Things we know for sure: Oliva Munn and John Mulaney now married with two kids! Things that are still kinda up in the air? What the actual timeline of their relationship is. John did his best to lay out a specific timeline during a chat with Seth Meyers (we’ll get to that in a moment). But even so, there’s been a lot of speculation about when he and Olivia actually met and how they started dating and later married. The good news is the internet has receipts, these two are officially husband and wife, and we’ve put together every piece of info available for you to analyze as you see fit! Starting with 2015—a happier time when pandemics occurred only in apocalyptic thrillers. 🙃
January 14, 2015
Olivia gives an interview with HuffPost Live, where she recounts being “obsessed” (her words) with John during Seth’s wedding: “We were at a wedding together and I was like, ‘Oh my gosh, do you and your fiancé want to go have dinner or something and go hang out?’ At first it was cool, and then I kept going up to him at the wedding like, ‘So, you having fun?’ I was just so obsessed with hanging out with and talking with him.”
Apparently, she emailed him and never heard back, which I think we can all relate to.
*waits patiently for Chris Evans to check his DMs*
December 21, 2020
Olivia sends John her best wishes and support on Twitter as he enters rehab (though she has since deleted her tweet).
May 10, 2021
John’s rep confirms to Page Six that he and his wife, Anna Marie Tendler, broke up, saying, “John will not have any further comment as he continues to focus on his recovery and getting back to work.”
However, Anna Marie certainly had further comment and released a statement of her own to People, saying, “I am heartbroken that John has decided to end our marriage. I wish him support and success as he continues his recovery.”
May 13, 2021
People reports that John and Olivia are dating, claiming that they met at a church in California:
“This is very new, they’re taking it slowly,” a source says. “They met at church in Los Angeles.”
September 7, 2021
John confirms he and Olivia are expecting a baby! He tells Seth the happy news, saying, “We’re having a baby together. I was nervous when I was about to say the news. I’m gonna be a dad. We’re both really, really happy.”
He also lays out a prettttty specific timeline of his and Olivia’s romance, saying they got together in “the spring.” Ahem:
“Is it September now? So, since last September…I went to rehab in September, I got out in October, I move out of my home from my ex-wife. Then, in the spring, I went to Los Angeles and met and started to date a wonderful woman named Olivia. I got into this relationship that’s been really beautiful with someone incredible.”
Note: People almost immediately start disputing this timeline, pointing out that Olivia and John have known each other for years (which we know is true due to that 2015 interview). As one anonymous celebrity agent told Page Six, “I don’t think it’s any coincidence that John broke the news of Olivia’s pregnancy the way he did in terms of basically giving a timeline of his past few months—when he moved out of his house, how it was the spring when he fell in love with Olivia.”
Sources also disputed John claiming he’d asked his wife for a divorce in October, saying he’d actually done so in February.
“It isn’t entirely clear when their relationship started,” one source said of John and Olivia. “There have been rumors for months about her being pregnant, and it all just seems like a very tight timeline. It seems to me that he is going to great lengths to dispute the idea that he cheated.”
September 19, 2021
Olivia debuts her pregnancy on Instagram!
October 23, 2021
Rumors circulate that John and Olivia have broken up, and an Us Weekly source says there has been some “uncertainty” in their relationship.
“This has been an imperfect relationship from the start,” the source says, adding, “Even though Olivia’s going to be a wonderful mother and has great support behind her, Olivia’s friends just don’t see these two being a couple in a year’s time.”
The source also notes that “Olivia and John still have to decide what kind of future they’re going to have together, if any. It’s a time of uncertainty for both of them.”
November 16, 2021
Olivia gives an interview to the L.A. Times, where she opens up about her pregnancy and relationship, hinting that she’s aware of the speculation about her and John’s dating timeline.
“It’s definitely not foreign for me to have people speculate incorrectly about things and to have rumors run rampant in one way,” she said. “They think they know our relationship so well, when in reality, they don’t. There’s no way anyone could know what any of his relationships were or what our relationship is.”
The actor also adds that she hasn't refuted any claims because it will “feed into a narrative that’s just not true” and notes that people tend to “ignore really specific public signs and actions that completely contradict the false narrative. For whatever reason, it’s easier to blame me.”
November 24, 2021
TMZ reports that Olivia gave birth the day before Thanksgiving in Los Angeles! But it’s a minute until the new parents confirm the happy news themselves….
December 24, 2021
Right in time for Christmas, Olivia shares the first picture of her and John’s baby, Malcolm Hiệp Mulaney. Literally so cute:
February 14, 2021
It's Valentine's Day, and John and Olivia spend it together with their son:
May 9, 2022
Just a cute bathroom selfie of this new family!
June 23, 2022
John and Olivia are papped holding hands in NYC.
June 26, 2022
Olivia and Malcolm join John on tour and it's all just v cute:
October 11, 2022
John and Olivia celebrate Malcolm saying one of his first words! Truly never thought listening to someone saying "car" could be so charming, but here we are!
November 27, 2022
The couple celebrates Malcolm's first bday and the content is simply to die for.
