angle,” says Drysdale. “It’s also great for blended or multiple orgasms since your partner’s hands are free to stimulate your clit.”
  • Spooning: According to Drysdale, this side-sex position “is great for slower, more intimate penetration and keeps things cozy and shallow.”
  • Doggy Style (with a twist): While doggy is often a position that invites deeper penetration, Drysdale suggests adding a pillow under the receiving partner’s hips to help adjust the angle and prevent too-deep penetration. For another twist, try…
  • Standing Doggy: “With standing doggy style, the receiving partner can better control how deep their lover penetrates by opening and closing their thighs,” says sexologist Marla Renee Stewart, sexpert for Lovers sexual wellness brand and retailer.

And if 7 inches is still feeling like a bit much, Drysdale recommends trying a cock ring, which can essentially act as a depth bumper that limits deep penetration.

So there you have it: 7 inches in a nutshell. Now go forth and enjoy however many inches of dick you have in your life.