Hayley Folk
Writer
I Asked a Stranger to Take a Photo of Me on My Knees in a French Alleyway. I’ve Never Felt More Powerful.
It was more than just a picture; it was a snapshot of me fully embodying my sexual self.
Let This Be Your Friendly Reminder That 'Babygirl' Is Not a How-to on Kink
The movie gets a lot of things wrong about dominance and submission. As it turns out, that's by design.
I Thought of Myself as a Shy Girl... Until Getting Flogged at a Sex Party Brought Out a Whole New Side of Me
Here’s how this often-misunderstood BDSM move has helped me own my sexual power and brought my partner and I closer than ever before.
I Couldn't Do Non-Monogamy Without Couples Therapy
The day after the biggest fight we'd ever had, my partner and I finally asked for help.
I Went to a Totally Naked Dinner Party and Didn’t Think About Sex Once
Yes, dining nude is a thing. Let me explain.
So, Uh, What Exactly Should You Do With Your Ex’s Nudes?
You know, the ones sitting waaaay in the back of your camera roll.
My Partner Made Me Cry at a Sex Party, but It’s Not What You Think
“I didn’t feel like I was wrong for being sexual or like an immoral misfit no one would ever want to share their life with. He was seeing me as someone with a history and sexuality all my own, acknowledging my experience as mine.”