Netflix’s fully deranged/messy/unhinged new show The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On is officially available for you to stream all at once on a weeknight while contemplating the meaning of life, and in case you now feel compelled to follow the cast on Instagram, good news! They’re all public and ready for you to help build their brands.

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Check out everyone in the Ultimatum cast below, but first, some casual info for anyone who has yet to get hooked on this show: The Ultimatum comes from the brave souls who brought us Love Is Blind, is hosted by Vanessa Lachey and Nick “Obviously Nick Lachey” Lachey, and is basically structured like this:

  • We meet six couples, all of whom are considering marriage. The catch? One person in each relationship is ready to make it official, and the other person is experiencing cold feet.
  • Nick and Vanessa shove everyone in a hotel together and each couple chooses a new partner from one of the other couples so they can experience what it’s like being in a brand-new relationship.
  • The new couples then get to decide whether the grass really is greener of if they’re ready for marriage with their original parter.

So, who are the poor couples who signed up for this show? Meet them—and follow their Instagram accounts—below.

Alexis and Hunter

Kay, so first, we have Alexis and Hunter. They’ve been dating for two years, and Alexis is the one who issued the ultimatum. As she mused in her first-episode interview, “I knew Hunter was the one for me when we went on our first trip. He was so patient, just let me run the show.…I initiated the conversation with Hunter about an ultimatum. I’m ready to take the next step and I basically told Hunter that we either get engaged or we break up.…I want what I want. And that’s a ring.”

Hunter

Alexis

Madlyn and Colby

Then we have Madlyn and Colby, a couple one and a half years in the making who met in college at the bar Colby worked at. The problem? He’s more than down to get married, and she’s not. “I’m ready for marriage. I’m 100 percent in. I’m ready to propose to Madlyn,” Colby mused. “I just wanna be known as her man.” But Madlyn said while she loves Colby, she isn’t ready to get married yet: “I don’t believe in there only being one person for everybody. Do I believe there’s a possibility I could be happy with someone else? Yes.” Awk times.

Madlyn

Colby

April and Jake

These two have been dating for two years and April was the ultimatum giver, telling cameras, “I just want a ring and I want a baby. Now.” Got it! Meanwhile, Jake explained, “She’s my best friend and I do want her to be part of my life till I die.” But! He just got out of the military, so he wants to have fun, travel, and be financially stable before getting married. Which…makes sense!

April

Jake

Rae and Zay

It’s been two and a half years for these two, and Rae is ready to make things official. “We have dated through college and I have graduated and I have everything planned out in my life,” Rae said in her intro. “Zay has the full package with me because I stay in the gym, I have a degree, I cook, I clean, and I know how to fuck.” I mean, hard to argue with that.

Zay

Rae

Lauren and Nathan

It’s been two and a half years and Nathan is ready for the next move! The (pretty huge) problem? She doesn’t want kids, and he definitely does.

Lauren

Lauren doesn’t allow her Instas to be shared, but follow her here!

Nathan

Randall and Shanique

These two have been together for one and a half years and Shanique issued the ultimatum. She’s ready to get married and have kids, and she thinks Randall is too—but he wants to get some things done before putting a ring on it. As he told Nick and Vanessa, “I think it’d be best to just get rid of some debt I have in my past in order to have a great life for her. That’s ultimately my reason, but she doesn’t understand that.”

Shanique

Randall

Welp, that’s that. *follows everyone immediately*