Good news for fans of MomTok, because the next installment of The Secret Lives of Mormon Wivesis almost here! Following the explosive season three finale, it’s finally time to catch up with our fave Utah moms—and here at Cosmopolitan, I’ve got a brand-new, exclusive Secret Lives of Mormon Wives season four sneak peek. So grab your dirty soda and put on your comfiest sweatsuit, because it’s time to check in on Jessi Draper, Miranda Hope, and Taylor Frankie Paul.

This upcoming season is going to be all about whether MomTok will survive this, ofc—but also, we’ll hopefully learn, what actually went down between Whitney Leavitt and Jen Affleck on Dancing With the Stars, Vanderpump Villa, whether Demi Engemann is finally leaving MomTok for good, and whatever is going on with Taylor and her ex, Dakota Mortensen. Speaking of Taylor: This new sneak peak at season four provides a look at her prep process for season 22 of The Bachelorette.

In this exclusive clip, Taylor takes Miranda and Jessi along with her to meet with a dating coach, who wants to help her prep for the task of dating 22 men at once on The Bachelorette. As Miranda explains in a confessional, “A lot of the time, members of the church will get married when they think that they’ve found someone who’s, like, ‘good enough.’ …I am excited for Taylor to find that love that she deserves.”

And, ofc, that guy will ideally not resemble Taylor’s exes, Tate and Dakota.

Speaking about her exes in her own confessional, Taylor describes Tate as “relaxed, passive, introverted, likes to stay home” and Dakota as “the complete opposite, life of the party.” According to her, “I need someone kind of in the middle.”

So how would she describe her ideal guy? As Taylor tells the dating coach, “I think he will maybe come in a little bit more on the shy side… I don’t think he will be one of the alpha males in the room.”

Another quality she’s looking for: someone who will give her space. “I don’t want to be told what to do or what not to do,” she continues, adding, that she’d love to find “a guy that’s just like, ‘I’m here for you, I’m going to be your rock, but do your thing, my girl.’”

Will Taylor find that person she’s looking for, or will she “self-sabotage” her Bachelorette experience, as Miranda fears she might? Whatever happens, I am going to be SAT when season four debuts tomorrow.