Here’s the thing: I could wax poetic about LELO vibrators all damn day. But I’ll have you know that I’m not the only person who feels this way. After a fan asked for a recommendation for a first vibrator, Call Her Daddy’s Alex Cooper shared her favorite pick—and it comes from none other than my fave luxury Swedish sex toy brand, which juuust so happens to be having a major sale right now for Cyber Monday.

On her Instagram Stories, Alex called the LELO SILA vibrator “the best investment you will ever make in your life,” adding that it will “last you a lifetime and a lifetime of memories.” Now THAT’S a ringing endorsement if I’ve ever heard one! She even cheekily added, “NOT SPONSORED just my fave forever and ever amen.”

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So...what is the LELO SILA? For starters: It’s all about clitoral pleasure. This beginner-friendly vibe uses gentle sonic waves to spread equal intensity across the whole clitoris, simulating the feeling of receiving oral sex (yes, really). And unlike similar clit-sucking vibrators—which tend to have smaller, more concentrated openings—the larger mouth on the SILA is better equipped to fit a wider variety of anatomy.

With that larger opening, this clit sucker is built for slow-building orgasms rather than pinpoint stimulation (because it’s not always a race, ppl—sometimes, it’s a marathon!). You can choose between the original SILA, which features eight pleasure settings and is currently 30 percent off...

...or the SILA Cruise, which features “cruise control” technology that automatically ups the intensity when the toy is pressed firmly against your body (and is also currently 25 percent off!!).

Like all the best sex toys, the LELO SILA is 1) waterproof, so you can take it with you in the bath or tub, 2) rechargeable with a two-hour battery life, and 3) made with body-safe silicone that feels srsly silky-smooth on skin. Just note that you can’t use silicone-based lube with this one, as that can degrade the material.

Even on sale, I know this vibrator is pricey—but believe me (and Alex Cooper) when I say it’s well, weeeeeelll worth the investment.