The Aries and Libra Compatibility Guide: Friendship, Sex, Romance

It's a time-old cliche that in romance, opposites attract! That's definitely the case for Aries and Libra, who oppose each other on the zodiac wheel. When two signs sit opposite each other, they have a very unique relationship. They differ in plenty of ways, but also have plenty of qualities that complement each other and encourage mutual growth. It’s the sort of relationship that significantly transforms both parties—usually for the better. Let’s talk more about what the compatibility between an Aries and a Libra looks like.

The Aries Basics:

Dates: March 21 to April 19

Element: Fire

Modality: Cardinal

Ruler: Mars

Represented by: The ram

Famous Aries: Halle Bailey, Pedro Pascal, Mariah Carey, Lady Gaga, Anya Taylor-Joy, Kristen Stewart, Sarah Jessica Parker, Keira Knightley, Reese Witherspoon, Randall Park, Jessica Chastain, Hayley Kiyoko, America Ferrera, Kourtney Kardashian, Lil Nas X, Simu Liu, Sadie Sink, Emma Watson, Lisa

The Libra Basics:

Dates: September 23 to October 22

Element: Air

Modality: Cardinal

Ruler: Venus

Represented by: The scales

Famous Libras: Kim Kardashian, Bella Hadid, Serena Williams, Will Smith, Gwyneth Paltrow, Cardi B, Doja Cat, Dakota Johnson, Jenna Ortega, Bruno Mars, Jimin, Zac Efron, Donald Glover, Addison Rae, Halsey, Maddie Ziegler, A$AP Rocky, Usher, Travis Kelce, Kamala Harris, Josh Hutcherson

Aries and Libra: Personality Traits

First, the similarities. Both Aries and Libra are outgoing, curious, and creative. As cardinal signs, they’re comfortable taking the lead and are always eager to try something new. But they differ plenty: As a fire sign, Aries is more hotheaded and bold, while Libras are natural-born diplomats who hate to rock the boat. While both are creative, Libras tend to be far more attracted to fashion than Aries are. And as an air sign, Libra loves to flirt with indirect wordplay and banter, while Aries is much more direct.

Aries and Libra: Friendship Compatibility

Opposite signs are often referred to as “sister signs,” and the dynamic between an Aries and a Libra can definitely look sibling-like. They might bicker from time to time (see: Kim and Kourtney Kardashian), but they always make up in the end. They love to joke around with each other and can make even the most mundane activities exciting with each other. Aries and Libra people can thrive in any sort of relationship, be it romantic or platonic, but they’re particularly well-suited as friends.

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Aries and Libra: Sexual Compatibility

Just as Aries and Libra are a great match as friends, they’re also make for great friends with benefits. Their discrepancies actually make them a perfect fit in bed. Aries people are happy to take the lead, while Libras are happy to follow. Both are curious about trying new things, which means they’re both open to testing out toys, positions, etc. Plus, neither takes sex too seriously—it’s a hot way to have fun together, not a “merging of souls” or whatever those water signs say. Even if they’re in a serious romantic relationship or a full-on marriage, sex is a way for Aries and Libra to release any tensions.

Aries and Libra: Relationship Compatibility

These two have a very comfortable, natural-feeling relationship. But that doesn't mean they’re boring! Quite the opposite, actually—they challenge each other in all the best ways, and their relationship helps them grow together and as individuals and together. That naturalness is born out of an innate comfort with each other. <3

Aries and Libra: Marriage Compatibility

Signs that are opposite each other on the zodiac wheel are almost always compatible, and Aries and Libra are no exception. Whether they connect as friends, lovers, romantic partners, or even spouses, this relationship will be totally transformative.