Ella Snyder

Exploring sexual desire in a body that feels totally new is not for the faint hearted.

The singer-songwriter behind the recent album Willoughby Tucker, I’ll Always Love You knows she’s a lightning-rod topic online. She owns her mistakes, she says, but also has questions.

I thought our shared identities could sustain us both. What I learned became much more important.

After I very publicly disclosed my gender identity on the apps, I thought I was done explaining myself. But here we are.

As a trans person in America today, just existing is exhausting. But I won’t let it get in the way of my search for love.