Everything You Need to Know About Libras

They’re stylish, they’re sociable, they can’t make a decision…they must be a Libra. Whether you’re crushing on a Libra, befriending one, or you are one, let’s talk more about the zodiac’s cardinal air sign.

See, every sign of the zodiac has personality qualities and archetypal traits associated with it. Let’s get into some vibes we often associate with Libra—the good, the bad, and the gossipy—shall we?

Pause for a quick disclaimer: Before reading on, please remember the first astrological commandment—*thou shalt not astroprofile*—and know that literally any sign can have any personality quality. These are simply the ones most commonly associated with our Libra friends. Also, the ways these qualities get expressed vary from person to person.

Dates: September 23 to October 22

Symbol: The Scales

Element: Air

Modality: Cardinal

Ruling planet: Venus

Keywords: Gossipy, witty, intelligent, diplomatic, indecisive, creative

Famous Libras: Kim Kardashian, Bella Hadid, Will Smith, Gwyneth Paltrow, Cardi B, Serena Williams, Doja Cat, Dakota Johnson, Donald Glover, Halsey, Gwen Stefani

Libra is the social butterfly of the zodiac. They're charming, witty, and have a great sense of style. Libra is the archetypal "popular kid" of the zodiac—think of famous celebrity Libras like Kim Kardashian, Will Smith, or Bella Hadid. They're born people-pleasers and might adjust their personalities to fit in with different social groups—they're not being "fake," just intelligent!

Libra is infamously indecisive—ask them to choose a restaurant and you'll be waiting for hours. This is in part because they're so determined to be "fair" that they're always weighing up the pros and cons in their list. This is a pain when you just want to order food, but a huge strength when it comes to making an important decision. Libra wants to do things right the first time.

Venus-ruled Libras are lovers, not fighters. Unlike the other Venus-ruled sign, Taurus, Libras are just as keen to flirt and date casually as they are to settle down with one partner. This is thanks to that air element. Air is dynamic; it likes to move and talk. A lot. Libras are also more social than the typical Taurus, meaning that dating a Libra will be filled with nights out on the town, meeting new people, and eating at the best restaurants. Libras like the finer things in life, and they also have a knack for remembering the names and life stories of everyone they meet. Win over a Libra by chatting about art, fine food and wine, and social justice. The downfall? Libras are notorious for their indecision. This means you might have to lead the way. Be bold and make the first move, pick the restaurant, and take things to the next level. Otherwise, you’ll stay in the Libra friend zone.

Let's talk compatibility!

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When it comes to romance, friendship, and even congenial coworker relationships, Libra gets along best with fellow air signs Gemini, Aquarius, and of course, fellow Libras. Libra can also thrive with fire signs Sagittarius, Leo, and especially their opposite on the zodiac wheel, Aries. Water and earth signs have a harder time getting along with Libra, particularly Capricorn, Cancer, and Virgo—they're just way too different. Taurus is the exception here because Taurus and Libra share a ruling planet, Venus, and have a shared interest in all the things Venus rules like love, money, art, and pleasure. Scorpio and Pisces have more of a chance of getting along well with a Libra than Cancer, but it can still be a struggle to find things in common.

Best matches: Gemini, Aquarius, Libra, and Aries

Good matches: Sagittarius, Leo, and Taurus

Bad matches: Scorpio and Pisces

Worst matches: Capricorn, Cancer, and Virgo

The typical Libra has countless acquaintances and only a few close friends. Once you truly befriend a Libra, you’ve got a friend for life. Their Venusian natures make them famously conflict-avoidant. This means that a Libra friendship is a drama-free zone. You might need to be the pursuer—calling and making hangout plans. While those with strong Libra placements in their charts avoid drama and conflict in their own lives, they love to watch human drama play out in all its forms, making them the people watchers of the zodiac. A classic Libra move involves simply finding a great bench and kicking back with a cup of tea while watching passersby. They are likely to know the latest and greatest gossip but also make excellent secret-keepers. Word to the wise: They expect you to do the same. Trust, flattery, and good conversation are the way to win a Libra friend for life.

Thanks to Venus (planet of love, harmony, art, and beauty), Libra is excellent at mediating, people-pleasing, and noticing injustices. Libras are often stereotyped as the head-in-the-clouds, luxury-seeking loungers of the zodiac. The truth? Libra seeks beauty and harmony but also knows that everyone deserves happiness. It makes sense that Libra is depicted as the scales of justice. Libra believes in peace, love, and justice for all. I repeat: justice for all. Everyone. No exceptions. Libras are also known for their keen social skills and ability to socialize with anyone. This is that effusive combination of Venus and the air element.

The look, feel, and design of a Libra’s home is everything. Venus is the planet of sensuality and aesthetics, and in Libra, this manifests as excellent taste in home decor. However, they’re not known for being the most neat and tidy of the zodiac signs, and all their fine designs are often covered up by a righteous mess. Still, a Libra can throw a sweet dinner party replete with flowery centerpieces. Their special Libran sociability gives them a talent for bringing people of all walks of life together—so a Libra’s house can serve as a social hub. They don’t require as much alone time as other signs, preferring to be in proximity to their partner or close friends. If they work from home, they’ll usually opt for a coffee shop or workspace where they can people watch and chitchat with the barista. The art of distraction is Libra’s strong suit.