Carina Hsieh
Sex & Relationships Editor
Carina Hsieh lives in NYC with her French Bulldog Bao Bao — follow her on Instagram and Twitter • Candace Bushnell once called her the Samantha Jones of Tinder • She enjoys hanging out in the candle aisle of TJ Maxx and getting lost in Amazon spirals.
18 Best Rabbit Vibrators for Experiencing Blended Orgasms
Time to ~hop~ on the trend.
How Can You Tell If You’re in a Situationship? Let’s Unpack It.
Consider this your multi-step guide to figuring it all out, with the help of certified experts.
What Men Crave During Sex, According to Experts
The best part: These tips can be just as satisfying for you too.
The 5 Best Organic Tampon Brands, Because Your Vagina Deserves It
A few popular brands as recommended by expert gynos.
25 Men Reveal What They Actually, Really Want for Valentine’s Day
Something handmade✏️, quality time ✏️, baked goods and also something sexy, got it ✅.
Should You Spit or Swallow Semen After Oral Sex? We Asked Experts for Everything You Need to Know
Including whether or not it's safe, and how to make the experience as sexy as possible—no matter what you decide!
Here, Let Us Help You Capture the Perfect Selfie
Cue the likes! Cue the comments! Cue the flame emojis!
16 Cowgirl Sex Positions That’ll Make You Say Wanna Say Yee-Haw
You on top = you in control.
The 26 Best Couples Retreat Trips Money Can Buy
You two could hit up luxe ski clubs in Vail or have a spiritual transformation in Mexico.
10 Best Strap-On Dildos, Harnesses, and Sets for Everyone
Keep calm and strap-on.
12 Best Anal Lubes, According to Experts and Reviews
Here’s what to look for…and what to stay far away from.
123 Sexual Slang Words and Terms You Should Know
The time has come...to learn what “pompoir” means.
22 Best Remote-Control Vibrators for High-Tech Orgasms
You owe it to yourself to try going hands-free.
10 Things to Know About What It Means to Get Left on Read
Put your phone down, bestie!
25 Best Couples Games to Play on Your Next Date Night
For when you’ve run out of things to watch on Netflix.
Everything to Know About Face Sitting (AKA “Queening”)
Time to take the throne, queens.
11 Best Warming Lubes for Turnin' Up the Heat
Warm, tingly sensations right this way.
Here’s What It Means to Be Autosexual
Plus five signs you might be attracted to yourself.
11 Aphrodisiac Foods That Might Just Help Level Up Your Sex Drive
You're probs already using some of these every single day. 👀
23 Best Oral Sex Toys of 2024 That Feel Just Like the Real Deal
A little robotic tongue? Check. Suction vibes out the wazoo? Also check.
12 Best Sex Handcuffs of 2024 for Safe (and Stylish!) Restraint Play
Pls restrain yourself from buying all of them (lol).
What Is a Ruined Orgasm?
This BDSM practice is for those of you who love stop-and-start teasing.
15 Best Sex Candles of 2024 for Heating Up Your Foreplay
Pls indulge us while we ~wax poetic~ about these candles.
15 Masturbation Tips to Up Your Clit-Rubbing Game
It’s fine, you can thank us later.
13 Best Water-Based Lubes You’ll Love Just as Much as We Do
Water-based lubes might not be as long-lasting as silicone or oil ones, but they can be just as enjoyable if you know where to look.
10 Best Period Underwear Options of 2023, According to Reviews
Period leaks? We don't know her.
6 Women Explain What It Feels Like to Experience Multiple Orgasms
From rolling waves of pleasure to a series of highs and lows, multiple orgasms are one wild ride.
29 Best Bullet Vibrators That Are Worth All the Buzz
Proof that size doesn’t matter after all.
The 9 Best Vacuums for Pet Hair, According to Experts
It’s all fluffy and cute until you’re picking pet hairs out of your bath mat.
Wait, What Is Figging?
You stick ginger root up where???
Welcome to Your In-Depth Guide on What Type of Lube to Use in Every Situation
From water-based to oil-based, we asked sexperts to break down the differences.
What’s a “Brat” in BDSM?
Your guide to bratting in the bedroom.