If you've been respectfully interested in Josh O'Connor's dating life since Challengers (true fans have been into him since The Durrells in Corfu, just saying) and are this close to launching a Club O'Connor Twitter account, it's probably a good time to settle into a detailed timeline of his relationship.

Turns out Josh is dating Alison Oliver, who you might recognize from Saltburn and also happens to be starring in the upcoming Wuthering Heights film alongside Margot Robbie and Jacob Elordi. Here's what we know about their vibes!

February 2024

Someone snaps a photo of Josh and Alsion holding hands in Italy. As far as we know, this is their first public sighting!

May 2024

Josh and Alison both attend the Met Gala with Loewe. No one knows they're dating yet, so things are very chill.

September 2024

Josh is Alison's plus one at her sister's wedding in London. No pics, sorry!

November 2024

The Sun officially drops a report that Josh and Alison are dating, speaking to a source who says, "Josh and Alison have a lot in common and have enjoyed getting to know each other away from the spotlight. Despite their huge roles, they prefer hanging out in libraries rather than big glamorous events."

I'm going to need a minute with "they prefer hanging out in libraries" before we move on, thanks.

December 2024

These two show up in Richard E. Grant's Twitter photo celebrating Christmas...which has since been deleted.

But either way, they're Richard E. Grant's Twitter official.

April 2025

Fans notice that the pair seeeem to have matching tattoos.

May 2025

Alison accompanies Josh to the Cannes premiere of his film, The Mastermind.

"the mastermind" red carpet the 78th annual cannes film festival
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And they're spotted kissing in pics shared by DeuxMoi!

June 2025

The pair is spotting smooching yet again, this time in Portofino, Italy, and Just Jared has allllll the pics.

September 2025

When asked about her rumored romance with Josh during an interview with The Times of London, Alison declines to answer.

“I’m not going to answer questions about that, if that’s okay,” she says. “I’m just setting a little rule for myself, but thank you. Your personal life is your personal life. I’m just choosing not to talk about that.” Fair enough!!

October 2025

During an interview with British GQ, Josh opens up about how he and his “partner” make their busy schedules work. “Me and my partner, we celebrate the days where we’re in the same place for a whole day,” he says. “And maybe we both have bits of work to do in London, we’ll have a cup of coffee in the morning together. She’ll go off, I’ll go off, we’ll come back in the evening and I’ll be able to cook for her. And I’m like, ‘This is a holiday.’”

Oh, and he also shares Alison’s critique of his driving: “My partner always says that I’m too friendly as a driver. To the point where I think people think that I know them, because I’m waving away.”

That brings us up to date, but we can all agree that these two are a vibe.