Here at Cosmopolitan, we take pride in our long and iconic history of providing readers with the expert-backed info and advice you need to live your best sex life. But of all the sexual wisdom we’ve imparted over the decades, one of the most important sex tips we never get tired of handing down is surprisingly simple: Use lube. That’s because no matter what kind of sex you’re having, who you’re having it with, or how many times you’ve done it before, it can almost always be improved with a little extra lubrication.
In addition to increasing comfort and wetness during penetrative sex, reducing unwanted friction during hand jobs, and making oral even more fun (and potentially tastier), the right lubricant can also enhance playtime with your favorite toys, double as massage oil, or even enhance arousal. And with so many different ways to use lube, best believe there’s a wide variety of options out there. So to help you pick the very best products, we’re proud to present Cosmopolitan’s third-annual Lube Awards, featuring our top editor-tested-and-approved recs for all your lubrication needs.
Over the course of three months, Cosmopolitan’s sex and relationships editors nominated 32 personal lubricants, sex oils, and arousal gels across 14 categories, prioritizing both new-to-us brands and tried-and-true favorites. We tested each one for effectiveness, experience, and ease of use and analyzed ingredients lists, prioritizing body-safe, nontoxic materials—all to bring you this expertly curated selection of the very best lubes that deserve a place on your nightstand.
Happy Lube Awards season to all who celebrate! Now go forth and get lubricated.
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- Best Silicone-Based: System JO Xtra Silky
- Best Water-Based: Playground Free Love
- Best Oil-Based: Goop Sex Oil
- Best for Oral: Intimate Earth Oral Flavored Glide
- Best Aloe-Based: Cake Aloe Lube
- Best Flavored: LubeLife Peaches & Cream Anal Delight
- Best Anal: Hey Sweet Cheeks Backside Glide Water + Silicone Hybrid
- Best Value: Smilemakers Generous Gel
- Best With CBD: Glissant Huile D’Amour
- Best With Coconut Oil: Cosmopolitan x PlusOne Coco Motion Personal Lubricant
- Best Organic: Medicine Mama Intimate Glide
- Best for Toys: Pjur Water-Based Toy Glide
- Best Arousal Gel: Epiphany Clit Arousal Serum
- Best Warming Lube: KY Warming Liquid
Best Silicone-Based: System JO Xtra Silky
The lube universe has expanded over the years to offer a truly diverse variety of different types and formulas—but if your primary criteria is long-lasting slickness, a classic silicone-based product remains the go-to. This lightweight pick from System JO has a smooth, natural feel that lasts as long as you need it to but never sticks around longer than you want it to. Fortified with Vitamin E, it also gives your skin a little hydration boost, which is always a plus.
Best Water-Based: Playground Free Love
If there is but one bit of lube wisdom we may impart, let it be this: When in doubt, go water-based. These products are reliably safe to use with toys and most condoms, making them a versatile bedside-drawer staple with which you can almost never go wrong. This gentle formula from Playground also claims to reduce and prevent UTIs and common vaginal health issues like BV—which is a huge plus for those of us who have been personally victimized by the delicate ecosystem that is the vagina.
Best Oil-Based: Goop Sex Oil
This sleek pick from Goop feels (and smells!) ultra-luxe—and unlike a lot of other oil-based intimate products, this unique jelly formula doesn’t feel greasy. Rich and moisturizing, this luxurious oil is designed for full-body use, making it ideal for a steamy pre-sex massage and whatever it leads to.
Best for Oral: Intimate Earth Oral Flavored Glide
You may think saliva renders lube more or less negligible when it comes to oral sex—but you would be incorrect! A little lube can seriously enhance the oral sexperience for both the giver and receiver, and a flavored pick definitely makes things more fun for the former. Intimate Earth offers a variety of juicy, natural-tasting flavors that don’t taste or smell too sweet or artificial. (We love the Cheeky Apples flavor!)
Best Aloe-Based: Cake Aloe Lube
If hydration is what you seek, then an aloe-based lube is for you. Vaginal pH–friendly, compatible with most condoms, and safe to use with toys, Cake’s Aloe Lube is an ideal all-purpose pick that’s lightweight and naturally moisturizing. Perfect for both partnered and solo sex, this slick and never sticky option delivers a natural-feeling glide that washes off easily.
Best Flavored: LubeLife Peaches & Cream Anal Delight
When you think flavored lube, you probably think oral sex. But this peaches and cream–flavored treat from LubeLife has other oral pursuits in mind—namely, rimming. While there’s technically no reason you couldn’t use this water-based option for blow jobs or any other activities that may call for a flavored lube, we love that this product is specifically designed for mouth-to-butt stuff. LubeLife never skimps on flavor, and this genuinely tasty addition to the brand’s catalogue turns tossing salad into dessert.
Best Anal: Hey Sweet Cheeks Backside Glide Water + Silicone Hybrid
Many experts recommend silicone-based lube for backdoor play because it tends to be thicker and longer-lasting than most other formulas. But for those who love the lightweight feel and easy cleanup of a water-based lube, a hybrid formula is the answer. Combining the versatility of a water-based lube with the longevity of silicone, this best-of-both-worlds option from Hey Sweet Cheeks is your backdoor bestie.
Best Value: Smilemakers Generous Gel
With so many luxe lubes on the market these days, you may be tempted to side-eye a more affordable product. But trust us, lube doesn’t have to be pricey to be high-quality. This water-based pick from Smilemakers delivers a reliably smooth, body-safe glide for just $10.
Best With CBD: Glissant Huile D’Amour
If you’re someone who loves the calming effects of CBD, just wait till you see what it can do for your sex life. This CBD-infused intimate oil can help you relax, unwind, and get in the mood. And because it’s Glissant, it comes in a sleek and chic bottle that could easily be mistaken for a high-end perfume or skincare product.
Best With Coconut Oil: Cosmopolitan x PlusOne Coco Motion Personal Lubricant
In a list of the best lubes out there, we’d be remiss not to include our own (because if we didn’t think it was the best, we obviously wouldn’t have made it!). The Coco Motion lube from our All Yours collection with PlusOne is made with coconut oil, which makes it super moisturizing and naturally good-smelling. Plus, this 2-in-1 formula doubles as a massage oil.
Best Organic: Medicine Mama Intimate Glide
This organic aloe and water-based lubricant is ultra-hydrating with a lightweight yet long-lasting feel that mimics your body’s natural lubrication. We love that Medicine Mama prides itself on using only high-quality ingredients, including hyaluronic acid for enhanced moisturizing properties.
Best for Toys: Pjur Water-Based Toy Glide
Water-based lube is generally compatible with most toys. But if you want to make sure you’re protecting your precious playthings, this toy-specific formula from Pjur is peace of mind in a bottle. This water-based pick is specially designed for use with all sex toys and vibrators of all different materials.
Best Arousal Gel: Epiphany Clit Arousal Serum
Arousal gels work to increase oxygen delivery and blood flow to the genitals, which helps to enhance sensitivity and vaginal secretion. This fan favorite from Epiphany has long been a best-seller among Cosmo readers, providing tingly, warm sensations that can seriously turn up the volume on stimulation.
Best Warming Lube: KY Warming Liquid
A warming lube quite literally heats things up in the bedroom with the sensation-enhancing novelty of temperature play. It also has the benefit of ensuring you never accidentally give your partner the unpleasant surprise of cold lube to their most sensitive bits—which is a plus!




