"Just got back from celebrating ONE YEAR of the most joyful baby being in this world and in our lives. My son, my joy. Happiest Birthday Malcolm Hiệp! I love you so so so much," Olivia captions the adorable pics of her son, who is seated on John's lap and covered head to toe in cake and icing.
June 18, 2023
John posts a touching Father's Day tribute to Olivia alongside the caption, "You made me a dad, Olivia. I love you forever for doing that." BRB, sobbing!
August 6, 2023
The celebs have a rare night out on the town while attending the FWRD Celebration at Bar Marmont. In pics obtained from the night, Olivia and John look as in love as ever as they hold hands and ~soft smile~ for the cameras. Ah, to be successful, loaded, and in love!
October 13, 2023
During an appearance on The Late Show with Stephen Colbert, John hilariously recounts the time he accidentally watched an erotic film (thinking it was a historical drama lol) with Olivia's mom and legit leaves us all speechless.
"I'm sitting with the wonderful Miss Kim, we are on the couch together, and we find this Korean film called The Handmaiden," the comedian begins before adding, "Set in the early 20th century, it’s about this book collector and this kept woman. We’re watching the film [and] it’s right up our alley: Korea, old-fashioned, perfect. It becomes, Stephen, the most graphic, sexual, erotic [movie]. I was truly like, ‘This is what people mean by erotic.’"
Watch the whole clip here and prepare to laugh for minutes on end:
November 24, 2023
The parents celebrate Malcolm Hiệp's bday and the tributes are too cute for words:
January 8, 2024
John and Olivia take us behind the scenes of getting glammed up for the 2024 Golden Globes. Yes, they look incredible. Yes, we're incredibly jealous:
January 9, 2024
The couple attends the Academy Of Motion Picture Arts & Sciences' 14th Annual Governors Awards and looks so in love.
Also, a moment for this MOMENT?!?!
March 10, 2024
Another day, another awards show for these two: THE OSCARS!!!! And in honor of the celebration, the celebs do it big with *chef's kiss* custom Fendi 'fits.
Oh, and the two also attend the forever iconic Vanity Fair Oscar Party after the ceremony wraps:
June 16, 2024
John posts adorable pics on Instagram of himself hanging out on the floor next to Malcolm in honor of Father's Day, while Olivia documents the holiday on her Story with a snap of the father-son duo walking over to a pool. "He's the best. And he's the best. Happy Father's Day @johnmulaney 🥹," the caption reads.
June 22, 2024
The couple travels to France for Paris Fashion Week and attends John's first presentation: the Hermes SS25 Men's Show. Olivia commemorates the moment—which John obvi has hilarious commentary on—via an Instagram post alongside the caption, "Baby’s first fashion show 😆 Thank you for having us @hermes 🧡."
In the clip, the Saturday Night Live alum jokes, "Should I practice how to look at them walking?" Obsessed!
July 6, 2024
Yep, the actor and comedian officially tied the knot, per People! According to a source who spoke to the outlet, the couple said "I do" over the weekend in an intimate ceremony at a friend's home in New York state, with only their son and a witness in attendance.
September 14, 2024
Congrats are in order for the couple as they officially welcomed their second baby together via surrogate on September 14. Olivia shared the news on September 23 alongside sweet photos of their daughter, Méi.
"I had so many profound emotions about not being able to carry my daughter. When I first met our gestational surrogate we spoke mother to mother," the actor wrote in part. "She showed me so much grace and understanding, I knew I had found a real-life angel. Words cannot express my gratitude that she kept our baby safe for 9 months and made our dreams come true."
As for the meaning of Méi's name? It translates to "plum" in Chinese, which Olivia lovingly called her daughter during the process.
October 24, 2024
At InStyle's Imagemaker Awards, Olivia receives a Woman of Impact Award—and John makes a special appearance to present her with the award. In his emotional speech, he notes "how lucky our kids are to have you as their mother" and "how lucky I am to have you as my partner in life." 🥹
December 16, 2024
John and Olivia enjoy a date night at the All In: Comedy About Love gala performance.
February 14, 2025
In honor of SNL's 50th anniversary, the couple attends SNL50: The Homecoming Concert:
And two nights later, they step out again for the SNL 50th anniversary special:
March 2, 2025
The pair had a parents’ night out at the Vanity Fair Oscars party, where John wore a stunning white tux and Olivia wore a floor-length green and black gown.
April 17, 2025
When talking about their daughter and their July 2024 wedding, Olivia shared some really sweet details.
“Our daughter was born via surrogate because I couldn’t carry her,” Olivia shared on the Kelly Clarkson Show. “And I was really sad. I was telling John I wish that she was here, because in the photos she’s gonna look back on the day that mommy and daddy got married, Malcolm will be there, but she won’t be there.”
“He found this vintage locket,” she said. “And he put her sonogram picture inside and he surprised me with it. It was very emotional, he’s very thoughtful and sweet.”
May 2025
There's fan speculation that Olivia Munn and John Mulaney may walk the 2025 Met Gala red carpet together—stay tuned for confirmation!
'Kay, that’s all for now—we’ll be updating this with more info on these two as it drops.















